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Old 06-28-2009   #31 (permalink)
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Thank you ... Capt Garbonzo ... Yes, I did and ... I still cant believe Im still in here talking about dicks .

To answer your question .... NO ... How would I know if a white man have a BIG dick if he got his clothes on lol so I need to be attracted to him first, know him and then I can bravely ask him if he can get naked in front of me. Not all guys carry their webcams with them.

Anyway thank you for everyone's replies, all of you guys/girls have put in important points into it.

No matter how many times it is addressed, is never resolved. this is my response on my own entry, reviewing it from a typical Asian girl’s mindset.

There’s a running generalization now in our community that the most successful and most beautiful Asian women prefer to date White. We assume this after observing countless instances of successful, beautiful Asian women marrying White men. In our male-dominant male-centric tradition, we blame the Asian woman for the phenomenon. And in our minorities-are-the-victims tradition, we also blame White Privilege, White sexual imperialism, and the white-washing of the world that globalization has wrought–theories we use like a panacea to explain why any minority race may experience inequality in this world.
While I would usually be the first to hop on the White-sexual-imperialism bandwagon, in this case there is a smidge more at play…

For a number of reasons, Asian men have lost the confidence to approach the particular Asian woman they want to date, which is often an attractive, very well put together individual. Any woman they perceive as even remotely possibly maybe out of their league (i.e., any attractive, very well put together Asian woman), they will simply walk the other way and admire from afar.

Meanwhile, since these women really are attractive and very well put together by any measure, men of other races, especially White men, pursue them left and right. It thus makes statistical sense that these women would date White, because they’re not pursued by any promising candidates from the Asian race.

Both of my cousins, for example, happen to be drop dead gorgeous. They’re sociable, charismatic, highly educated, and can hold their end of the conversation on anything from classical music, literature, politics and philosophy to fashion and the latest gossip. For some reason, every Asian male who meets them immediately assumes they only date White men, and thus don’t even bother approaching my cousins. Meanwhile, they get a lot of attention from White men and since the litter they pick from consists almost exclusively of White men, they end up dating White men.

Asian men later see them hand in hand with White men and think, “Yep, I knew it. It figures.” My cousins then unwittingly perpetuate the generalization that Asian girls go for White guys. Truth is, they’re dating White because Asian men were too intimidated to ever initiate.

On the other hand, Asian women who, if I may put it delicately enough, are less than conventionally appealing to the typical Asian man, will still find avid fans among White men. (And the Asian fetish issue is beyond the scope of this post.) These women would have preferred to date an Asian man, but Asian men never gave them the time of day, while White men will. In retaliation of being repudiated by most of the Asian men they’ve crushed on throughout their lives, these Asian women openly scorn Asian men before the Asian men have the opportunity to reject these women.

Allow an oversimplified statement of the solution for the Asian male: Love, love, love your Asian sisters. Too many Asian men today automatically impose an almost irrefutable presumption against Asian women that these women are going to be treacherous against the men of their own race. I call it the self-fulfilling prophecy. Asian men push Asian women to date outside their race when they either: (1) allow their insecurity to turn into hostility against the women they think they can’t get but want, or (2) allow their idiocy to turn into hostility against the women they think they can get but don’t want. It’s all this hostility toward Asian women that’s turning us off from Asian men.

Of course all the usual suspects share culpability: mainstream media’s portrayal of the hero as a White Marlboro man in every tale depicting tragic minority communities; society’s postulation that any alpha male must be White or at least White-like; certain degrees of self-loathing from certain Asian women; and — who can forget — the crazy, overbearing, codependent-on-her-son Asian mother that every Asian male seems to come with. Yet I have faith that the Asian male can overcome all of these enumerated obstacles.

What I’m not so sure about is whether he can ever get over pitying himself and actually step up to be a positive, supportive and constructive component to our lives.


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Old 06-28-2009   #32 (permalink)
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bravestarr, is your avatar really you?

OK, now I'm surprised!
Whats with this place?

