My girlfriend and I have been having sex for some time now and there has never once been a time i didn't hurt her.
That may sound bad...lemme explain
If its been a few days since we last had sex then I will tear the bottom of her vagina.
And no matter how turned on and wet she is, the instance she starts to hurt she loses that moisture.
She always told me I was a very thick man, but until recently I didn't think I was. I'm very happy to have discovered this forum and feel relieved to read about other ppl in simular situations.
We looked into a lot of options to help us. We're constantly using our saliva to moisten us...but that runs dry. I can go very slow and still hurt her.
I've grown increasing worried about this. The last thing I want during sex is to look down and see her bleeding and hurt. She says it's never horrible, but after too long she has to stop. I'm afraid that if i can't fix this we'll stop wanting sex all together.
We've tried every position we can think of. Most of which i have to keep my strokes shallow...otherwise her cervix bothers her.
I'm getting desperate. I'd appreciate any advice any has to offer me. My next step will be to try lub. But i don't know how much or what kind to get. She is very sensitive down there.
I need to research more comfortable condoms, and I'm considereing surgical solution. (I do NOT want surgery...but its hard to live with the idea that I'm doomed to hurt her)
Please help. And feel free to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org