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Anal sex advice - ladies only please!

Hello ladies- My man and I are planning to experiment with anal sex, and I'm looking for some advice from my fellow LPSG chicks. He's big - 10 1/4" tip to base, 7 1/4" girth.

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Old 01-16-2010   #1 (permalink)
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Anal sex advice - ladies only please!

Hello ladies-

My man and I are planning to experiment with anal sex, and I'm looking for some advice from my fellow LPSG chicks. He's big - 10 1/4" tip to base, 7 1/4" girth. Any suggestions for how to get started? Been doing some reading on the forums, but I'd love some frank, honest advice from my gals with personal experience. I'm obviously a little uneasy - I'm basically an anal virgin and want to make sure it's a great experience for both of us. Thanks in advance for the advice!
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Old 01-16-2010   #2 (permalink)
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No offense, but are those measurements for real?

I've never shoved anything that big up my ass, and I don't think I ever will.

That's not to say it is impossible - far from it. I would seriously recommend though that you start with something considerately less girthy. Maybe you'll be able to work up to taking that girth in your first session of trying, maybe not. But if your butt is truly virgin turf I think trying to relax on to a 7+ girth would be quite difficult.

First time I tried anal was with a guy who was (roughly) 6x4.75 - I couldn't do it. That was a combination of not enough lube and, once it had hurt a little, being unable to relax.

Play with toys for a bit first - lots of lube. Work your way up.

EDIT: btw - I think you may do better asking some of the gay guys here for advice on anal with larger girths. There are probably more 'bottoms' here than women and, within that group of men, probably more size queens - anally speaking. I don't see why taking advice from women only is better when you're more likely to find a man who has had a similar experience.

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Old 01-16-2010   #3 (permalink)
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that dick size sounds huge?! best of luck
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Old 01-16-2010   #4 (permalink)
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That sure wouldn't be the first thing I put up my ass. I am a great fan of anal and I never got past 6.5" after all these years..and that is still a lot.
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Old 01-16-2010   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ManlyBanisters View Post
No offense, but are those measurements for real?
I'll answer that question for you.... No.

And since "she" is willing to lie about something like that...

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Old 01-16-2010   #6 (permalink)
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Gulp! Never done it, but that would not be what I would start with, dear!
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Old 01-16-2010   #7 (permalink)
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I'm asking for advice from women BECAUSE I am a woman. Yes, his large size is an issue, but my main concern is that anal sex is new to me and I'm looking for advice on how to get started from WOMEN who have been in my position. I also asked for women to respond only because (as expected) many men on this forum seem to be quite rude and unhelpful. I'm just looking for some friendly help and advice. That's all.
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Old 01-16-2010   #8 (permalink)
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I'm asking for advice from women BECAUSE I am a woman. Yes, his large size is an issue, but my main concern is that anal sex is new to me and I'm looking for advice on how to get started from WOMEN who have been in my position. I also asked for women to respond only because (as expected) many men on this forum seem to be quite rude and unhelpful. I'm just looking for some friendly help and advice. That's all.
Sure you are... and your husband has the biggest dick in the world too.

No busco acuerdos, no busco paz. En contra así nací
Niego creencias y a los demás. Auguro que vencí.
Ruptura interior. Me alejo ahora sin dolor.
Ruptura en mí. Ya no importa nada ha sido así.
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Old 01-16-2010   #9 (permalink)
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I can only say start small, use a lot of lube and wash EVERYTHING afterward.

Because I am such a clean freak, and because I find anal very ho-hum, I don't do it anymore.

I'm into wood... can you catch my drift?
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Old 01-17-2010   #10 (permalink)
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I would recommend you start of with fingers, toys, plugs, for the first few times. Plenty of lube too. Then gradually start to introduce your man a little at a time.

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Old 01-21-2010   #11 (permalink)
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Sorry I'm not a girl but I feel compelled to warn you. I've been trying anal sex with my gf for about a year now. Usually I only get a couple inches in and she says "ok stop I changed my mind, it hurts too much", and Im only 6x4.5(ish) hard. We've tried it about 10 times and her butt doesnt seem to be getting any looser considering she bled the last 2 times so we have since given up. If you can take 10 by 7 your in the wrong profession, if you know what I'm sayin. But good luck anyway.
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Old 01-22-2010   #12 (permalink)
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The dick size sounds a bit elevated, but let me know how you get on...
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Old 01-22-2010   #13 (permalink)
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ok....i'm not an anal sex virgin but I dont have much advice. What I can say (which you and your bf probably already know) is to go slow. My first time was painful. I was just 18 and I thought my ex whom was 21 was cheating on me (which I found out he was about a month later) so I called his ex gf whom he had spoken to earlier and confronted her. In the end I still couldnt prove it and he got really mad. A few days later we were having makeup sex and he must have still been somewhat mad. We were fucking doggystyle when he took it out and rammed it in my ass. It was horrible. I begged for him to stop. When he pulled it out he has blood on his dick. I wanted to almost cry. He had asked me on previous occasions for anal sex and I said no so he knew exactly what he was doing.

My current bf wants to have anal sex. He's always given me exactly what I want (rough unless I ask for him not to be) and he says he'll go slow but I still turn him down. I'm scared to do anal.

My best advice.....go slow and use KY. Asses unfortunately dont make their own moisture.

And oh, if he takes it out your ass and put it into your vagina you can get a vaginal infection. It didnt happen to me but I do know that.

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Old 01-22-2010   #14 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sprout View Post
I'm asking for advice from women BECAUSE I am a woman. Yes, his large size is an issue, but my main concern is that anal sex is new to me and I'm looking for advice on how to get started from WOMEN who have been in my position. I also asked for women to respond only because (as expected) many men on this forum seem to be quite rude and unhelpful. I'm just looking for some friendly help and advice. That's all.
This is a discussion forum. You'll have good and bad, get used to it. Learn to be more tolerant as there are many people on this board willing to help.

An anus is an Anus. Everybody has one. The muscles work the same way.
The only advantage a womans anus has over a man is the ability to let off the silent deadly farts, capable of peeling wallpaper and causing an invisible death cloud for the unknowing open mouth passerby.

Foreplay is your friend. Lots of it. Lots of lube. Don't rush.

If he is indeed that large, than it is going to be a SERIOUS challenge. Not something an anal virgin is going to be able to do out of the shoot (poop shoot that is... har har har).

You need to do some serious anal play before you even attempt to take something that big.
Otherwise it could mean a trip to the hospital for you, if you rip your bowels open.

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Old 01-22-2010   #15 (permalink)
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Along with what everyway else has said, get your pussy really well fucked first (to orgasm!). It relaxes that whole region of your anatomy.

Also, there is a lot of variation in response to anal. For some its easy first time - for some its never easy. So go at your own pace.
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