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Why do men sometimes like to fuck women in the ass?

Originally Posted by Adam70 In response to a current threat asking women if they like getting fucked in the ass, I was wondering why some men like doing it? From that threat it seems that

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Old 07-22-2009   #16 (permalink)
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In response to a current threat asking women if they like getting fucked in the ass, I was wondering why some men like doing it? From that threat it seems that most women don't like it. So, guys,

... why do you like fucking women in the ass?
Well, as I explained in my initial post in that thread, my wife wasn't keen on the idea initially. But over time, she's definitely arrived to where she enjoys anal sex. Sometimes she'll ask ME to fuck her there, without the thought having crossed my mind!

It feels different. Don't get me wrong - I very much like vaginal sex with her. Vaginal sex can be rougher, faster, harder - anal, not so much (I have not idea how some guys/girls in porn can pound an ass that hard/fast and not hurt something). The sensation is entirely different, for both me AND her. The way my wife's vagina is when she's turned on, the first 2-3 inches or so are the tightest section. Well, sporting 8" wood like I do, and moving back and forth say, 3 to 4 inches (she likes it when I'm DEEP inside), guess what? The head of my cock isn't rubbing against the tightest portion.

Sure, she can "squeeze" on it by doing Kegel-type contractions. But she can only do that for so long before 1) she gets tired of it and 2) it starts to hurt me sometimes. (Ever thrust all the way back and try to go back into a vagina that's just contracted completely? Ouch!) Anal is different in the respect that the tightness is there the entire length of my shaft (not that I can always go in all the way - depends on how turned on and relaxed she is). But it's a different kind of tightness. Ever had someone give you a great blow job, and someone who was, well, still really good at it, but not the same as the other person? Yeah, well, anal vs. vaginal is sort of like that - it's... different. But both good.

Not to mention the fact that part of the reason I noticed my wife before we started dating was... her ass! She's got small breasts, and you know what? That's fine with me. I'm an ass man. I like her chest the way it is. So guess where I like to go every so often? In her ass. When the time is right, we both enjoy it, so we do that.

Oh yes, one other thing: Sometimes it's nice to come inside her without worrying about getting her pregnant. We have two kids, don't want any more. I can come in her ass without a condom on (nice thing about a monogamous relationship!), but I have to wrap up when I'm in her vaginally. She lets me know when it's a "good time" to be in her back there, and you know, we've never had an issue with cleanliness.

I don't have any less respect for those who don't want to do anal with a woman - to each his own. If you don't like it - hey, not a problem for me. I would just hope that those who don't enjoy it would respect those that do, and not think they're strange or weird or whatever. It's something different to enjoy, provided both partners agree and you perform basic hygiene before and after.

8 x 6 - I love how that sounds like an enormous piece of wood - like one that can't be found at your average lumber yard.
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Old 07-22-2009   #17 (permalink)
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I don't know... I've only had anal twice with one girl and it wasn't that great, I had a hard time getting it all in and then she'd hit me any time I moved-- even ridiculously slow. It was her idea and all she did was complain... probably why I didn't like it, but I still find it a huge turn on for some reason. Even just fingering her ass makes my cock throb like mad.

So, really, I don't know if I like anal anywhere near as much as I like the thought of anal.
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Old 07-22-2009   #18 (permalink)
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I think the thought of anal is probably the big driver with most men. Can I ask the straight guys - if you enjoy anal sex why not do it with a gay or Bi guy? I hate anal sex and would never have it again. :-)
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Old 07-22-2009   #19 (permalink)
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I think the thought of anal is probably the big driver with most men. Can I ask the straight guys - if you enjoy anal sex why not do it with a gay or Bi guy? I hate anal sex and would never have it again. :-)
1) because there is also a pussy attached to that body

2) it doesn't have hair around the anus (or not much)

3) fucking a man is different then fucking a woman.
Old 07-22-2009   #20 (permalink)
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Not sure - bums don't really do it for me :S
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Old 07-22-2009   #21 (permalink)
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There can be many reasons, depending on the guy;

- They like a tight hole
- They like the empowerment
- They like to keep their "bitches" humble
- They like it because it feels wrong to them
- They like it because its the one place their partner DOESN'T want them to put their dick
- They like it because they are really gay/bi but in the closet, and can't bring themselves to fuck a man so they settle for the anus of a woman which is the closest thing they are prepared to do, for now
- They like it simply because they simply happen to prefer anal sex to vaginal or oral sex

The list goes on...
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Old 07-22-2009   #22 (permalink)
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[QUOTE=dxjnorto;2238628]'Cause guys are fascinated with any hot hole they can find.[/QUOTE]Good answer, and probably accurate!

