Size preference, length, girth discussions

I'm not talking about a flaccid penis. I'm talking about an engorged penis that does not get very hard but is hard enough to be inserted. You see a lot of large penises in porn that fit in this category. They are bendy to a pretty good degree. Smaller penises seem to be much stiffer. That is not to say there aren't very large, very hard penises out there.

Other than "whiskey dick", which never leads to sex, I have never experienced a soft penis. Nor would I want to, but have, as well, watched porn with that going on.

My primary requirement for a partner is that his penis is stiff and it feels rigid while in me. In my view, a guy is never too hard until that moment when our timing falls off.

So ranking the penis in terms of importance for me:
1. Rigidity/Tumescence
2. Staying power/Skills
2. Girth
3. Length
4. Aesthetics

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I'm quite certain three is a magic number.

Evidence:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GA69pmhrBiE

I don't think that means what you think it means.

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Some women suffer from a condition called Cephalopelvic Disproportion, which basically means that the baby won't fit down the vaginal canal. Before modern C-sections, women with this condition died during labor. Yuck!

Very true - small factual correction on the hormone relaxin. I'm not trying to nitpick, just trying to drive home the point that preparation for labor takes at least 28 weeks from the time Relaxin peaks.

According the what I just recently read, a woman actually begins creating relaxin from the moment she gets pregnant and her levels continuously increase until Week 14, where it remains at the peak level until birth at Week 40-42 (more than 9 months!) Her ligaments, veins, and skin all begin stretching long before birth. For this reason, women who continue working out while pregnant are warned that certain exercises are dangerous for our knees because the ligaments are looser, and pregnant women must be careful when stretching, because we become very flexible. Pregnant women's vaginas are also become stretchier and can take a larger penis, which we're both looking forward to.

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Interesting stuff:
Video of a woman's brain during orgasm

Doesn't explain fisting, huge egg plants, .... or huge dildo videos. You see ridiculous girth being taken but really only 6-7 inches in depth. I think rightly most women avoid this kind of extreme experience (for health reasons mainly) and that it is a practice that reflects a woman's temperament. I remember learning some weeks ago that some women can actually have an orgasm during child birth given the right environment. BTW (by the way), I'm not talking in absolutes just generalities.

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My personal experience so far is that his fist doesn't fit. We've begun practicing fisting in preparation for labor, and even with Relaxin in my body, I'm still at the three finger stage, which isn't comfortable and definitely isn't pleasurable.

Different women are different sizes, and some of those women may have spent years with large objects stretching themselves out. I'm just speculating. I have no idea how they got so big.

I'm a skeptic about the orgasm during labor stories. Sounds like stories from delusional women to me, which is likely during labor. It's a delusion producing experience. When a man tells me that he orgasmed while passing kidney stones, then I'll believe the orgasm during labor stories. Some men orgasm from getting kicked in the balls and some women are masochistic, so maybe it's like that. I have no evidence, I just doubt it.

Worthwhile:
The Capital-T Truth

Be a Romantic Fool:
How did you meet?
Adorable Proposal Video

Fun stuff:
Sucking cock used to mean something different
Irony Punctuation
I like big butts and I cannot lie but is there some evolutionary reason as to why?

Interesting stuff:
Video of a woman's brain during orgasm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvdVixCkv1I

1)Youtube vid with orgasm from delivery.

2)Congrats on your pregnancy.

3)These women stretch out and yet start from a normal size vaginal opening. There are even videos of anal sphincters stretched rather widely. I'm sure it is practiced/acquired didn't say it wasn't.

This is just morbid curiosity/sociological study for me and not really interested in participating. :0)

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Masochists. I've seen a video where a guy gets kicked in the balls by attractive women until he orgasms. He smiles the entire time. It's not for everyone.

I'll let you know if I think it's pleasurable but I can't orgasm if he thrusts too deep because of the pain, so I doubt that I'll be able to orgasm with labor pains and my vagina getting stretched to the tearing point.

Like I said, different women have different sized vaginas just like men have different sized penises. See the "How Deep is Your Pussy" thread for a very long discussion about it.

Worthwhile:
The Capital-T Truth

Be a Romantic Fool:
How did you meet?
Adorable Proposal Video

Fun stuff:
Sucking cock used to mean something different
Irony Punctuation
I like big butts and I cannot lie but is there some evolutionary reason as to why?

Interesting stuff:
Video of a woman's brain during orgasm

In the end, to my logic it seems most women must have a larger girth capacity, even when not on relaxin, than depth capacity. And that though women prefer girth its unlikely anything but a freakishly thick penis will test their limit.

And of course there are differences in vaginas and their capacity. I'm simply talking in generalities.

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Damn, that' crazy.

I bet she's had kids!

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I've never had preferences, but I do have limits. And I do reach them every so often. And he knows it and he knows when to be careful. Ten days on the road he comes home - be careful. In the hot tub with a few glasses of wine - not so much. The little purple pill? He better be on his best behavior!!!

Seriously, I've never had anyone that I would consider small, and I would never, ever say "you're smaller than my last lover - that's nice." But I can comment that "you're larger than I'm used to." Fortunately, I don't have to use either line any more. I have no idea what his girth is, but a few months ago we read about the dollar bill test, yeah, you can only stretch a dollar so far.

Girth is good, but then there's too much, too. As for having a baby, right, I want to go through that again every time I make love. Come on! You can't be serious!

Interesting thread. It would be good to see a few more female responses, but those so far tend to confirm what I have long believed which is that many (perhaps most) women consider the ideal penis size to be something a bit above average (say 6.5" x 5.5") but not massively so. And that seems to hold true even for those visiting a "large penis" site.

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