"Fat sex"

cdog204 · 10-05-2009

I have never 'been' with a fat girl. I tend to like them very much on the skinny side. But there is definitely not any trend that I could cite for anything with women ranging from 90 to 130 lbs. I can say that the two size fours I have been with definitely liked being on top...

cdarro · 10-05-2009

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Originally Posted by Fleur

I steer clear of the evil women's magazines...but I'm not sure I'd call myself chubby, maybe a bit...but I'm losing weight right now/getting in better shape.

Oh hell, I like women who stick out in all the right places... a proper handful fore and aft, as the saying goes. At the risk of offending anyone, who wants teats on a stick? The vast majority of you are great the way you are!

BBWbunny · 10-19-2009

As a fat woman (5'7" and 330ish), I can tell you I've had enjoyable sex with men anywhere from average (5-5.5") to fairly large (8"+) and with other large women. Every woman I've been with has been built differently (both from each other and from me) and every man I've been with has been built differently(height, weight, width of hips, etc) and all that's really required is for both parties to be honest about what works and what doesn't and some experimentation.
If you're the kind of person who thinks anything but missionary position or doggy style is too kinky for you or that sex in places other than a bed just isn't right, then it may not work out. However, if you're willing to communicate and to be open to using pillows, kitchen tables, chairs, or whatever else comes in handy, then it can be a hell of a lot of fun and everyone will have a good time.
If it's something you're really interested in, then I suggest the book "Big, Big Love" by Hanne Blank (Amazon.com: Big Big Love: A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them (9781890159160): Hanne Blank: Books).

-bbwb

B_Principessa · 10-19-2009

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Originally Posted by Bbucko

I'm reminded of a line I saw on an on-line hook-up site that read:An ass like this don't come with a 30" waist!

Amen to that! I haven't had a 30" waist since Halston boogied at Studio 54.

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Originally Posted by Incocknito

Well fatter girls tend to be dirtier in bed, and tend to have bigger tits.

Do fat tits really count? Cause I have a friend who is 5'6" and about 290#. She has no ass to speak of, lots of belly and thighs, and wears a 44B bra. You would do well to scare up a handful of boob from her fat tits.
I'd rather have a dirty horny chubby girl than a stuck up skinny girl who is all timid and "unadventurous"

[QUOTE]Of course I had one skinny girl who was dirty but she was over the top dirty. Sucking my finger while I was fucking her, wanting me to pull her hair etc. There's no need for that.[/QUOTE]

That's what you call dirty?!? Finger sucking and hair pulling?

Christ, I'm guessing anal is out and you probably don't like public places or water sports either.

Odipherous Pitts · 10-19-2009

Although I've never had sex with a really fat woman I am going to go out on a limb here and make a guess on why so many of them appear (after reading this thread) to have more confidence and are more wild in bed than many skinny women:

I think that because they make not be as attractive to most men, or a head turner to most, they strive inside to make the most out of any experience they do have with men. They may push the limit to make it the most memorable experience for both of them in hoping that the guy will overlook her not so perfect physique and realize that she is not only a good person on the inside but a very wild and sexy woman too!

Again, this is only my guess and I would welcome hearing from BBW if this is true?

jayfromnyc · 10-19-2009

I love sex with fat women. After years of being with what society calls " normal sized women", I have finally decided to pursue only what I truly crave FAT women. I love the fleshy feel, they are great in bed, and usually have more "real" personalities. Just my opinion, but it is my opinion so there! J

Incocknito · 10-19-2009

NJ:

I know the difference between "fat tits" and "real tits". Plus I don't go for girls that are seriously overweight, just a little curvy/chubby. So there is no real danger of "fat tits" plus I know by looking if a woman is a C or D cup and if I see cleavage I can tell if the tits are going to be 'firm' or 'jelly'.

Regarding kinkyness:

Its just that I'd only known her a few hours and she was sucking my finger and asking me to pull her hair!

