Originally Posted by vlls
I dont think its because theyre trying to get knocked up
Its because they get caught up in the moment and dont want the continuity to be ruined by putting condoms on etc... it also feels better for women without the condom because that way they can get your natural lubrication... also... as far as your first gf is concerned, some women just find it extremely hot to cum in them
but Mr. Fak_et has already expressed his discomfort about ejaculating inside his partners and his concerns about pregnancy. he's choosing to use condoms/pull out for his own piece of mind, if the women continue to persist or try to skirt around his comfort level their behavior isn't sexual anymore it's disrespectful and totally suspect.
yes, i'd say i prefer the boy to cum inside me, that moment feels absolutely amazing. i still wouldn't pester or deceive my way into getting what i want. i care about any sex partner on a very basic level to think my immediate satisfaction is worth dismissing their personhood and right to say no. is tacky and crazy bitch behavior to act any other way.
his first girlfriend is on the pill, so Mr. Fak_et might be a bit over cautious... that might be an underlying trust issue. still, he's got to be comfortable with his own actions and his choice is condoms or pull out.
flipside.. if i told a man i wanted to use condoms and he tried to sneak/oops penetrate without a condom i wouldn't be a happy camper. same with if a man tried to cum inside of me after i said it wasn't an option.