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Hi, New member here, I'm sure this question has come up before but I can't find anything exact. I've started dating a guy who says he's 9" and thick (yes he could be bullshitting). We've

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Old 11-08-2009   #1 (permalink)
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Q about taking a large penis for the first time

Hi,
New member here, I'm sure this question has come up before but I can't find anything exact.

I've started dating a guy who says he's 9" and thick (yes he could be bullshitting). We've talked and he says he'll take his time when we have sex. My question is as long as I'm aroused and wet he should fit right? I'm a little nervous that its going to hurt but I find the thought of being with a larger guy a turn on. My past boyfriends have remarked on me being tight - which was great for them and me but now I'm wondering if I'll be too tight for my new guy

Any advice on how we can make sure things go well and I'm not reaching for the ice pack!

Thanks
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Old 11-08-2009   #2 (permalink)
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The vagina will accommodate itself to any length. This means any man's penis will fill your vagina completely, unless you happen to come across a gentleman with no penis.


The vagina has the most remarkable capacity for lengthening if something is introduced into it gradually. So even this exceptional man who says he is a thick 9 inches can still make love to you, providing that he excites you properly and introduces his manhood with ease and slowly. If he does this, your vagina will lengthen by 150 or 200 per cent to accommodate.


I hope this helps! I think you'll be fine. Have fun!
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Old 11-08-2009   #3 (permalink)
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Ha... you've been cock-fogged. "Dating" or fuck-buddying? It seems like you're doing the former and he's doing the latter.

As for the tight pussy... get yourself some large dildos... one larger than the next. Work your way up. Even use a few to loosen up before he has a go at you...kinda like a guy jerking off before a date so he's not out there with a 'loaded gun' messing up his head... you know..."prep work".

Despite reading dozens of opinons on this site and others about guys getting all of their 8"+ into a girls vagina because of their consummate love-making skills which loosens up the ladies more than any other guys' skills... despite all that I've never seen any pornstar take all of the length of such well-known long cocks into their vagina. I'm sure you've seen it... long dong mostly in her with a good hand-length of it still outside...no grinding...just pole-ing. So don't worry if you can't take all the length. Loosen up for the girth. Make him make you horny enough to take it. Good luck and above all... -enjoy-.
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Old 11-08-2009   #4 (permalink)
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The vagina will accommodate itself to any length.
No not really. You should be able to accommodate a very thick cock with practice; hell a baby's head passes that way. Your vagina will lengthen a bit when you are aroused, but he may not be able to penetrate you with his entire length if his cock is long. And if he is 9" he is qualifies and having a long dick. I am very large and have never been able to go "balls deep" while having vaginal intercourse.

If he is long you will want to watch how deep he goes. If he penetrates you too far he will bottom out and hit your cervix with his cock head. Nearly all women find this painful. You can help control his depth by using a position that give you control of how deep he goes. My wife like being on her back, her leg together, with her feet against my chest. If I do get too deep she can easily push me back with her feet. I would also recommend using a good lube even if you do produce a lot of natural lube when you are aroused. After many years we rarely screw without using lude and she too get very wet when aroused.
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Old 11-08-2009   #5 (permalink)
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The vagina will accommodate itself to any length. This means any man's penis will fill your vagina completely, unless you happen to come across a gentleman with no penis.


The vagina has the most remarkable capacity for lengthening if something is introduced into it gradually. So even this exceptional man who says he is a thick 9 inches can still make love to you, providing that he excites you properly and introduces his manhood with ease and slowly. If he does this, your vagina will lengthen by 150 or 200 per cent to accommodate.


I hope this helps! I think you'll be fine. Have fun!
thats bullshit. vaginas dont automatically take any length shoved into them or any girth. I tear with regular sex regularly when i never did with smaller guys. NO matter how turned on i am or how gentle we are or how much lube we use.

have you ever seen women give birth? many of them need assistance getting the child out of their vagina. Because not ALL vaginas are magically going to take the size of a human baby, even after hours of pushing.

get a tape measure out and look at 9 inches in girth. highly unlikely on any man, even on lpsg.

