Originally Posted by sprout
I'm asking for advice from women BECAUSE I am a woman. Yes, his large size is an issue, but my main concern is that anal sex is new to me and I'm looking for advice on how to get started from WOMEN who have been in my position. I also asked for women to respond only because (as expected) many men on this forum seem to be quite rude and unhelpful. I'm just looking for some friendly help and advice. That's all.
This is a discussion forum. You'll have good and bad, get used to it. Learn to be more tolerant as there are many people on this board willing to help.
An anus is an Anus. Everybody has one. The muscles work the same way.
The only advantage a womans anus has over a man is the ability to let off the silent deadly farts, capable of peeling wallpaper and causing an invisible death cloud for the unknowing open mouth passerby.
Foreplay is your friend. Lots of it. Lots of lube. Don't rush.
If he is indeed that large, than it is going to be a SERIOUS challenge. Not something an anal virgin is going to be able to do out of the shoot (poop shoot that is... har har har).
You need to do some serious anal play before you even attempt to take something that big.
Otherwise it could mean a trip to the hospital for you, if you rip your bowels open.