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when i was younger every time i got with a girl they commented on my cock size or made alot of noise on the end of it, and i always thought this was jus wot

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Old 11-24-2009   #1 (permalink)
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My girl can't take it...

when i was younger every time i got with a girl they commented on my cock size or made alot of noise on the end of it, and i always thought this was jus wot all girls say...

but apparently not, 8.5 x 5 is big, i've been with my gf for 3 years now, and sex is more than just a drunken fumble, we know each other well, and sex is amazing, but she can't handle my cock, it's not the actual act of sex, she can take most of it fine, she struggles when i force it all in ;) but it's more about the fact that she's so sore afterwards that we can only have sex once a day, we use lube most the time but she still ends up sore

anyone got any tips, postitions or techniques that would help...?
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Old 11-24-2009   #2 (permalink)
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I am the same way. I'm 7.5 at 5.75, but what you can't do is force it all in. If your girlfriend is on top of you and slides down all the way, that's different, than you pushing it all the way. So if you don't want her to be sore, don't stick it all the way in.
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Old 11-24-2009   #3 (permalink)
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I am the same way. I'm 7.5 at 5.75, but what you can't do is force it all in. If your girlfriend is on top of you and slides down all the way, that's different, than you pushing it all the way. So if you don't want her to be sore, don't stick it all the way in.
harder said than done :p
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Old 11-24-2009   #4 (permalink)
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harder said than done :p
If you want sex more than once a day, it shouldn't be too hard
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Old 11-24-2009   #5 (permalink)
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Yeah I have the same problem.... what works best for us is to use alot of lube and do alot of foreplay

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Old 11-24-2009   #6 (permalink)
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you're not that thick, just stupendously long, you're bottoming out, apparently fairly hard, in her. either gonna have to get her so sexed up/horny/into it that hopefully her vagina expands completely, (which will be more difficult if you keep hurting her with it, she'll only tense more with each session if she only begins anticipating the post-pain), take it very very slow allowing her the majority of the control, or find positions where you get the sensation of your long cock being completely enveloped but its actually not balls in her, like from behind but with her legs out flat, closed so you're using as much of her butt as possible too. have her put a hand around the shaft to keep you from goin all the way in but still get teh squeeze. sounds like she's just not built 'deep' enough to take 8.5 which is not at all uncommon, just your length that is. maybe look to get your rocks off from things besides pen/vag penetration too so that the insistent urge to ram into her so you can cum isn't as great

definately not an easy thing to deal with. i'm not near as long as you but my wife is built in a way that i can cause her pain, keepin control of that deep URGE and NEED is tough, good luck!
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Old 11-24-2009   #7 (permalink)
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Yeah I have the same problem.... what works best for us is to use alot of lube and do alot of foreplay
cheers man, this is our tactix atm

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If you want sex more than once a day, it shouldn't be too hard
dunno what ur like but i fail like most men and tend not to bother myself with the consequence of my actions whist on the job
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Old 11-24-2009   #8 (permalink)
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you're not that thick, just stupendously long, you're bottoming out, apparently fairly hard, in her. either gonna have to get her so sexed up/horny/into it that hopefully her vagina expands completely, (which will be more difficult if you keep hurting her with it, she'll only tense more with each session if she only begins anticipating the post-pain), take it very very slow allowing her the majority of the control, or find positions where you get the sensation of your long cock being completely enveloped but its actually not balls in her, like from behind but with her legs out flat, closed so you're using as much of her butt as possible too. have her put a hand around the shaft to keep you from goin all the way in but still get teh squeeze. sounds like she's just not built 'deep' enough to take 8.5 which is not at all uncommon, just your length that is. maybe look to get your rocks off from things besides pen/vag penetration too so that the insistent urge to ram into her so you can cum isn't as great

definately not an easy thing to deal with. i'm not near as long as you but my wife is built in a way that i can cause her pain, keepin control of that deep URGE and NEED is tough, good luck!
thanks
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Old 11-25-2009   #9 (permalink)
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There is another way and that is to wear a silicone cock ring from pumptoys you can also stack them until you get the right depth
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Old 11-25-2009   #10 (permalink)
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This has been a problem for my wife and I since we started having sex, and I am an inch smaller than you...

The key is to work together to begin the penetration process. Extensive foreplay helps tremendously, as well as patience on your part as you begin to penetrate her. We have also found that certain positions are better than others for full penetration.

Just be patient and work together. If you both care for each other, you will work this out. Good luck!
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Old 11-25-2009   #11 (permalink)
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when i was younger every time i got with a girl they commented on my cock size or made alot of noise on the end of it, and i always thought this was jus wot all girls say...

but apparently not, 8.5 x 5 is big, i've been with my gf for 3 years now, and sex is more than just a drunken fumble, we know each other well, and sex is amazing, but she can't handle my cock, it's not the actual act of sex, she can take most of it fine, she struggles when i force it all in ;) but it's more about the fact that she's so sore afterwards that we can only have sex once a day, we use lube most the time but she still ends up sore

anyone got any tips, postitions or techniques that would help...?
My experience is that most girls are turned on by having the sore feeling the next day. I also think it's super hot if a girl mentions that I made her sore in a good way (usually means she wants to come right back over too lol), but of course I try and be as gentle as possible at all times and I just do exactly what she wants me to do.

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I've only had one girl ever flat out tell me the next day that she absoutely didn't want to have sex with me again because I had hurt her. Funny thing is, I was being very gentle (at least I thought I was) and it was by far the WORST sex of my life!!

We literally had sex for about 15-20 minutes max and she was asking me every 30 seconds if I had come yet while pushing my thighs away. Then for whatever reason she wanted to try doggy instead of missionary as if that would hurt less... and after about 5 gentle thrusts she called it quits for good. I didn't even get to come and she said she came! She was really wet the whole time so I have no idea what the problem was still to this day.

Lastly, she just wanted to sit there afterwards and talk and rub my hair and shit... all to spring that on me the next day!

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Old 12-15-2010   #12 (permalink)
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i love the feel when a tight chick is runnin her nails down my back......ohhh it's tight but its in!!!
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Old 12-17-2010   #13 (permalink)
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"Only" once a day?! Boo-hoo. Find a hobby to keep you occupied during the down time.
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Old 12-17-2010   #14 (permalink)
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I have had this problem with my lady as well. I seem to have an insatiable appetite for sex as my lady gets me going just being next to me. LOL! However, what works for us is to vary our sex acts. Maybe one day we do mutual masturbation or we do oral only or maybe we incorporate toys...whatever it maybe. It still fulfills her needs and mine without her feeling as though she has just gone 12 rounds with Mike Tyson and all he did was punch her in the vagina!

Conversation with my penis:
Why is it you always gotta be standin up
Or rub a dub, your like what's up
Have woman kissin on your head and stuff
Why is it you never ever seem to have enough
Why can't you ever go to bed and just chill?
Actin all ill, showin off your skill
Always tryin to make me go against my will
Why is it you always up in someone's grill
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Old 12-19-2010   #15 (permalink)
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i'm starting to think that some people just aren't physically compatible with each other - it sounds depressing but i'm going through the same thing myself - i think some people are just better matches for each other physically than are others - penis size is sort of of similar to vegan vs. carnivore / smoker vs. non-smoker, etc., except unfortunately it is one thing we can't change
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