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Originally Posted by Adam70 View Post
In response to a current threat asking women if they like getting fucked in the ass, I was wondering why some men like doing it? From that threat it seems that most women don't like it. So, guys,

... why do you like fucking women in the ass?
I think it's a few things: #1 - They see it in porn and think they have to do it too.
#2 - The anus is much tighter than the vagina.
# - For many men it's the visua,l as much as the emotional feel of doing something taboo.


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Old 07-22-2009   #23 (permalink)
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It's fun, it's naughty, it feels good and because it's a power trip.
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Old 07-22-2009   #24 (permalink)
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because we like the empowerment and the squeezing...
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Old 07-23-2009   #25 (permalink)
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I only enjoy anal if a girl requests I do it and pleads for it. That means that she's done it enough to stretch the anus to the point it doesn't hurt and it feels pleasureable. Gay and bi guys stretch their asses and that's why they enjoy anal. If she doesn't like anal and she tried it once and decides she never wants to do it again, it's no biggie because I like the way the vagina stimulates the cock more than the ass as well. The inside of a vagina has ridges that stimulates the penis as it holds it. The vagina also has it's own lube. With anal, I have to rely on artificial lube.
You would want to make sex the most pleasureable experience for the woman as well so she would want to come back for more. If anal hurts, I wouldn't want to turn her off from having sex with me by forcing anal on her or she would have trust issues saying, "Ouch, wrong hole you asshole!".

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Old 07-23-2009   #26 (permalink)
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... because I haven't found a woman who could take my girth in the ass yet. In actuality, their probably not very experienced doing it in the first place. I hope I find one, one day.

Kobe Bryant's defense: "If the dick don't fit, you must acquit"
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Old 07-23-2009   #27 (permalink)
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Can I ask the straight guys - if you enjoy anal sex why not do it with a gay or Bi guy? I hate anal sex and would never have it again. :-)
That's akin to asking a perfectly straight female, "If you like getting eaten out so much, why not just have a woman do it?"

My answer would be similar to a response to that: I'm straight, and since it's not a member of the opposite sex, I subsequently have no interest in doing that with someone of the same sex.

Besides, in certain positions, I can still see my wife's vagina. I think it's pretty well established that men are largely visual creatures, so how exactly do you expect me to be turned on by seeing a dude's cock there, when I'm turned on by a pussy? Sure, I'm in her ass, but that doesn't mean I want to see a cock just below/above where I am (depending the position); I'm turned on by the sight of my wife's pussy.

Not only that, I may be an "ass man," but that doesn't mean I'm turned on by EVERY ass on the planet. I'm turned on by FEMALE asses - well, nicely shaped ones, anyway. Why would I be turned on by having my dick in a man's ass, then?

I guess I don't understand why someone would think that just because the orifice is the same, that the turn on would therefore be identical for a straight guy...?

8 x 6 - I love how that sounds like an enormous piece of wood - like one that can't be found at your average lumber yard.
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Old 07-23-2009   #28 (permalink)
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Peterjoke - an arse is an arse at the end of the day we all shit and fart out of it - therefore not much difference. And women's arseholes also have hair around them naturally - just like we have naturally hairy pussies - well unless you are a child anyway.

Perhaps if you are averse to shagging men's arse because it wouldn't let you feel so dominant and your partner would be as strong as you and able to fend you off if needed??? Could be partly why.
Anyways - there's no way I'd risk having an arse like a wizard's sleeve!
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Old 07-23-2009   #29 (permalink)
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Mgtihlah - going back to your straightness and aversion to men sexually, if that is the case naturally you are not sexually attracted to men because you cannot reproduce with them. A woman's arse is not a sexual organ but a digestive excretory one - therefore why would you want to have sex with it. Naturally there is no difference between you shagging a woman's arse or a man's.
As for being licked by a woman - yes it really would make no difference - they same process and the same end product to be honest.

Tell me do you enjoy having dildos inserted into your arse? I can assure you you'd probably enjoy it more than your wife does.
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Old 07-23-2009   #30 (permalink)
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Perhaps if you are averse to shagging men's arse because it wouldn't let you feel so dominant and your partner would be as strong as you and able to fend you off if needed???
Perhaps it's because he's not GAY and prefers to engage in sexual activity with women and not men.

No, that would just be too obvious wouldn't it.

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