Dolfette says I am not a "Leg-Humper" (Yipee!)
but she also thinks I'm a twat!


Somehow, this place is less bright without the color RED.
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Old 06-28-2009   #33 (permalink)
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mmmmm maybe lol I'm a Ninja :P


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bravestarr, is your avatar really you?

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Old 06-28-2009   #34 (permalink)
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Your eyes are beautiful. If the eyes are the windows to the soul, then I have seen a glimpse of Nirvana in my quest for Enlightenment.
Or,
Damn baby, you fine!!!!

OK, now I'm surprised!
Whats with this place?

Dolfette says I am not a "Leg-Humper" (Yipee!)
but she also thinks I'm a twat!


Somehow, this place is less bright without the color RED.
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Old 06-28-2009   #35 (permalink)
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ty .... I do not have a soul ... I am just a NINJA lol slaying DickDragons lol

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Old 06-28-2009   #36 (permalink)
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Its the shape of you eyes and the eyebrows, so feminine. The clear skin. The way your hair hangs over...
I noticed it right away. It caught my attention.

I dont expect you to reveal yourself here, but so far, so good. Maybe we should just keep the fantasy going. Less is more. Can I call you Kitana?

OK, now I'm surprised!
Whats with this place?

Dolfette says I am not a "Leg-Humper" (Yipee!)
but she also thinks I'm a twat!


Somehow, this place is less bright without the color RED.
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Old 06-28-2009   #37 (permalink)
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Thanks for the reply, Bravestarr. FWIW, I live in the Bay Area whrere interracial relations are at an all time high. I still see the most beautiful asian women .........With asian guys. Most of the asian women I see with white guys are average or less attractive to me.

Of course you would not know if a guy is hung until you get him in bed but just a generalization that white guys are bigger. The odds of hitting the japckpot are better, so to speak. Like white guys think asians have tight pussy, which in my experience is false. Asian women seem to believe it, though. I can't recall how many times I have had asian women tell me that asian guys have small dicks to match asian girl's small pussy.

Doesn't really matter how tight she is, as long as she is horny and likes me, it's all good. Besides, I like BJs more....
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Old 06-28-2009   #38 (permalink)
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Kitana? Sure, the Princess of Edenia? --- just make sure you do not flirt around when Liu Kang is there :P

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Old 06-28-2009   #39 (permalink)
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Answering to bravestarr.

Thank you. I read your post above with great interest. I agree with your precise evaluation that why asian girls go for or are conditioned to meet white guys, and asian men become often ignored in dating game.

I am Korean who is now studying in Australia (Sorry for my English, by the way). I think the situation here is no less bad for Asian guys than Canada or even worse. May be because Australia is really outdoor-activity oriented society and Asian guys are generally a bit less endowed in body as a whole than other races. I once posted in this site a thread relating to the other way around (Asian guy - White girl). And one guy replyed with something like "there is a joke among white guys that you should commit suicide if you cannot steal a girl from an Asian guy." Even though it is a horrible joke, frankly I think it has some truth to some extent.

If I add my opinion on 'this phenomena' from my limited experience in Korea and Australia, I think the the botton line is women in general are attracted to power. It could be from materialistic things like money or big penis to more intangible things like confidence, bravary, or initiative. And in this contemporary world, white guys are more likely to have or be deemed to have qualities relating to power; Generally, they are bigger than asians in size and more educated than other races and the majority of the most powerful and wealthy regions now.

it is a norm in animal kingdom that powerful males get healthy and desirable females and humans just do it in more subtle and polite ways. Among guys, it is a kind of unwritten law that we should not complian if superior ones (for example, a handsome sport star in highschool, or later a lawyer who earns six figures) get a beauty. It is just natural among guys. And dating is the most obvious act of measuring your comprehensive level in a society. Asian guys tend to think white guys deserve asian girls if those girls want to because they are living in white based societies (UK, US, Australia, Europe) as a minority and many of them subconsiously think they are not in the same level as white guys.