Obviously if its a serious girlfriend, we will try various things but not anal or watersports. We're British, you know!

But yeah, I likes me some chubby love. And girls love my chubby!

Haha...

MercyfulFate · 10-19-2009

I've had sex with a couple of bigger women, some of the best I've ever had honestly. Best blowjobs ever too.

My current girlfriend is curvy, not fat at all but just the way I like it.

I prefer a bigger girl over a super-skinny one.

B_Principessa · 10-19-2009

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Originally Posted by Most Muscular

Although I've never had sex with a really fat woman I am going to go out on a limb here and make a guess on why so many of them appear (after reading this thread) to have more confidence and are more wild in bed than many skinny women:

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Originally Posted by Most Muscular

I think that because they make not be as attractive to most men, or a head turner to most, they strive inside to make the most out of any experience they do have with men. They may push the limit to make it the most memorable experience for both of them in hoping that the guy will overlook her not so perfect physique and realize that she is not only a good person on the inside but a very wild and sexy woman too!

Again, this is only my guess and I would welcome hearing from BBW if this is true?

I think you are onto something as I have always felt the same way about chubby or plain looking men as well. They may push the limit to make it the most memorable experience for both of them in hoping that the girl will overlook his not so perfect physique and realize that he is not only a good person on the inside but a very wild and sexy man too!

Empathizer · 10-19-2009

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Originally Posted by HazelGod

Most of the really unabashedly sexual girls I've ever been with have been on the curvy side. Not "fat," mind you...but in the size 8 range.

Size 8 was "fashion-model thin" in the late 1980's, fyi.

B_Principessa · 10-19-2009

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Originally Posted by Empathizer

Size 8 was "fashion-model thin" in the late 1980's, fyi.

Thank you for telling his Godliness the truth! I was wondering when a size 8 became plump or even curvy.

I did runway modeling from 1991-1994 and as a size 6 I was too small for the sample dresses. They would often have to be pinned onto me. I'm not sure what the standard model size is now but I bet it's not far off a size 8.

latinluva · 10-19-2009

I call them women full figured. I love junk in the trunk. But there has to be shape, nice big curves.

Rubenesque · 10-19-2009

I'm a big girl - and don't feel any need to try harder to make up for the fact that most men won't find me attractive, and let me tell you why.... I don't fuck the "most" men of which you mention. I don't do being second best, so I go for men who really appreciate the larger curves I have on offer.

It always surprises me how some women feel the need to be rude about bigger girls, to put us down and attempt to belittle us in order to make themselves feel superior. What's the point? We aren't going to attract the same guys, so they don't have to feel threatened. Or are they just angry that we don't beat ourselves up about having an appetite?

Am I conventionally beautiful? Nope. But to some guys I am their idea of perfection. And we only need to find that special ONE after all :)

MercyfulFate · 10-19-2009

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Originally Posted by UKBBW_Denise

I'm a big girl - and don't feel any need to try harder to make up for the fact that most men won't find me attractive, and let me tell you why.... I don't fuck the "most" men of which you mention. I don't do being second best, so I go for men who really appreciate the larger curves I have on offer.

It always surprises me how some women feel the need to be rude about bigger girls, to put us down and attempt to belittle us in order to make themselves feel superior. What's the point? We aren't going to attract the same guys, so they don't have to feel threatened. Or are they just angry that we don't beat ourselves up about having an appetite?

Am I conventionally beautiful? Nope. But to some guys I am their idea of perfection. And we only need to find that special ONE after all :)

They're probably jealous of the larger tits, honestly.

Your size is perfect by the way, I wouldn't even call that "bigger".

bigbrick · 10-19-2009

Another vote for the larger gals. I had a girlfriend for a while in college with a model style body and it was like being in bed with a bicycle. If I'm going to be in bed with a woman, I like her to be luscious. If I want a hard body experience, I'll go for a guy.