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Do men find it more of a momentary thing, as opposed to women finding an emotional attachment? I have been with about five married women and it never fails, even though they were married, they

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Old 10-27-2009   #1 (permalink)
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Having sex with a married man/woman

Do men find it more of a momentary thing, as opposed to women finding an emotional attachment? I have been with about five married women and it never fails, even though they were married, they always get mad when they see you with another woman. Yet I have been with at least thirty to forty men and the man never really gives a shit, well cause he's married and in love with his wife and to most men it's all about getting a nut off and continuing with the day. Can anyone shed some light on this? I just wanna know if I am the only one who sees it this way.

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Old 10-27-2009   #2 (permalink)
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I don't want to put my head in the grinder and offend any of the few female posters we have here, but in my experience, women and men look at sex differently. For the most part anyways. Normally, to a man, sex can be completely divided from any other feelings of attachment. There may be momentary feelings of competition, but normally not outright jealous anger. Of course, as a straight man, I've never had a male partner, so I can't comment on that exactly except for my own encounters with women and accounts from friends. I normally didn't hook up with girls that were taken, just because it wasn't worth the inevitable drama in my opinion. But there were several occassions when I came to find out they were taken. Even though it was agreed before hand that neither of us wanted something serious, they always, ALWAYS flipped out once they saw me with someone else. I even had a girl curse me out at a local bar when she saw me, and she was there with her current bf! He wasn't close enough to hear obviously, but the fact that she was angry enough to risk spoke to how jealous she was. (or how crazy!)

If you are going to regularly sleep with women that are taken, then you should just get used to the fact that no matter what they say, emotional connection are going to be made.

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Old 10-27-2009   #3 (permalink)
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i've learned alot of lessons the hard way by sleeping with women who were married. it's can only turn ugly.no matter the situation.
feelings get hurt one way or another.i've been on both sides of this(the one who's hurt,and been hurt) it's something you have to expect going into this.
personally i don't recomend it. there were many of nights where i ran out of a house being chased by an angry husband who came home early(with me just wearing one sock)
or when i went outside my house(when i had one)to find my cars(when i had those too)scratched up,and tires slashed by a married woman i was with for almost 3 yrs,and the crazy part was later that night we fucked 4 times at her house while her husband was away on a business trip.
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Old 10-27-2009   #4 (permalink)
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my mother was cheated on, so it's safe to assume how i feel about it...

unless the married man/woman is in an open relationship.
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Old 10-28-2009   #5 (permalink)
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I have been a heavy business traveler since I graduated from college. I learned early on that if you are into hooking up with random travelers, some of them are going to be married or in some intense committed relationship. My attitude has always been that I don't want to know. As a single guy, that works for me. I don't want to imagine what problems that may have caused for various women that I have met at conventions.
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Old 10-28-2009   #6 (permalink)
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my mother was cheated on, so it's safe to assume how i feel about it...

unless the married man/woman is in an open relationship.

Even then, it can get very sticky; because you just never know when feelings will arise.

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Old 10-28-2009   #7 (permalink)
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Even then, it can get very sticky; because you just never know when feelings will arise.
Yeah, I agree.

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Old 10-28-2009   #8 (permalink)
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men are less emotional...for sure...at least most.....

OK...SO I AM NOT 20 SOMETHING...IF THIS IS A ISSUE MOVE ON TROLL!!!
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Old 10-28-2009   #9 (permalink)
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Even then, it can get very sticky; because you just never know when feelings will arise.
Well, I meant the ideal open relationship. Of course there's always circumstance.
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Old 10-28-2009   #10 (permalink)
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I've had married men get emotionally attached to me. But I think it would be easier for it to happen with women due to our nature.
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Old 10-28-2009   #11 (permalink)
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There's an old saying,"All woman want one man to give them everything. All men want every woman to give them one thing." I always thought that was true for alot of relationships...funny.

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Old 10-28-2009   #12 (permalink)
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I've had sex with married men on several occasions and I never see it as anything more than that.....just sex. Then again I'm not your typical woman.
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Old 10-28-2009   #13 (permalink)
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i find as a guy, there are a lot of women out there that don't care about relationship status of a guy, and only care about the physical aspect of it i guess. I can only speculate why some women don't seem to care that much so i wont.

And for whatever reason they seem to be very insulted when you turn them down because of being in a relationship. So although it might all be for a physical reason... they are still affected by the rejection emotionally in some way.

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Old 10-28-2009   #14 (permalink)
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when i'm single i prefer to date married/attatched women. no matter the situation its a cleaner break when i get bored or when the relationship has ran its course.
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Old 10-29-2009   #15 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by fgomes85 View Post
i find as a guy, there are a lot of women out there that don't care about relationship status of a guy, and only care about the physical aspect of it i guess. I can only speculate why some women don't seem to care that much so i wont.

And for whatever reason they seem to be very insulted when you turn them down because of being in a relationship. So although it might all be for a physical reason... they are still affected by the rejection emotionally in some way.
I think that's because they become angry at themselves for cheating and you're showing the standards they wish they had.

I've had sex with a lot of married guys. It's all about getting off; little more than glorified masturbation. A few guys I've seen a few times and we get along making small talk before and after, but there's no hint of relationship in it at all.

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