As South Korea for an example, I think a white guy who can speak English get girls relatively easily. But if you are white but cannot speak English, then it is a bit more difficult and if you can speak English but not white is same. Because South Korea has been keen to survival (we are after all surrounded by the most powerful four countries in the world) and the society itself is extremely competitive. Then, if you speak English well in Korea, your chance of success is dramatically increasing. And the people tend to associate white features with wealth and success. So girls are natually attracted to a white guy who speaks English. I personally think womens are always better equipped in perceiving reality. However, girls in high society usually get married exclusively with Korean guys in the same league. (Maybe they can taste 'white' for an enjoy.)

All in all, the most devastating blow for a guy's self-esteem is not you suspect you are maybe inferior but actually experience it in the obvious way (like fighting) by being rejected because that officially confirms you are inferior without escape. So, in my opinion, that's why many asian guys tend to distance themselves from attractive Asian girls out of that fear.

By the way, I sense things are now changing in both ways. I think asian guys are becoming more competitive than before. First of all, Asian population is growing ever in especially English countires. For a physical part, when I go to a gym, there are always a bunch of asian guys working out madly. In addtion, the younger generation is much taller and muscular than the previous Asian guys. (I am 174cm and sometimes I feel a dwarf compared to other Korean fellows). And asian guys laballed geeks and nerds tend to excel in school performance and likely to become professionals later with fat money. And countries like China or India which are rising in the 21th century are located in Asia. If these things become much more viable in the future, they can boost Asian guys' confidence more I presume. And confidence is a must and prerequisite of approaching a girl.

In girls' part, more and more asian girls realize more than some white guys who approach them do not take them seriously. I have known some Asian girls who switch from white guys to asian guys after they realize this.

And for the white guys, if you pursue asian girls. why not. I actually an advocate of interacial date. But please treat them fairly. I have seen simply too many cases in which the guy's purpose of approaching an Asian girl is just to satisfly his sexual desires in exotic ways. One more thing. If you approach asian girls thinking they are going to be docile and submissive, you should think twice. One of the secret leading causes of the high divorce rate between white and asian couples would be that a husband initially thought his Asian wife would be docile but it turns out that she is as fierce and vocal (maybe in different ways) as a Western girl.
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Old 06-28-2009   #40 (permalink)
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Well said ... Korinaus .... but just to let you know I am already part Korean and part Welsh ......... born and raised in Canada ;)

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Old 06-28-2009   #41 (permalink)
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Well said ... Korinaus .... but just to let you know I am already part Korean and part Welsh ......... born and raised in Canada ;)
What a great combination! I envy you!
As for me, even though I am full Korean, I am learning English with a Canadian female teacher in Australia. So I think we share a bit. Cheers!
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Old 06-28-2009   #42 (permalink)
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I adore asian ladies with chinese being my favorite dish.
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Old 06-28-2009   #43 (permalink)
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They like to think Asian and Latino women are submissive and docile and will do whatever the man says.
Latino women submissive and docile. Apparently you have met many and haven't pissed one off.

Yes asian girls, in asia are less likely to confront you, IMHO, but they will get there way when it matters, they just do it in a different way.
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Old 06-28-2009   #44 (permalink)
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Don't be I've seen some full bloodied asian men that are still hot ... one guy that is drop dead gorgeous for me though is Akihiro Sato he is Japanese

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Old 06-28-2009   #45 (permalink)
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What is the deal with Western men's erotic obsession with the East?
I like small women, so it points me toward Asian girls, especially Fillipinas and Thais.

I love the long thick dark hair, high cheek bones, big dark eyes, olive skin, thin bodies, firm bodies.

For them an average westerner is rich. Here only guys like Billy Joel, who is short and not what I would call good looking, get the hot younger girls. In Asia, you can be a middle management guy and get a very pretty young girl because you make more in a month than they make in a year.

I have always had a thing for Asian girls, even when I was 25. Now that I am not 25 it is difficult for me to find a date here, especially with a girl under 35. In Asia, I could date a different girl every night for a year if I wanted, which I don't, I like one woman actually, and they could all be 25 or less.
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