So many 9+ inchers in length say they've never, or only encountered a couple of women who can take their length. they feel entirely cheated when they dont get to pound the shit out of some chick when they are fucking.

use your head dude and know what the hell you are talking about when it comes to vaginas and advice to women about them.

The vagina obviously expands and many are capable of doing so, but by no means does that speak for all women.

btw to the original poster, 9 inch girth is bullshit.

Life is a highway....well you know the rest.
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Old 11-08-2009   #6 (permalink)
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with respect to the op, she did say 9in AND thick, not 9in thick :P
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Old 11-09-2009   #7 (permalink)
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Thickness is the main concern not length. If you never had a thick penis before use lots of foreplay for lubrication, and you will dilate a little more. Use lube as well if needed. If length is a concern then well ... he wont get to bottom out (nothing you can really do here)... if you feel he is going to quick for you. Go on top and control the tempo and pace.

7"x6"

Just a simple educated guy. A bit shy though.
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Old 11-09-2009   #8 (permalink)
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with respect to the op, she did say 9in AND thick, not 9in thick :P
Yes... she said 9in AND thick...

9in thick - probably doesn't exist.
9in AND thick - rare, but does happen.

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Old 11-09-2009   #9 (permalink)
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I was referring to ms rouge's post above mine in particular, i should have quoted
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Old 11-09-2009   #10 (permalink)
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No not really. You should be able to accommodate a very thick cock with practice; hell a baby's head passes that way. Your vagina will lengthen a bit when you are aroused, but he may not be able to penetrate you with his entire length if his cock is long. And if he is 9" he is qualifies and having a long dick. I am very large and have never been able to go "balls deep" while having vaginal intercourse.
You are aware the vagina actually tears when a baby comes out, right?

I'm 'around'.
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Old 11-09-2009   #11 (permalink)
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Make sure you are fully aroused, however that works for you, get him on his back and mount him. This keeps you in control and you can work your way from there. Don't do anything fast, you can hurt yourself let alone him.

A link should support your point, not be your point.
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Old 11-09-2009   #12 (permalink)
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Make sure you are fully aroused, however that works for you, get him on his back and mount him. This keeps you in control and you can work your way from there. Don't do anything fast, you can hurt yourself let alone him.
you said it for me. if a gal indicated in foreplay that there might be a problem, I let her get on top and control the situation.
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Old 11-09-2009   #13 (permalink)
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No not really. You should be able to accommodate a very thick cock with practice; hell a baby's head passes that way.
I always have to laugh whenever a guy writes this. A woman's ability to give birth has absolutely no correlation to being able to accommodate a cock of any size. A woman's body goes through major physiological shifts during the labor phase that allows her body to birth the baby. As has already been noted here, that process still doesn't guarantee against pain and tearing in many women. The comparison of having a baby to taking a large cock is very silly.
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Old 11-09-2009   #14 (permalink)
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I was referring to ms rouge's post above mine in particular, i should have quoted
You're right, i did misread that 9 inch reference. None the less, most everything else i said still stands.

Life is a highway....well you know the rest.
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Old 11-09-2009   #15 (permalink)
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Ha... you've been cock-fogged. "Dating" or fuck-buddying? It seems like you're doing the former and he's doing the latter.

As for the tight pussy... get yourself some large dildos... one larger than the next. Work your way up. Even use a few to loosen up before he has a go at you...kinda like a guy jerking off before a date so he's not out there with a 'loaded gun' messing up his head... you know..."prep work".

Despite reading dozens of opinons on this site and others about guys getting all of their 8"+ into a girls vagina because of their consummate love-making skills which loosens up the ladies more than any other guys' skills... despite all that I've never seen any pornstar take all of the length of such well-known long cocks into their vagina. I'm sure you've seen it... long dong mostly in her with a good hand-length of it still outside...no grinding...just pole-ing. So don't worry if you can't take all the length. Loosen up for the girth. Make him make you horny enough to take it. Good luck and above all... -enjoy-.
'cock-fogged' lol. As for the other, ladies need some lovin' too.

Watched a fair bit of porn and yes, I know what you mean, doesn't help the thought of where the hell does all that goes!
And folks are correct I think my main concern is girth. Thanks for all the advice. Plenty of foreplay, lube at the ready, try to take him on top or follow willys' wife and kick him off-check.
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