Originally Posted by pieterjoke
Yeah, but you are always tight up with every issue mentioned here on the board.
I don't approve incest, but I can understand that guys always have a kind of band with their father and also curious about their father nude. Simple reason, the father is a rolemodel. The father is a grown op men, so kids are curious how they will look when they are older. Same with little girls watching at the mother her breasts when she is changing clothes and asking if they get such breasts too.
There is nothing wrong with being nude around your children as long it doesn't make them uncomfterable or you do it for the wrong reasons.
Thanks for your post. I agree 100 %. Why teach your son at at 2 that it is incest for him to see you in the nude? What are you trying to teach? All boys become child predators when they arrive at puberty? That is a real treat to teach your son! It is creepy in my book.
As for my dad. We lived in a "one tub, lavatory and the one toilet, all in the same room" house. There were two sons and two daughters. Especially when we were young, my father might be shaving, one of us sons in the bath and the other son was on the toilet. To get six people ready for work and school, it meant guys together and then the gals together or getting up an extra hour earlier.
However, we never sat around in the nude visiting for a while. There was no attempt to hide anything while changing. At puberty it was my decision to become extremely modest. My father respected that. I later as an adult became much less modest around my dad. The reasons had nothing to do with incest, but with me and that is another thread in itself.
From day one, the daughters went with mom to change and the boys went with dad to change at a swimming pool. In those days, guys were "required" to take a shower totally in the nude before getting into the pool and that included the ass crack and genitals. There were "monitors" there to see that all the boys clean their private areas very good before getting into the pool. Men were required to as well, but I don't remember an adult getting into trouble for not showering properly. Several boys were sent back for not doing it properly or trying to avoid the shower completely.
Considering how well some guys wipe themselves, it might not be a bad idea to reinstate that requirement.!!!
We were required to walk through an athlete foot medication going in and coming out of the pool. We had to rinse off before we changed, but as long as we rinsed well, we could take off our suits after showering. Most of us did it that way as we that was the easiest way to wash the chlorine off our swim suits.
I would say going swimming in a public pool with dad is "hanging out with dad." After all we were there several hours playing and swimming together in the water!!!