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This has been one of the questions that I have always pondered over. Over the years and throughout relationships from high school to college it has been a habit of mine to engage in mutual

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Old 05-09-2005   #1 (permalink)
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This has been one of the questions that I have always pondered over. Over the years and throughout relationships from high school to college it has been a habit of mine to engage in mutual masterbation with my partner.

Sometimes we engaged in the masterbation over the phone (phone sex), on the computer (cyber) other times it is in the same room just watching one another. I personally like to watch, hear, imagine the other person orgasming. Don't be fooled though I much prefer the actual intercourse, but mixing it up from time to time keeps it hot. I am such a pleasure whore that I always force my partner to take multiple turns before achieving orgasm myself.

Anyways....Ladies & Gents, do you engage in mutual masterbation? Is it something that is fun for you? Is it sometimes hotter than actual intercourse? Are you a pleasure whore or do you like to be the one obtaining the pleasure?

-LongNights-

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Old 05-09-2005   #2 (permalink)
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My masturbation frequency diminished gradually since my first sex - fucking a woman is just better than just fucking your hand. However, mutual masturbation can be a very initmate kind of foreplay - me and my l/f practice it from time to time, often involved in what we call "mirroring", with us sitting on our haunches on her bed (or whereever we have sex), and mirroring each other's motions, so when I reach for her chest, she does the same on me, and when I reach for her lower body and apply pressure on her pelvis, rub her labia or stroke her clit, she does the same on my body (equivalent parts). We don't do it all the time, but when we are in a very sensual mood, it's a great experience.

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Old 05-09-2005   #3 (permalink)
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Originally posted by BruceSter@May 9 2005, 12:02 PM
My masturbation frequency diminished gradually since my first sex - fucking a woman is just better than just fucking your hand. However, mutual masturbation can be a very initmate kind of foreplay - me and my l/f practice it from time to time, often involved in what we call "mirroring", with us sitting on our haunches on her bed (or whereever we have sex), and mirroring each other's motions, so when I reach for her chest, she does the same on me, and when I reach for her lower body and apply pressure on her pelvis, rub her labia or stroke her clit, she does the same on my body (equivalent parts). We don't do it all the time, but when we are in a very sensual mood, it's a great experience.

Bruce

Mirroring, sounds hot. Think I will need to try that in the near future.

-LongNights-
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Old 05-09-2005   #4 (permalink)
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Originally posted by BruceSter@May 9 2005, 04:02 PM
My masturbation frequency diminished gradually since my first sex - fucking a woman is just better than just fucking your hand. However, mutual masturbation can be a very initmate kind of foreplay - me and my l/f practice it from time to time, often involved in what we call "mirroring", with us sitting on our haunches on her bed (or whereever we have sex), and mirroring each other's motions, so when I reach for her chest, she does the same on me, and when I reach for her lower body and apply pressure on her pelvis, rub her labia or stroke her clit, she does the same on my body (equivalent parts). We don't do it all the time, but when we are in a very sensual mood, it's a great experience.

Bruce
You are undoubtedly the sexiest dude of the forum, BruceSter. I don't dare miss any of your posts :excl:
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Old 05-09-2005   #5 (permalink)
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Masturbation is nothing without U.

Seriously, I've engaged in mutual masturbation before, with both men and women, though not both at once. Phone sex with women, although I have discussed sexual fantasies about certain women with men over the phone while we were both masturbating. (I don't know if that counts as phone sex or not, even though we did sometimes have MFM threesomes in these fantasies.)

Actual intercourse is better, but the nice thing about sex is the variety.
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Old 05-09-2005   #6 (permalink)
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Originally posted by jonb@May 9 2005, 03:58 PM
Actual intercourse is better, but the nice thing about sex is the variety.

Praise the Lord and pass me some new tail!

-LongNights-
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Old 05-09-2005   #7 (permalink)
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Mutual masturbation can be an incredibly good change of pace in lovemaking. Whether you masturbate your partner, or yourself while your partner watches, it's a great variation that helps keep things from becoming routine. Watching your partner is also a great way to learn what works best for him/her. My wife and I have done this for years and find it very enjoyable, especially when you have a second round that finishes with intercourse.

BruceSter, I love the concept of "mirroring". It's something I'd never thought of before. The wife and I are going to have a go at it tonight, so thanks for an excellent idea!

B-man
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Old 05-09-2005   #8 (permalink)
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I once walked in on ex-hubby while he was masturbating and it sort of freaked me out. It just seems like such a private moment to me so it's nothing I've shared with anyone. Yet.
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Old 05-10-2005   #9 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Bananaman@May 9 2005, 02:32 PM
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BruceSter, I love the concept of "mirroring". It's something I'd never thought of before. The wife and I are going to have a go at it tonight, so thanks for an excellent idea!

B-man
You're quite welcome - feel free to tell me about your experience with it. Be sure to take your time for it, the longer it lasts, the better it gets.

Bruce
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Old 05-10-2005   #10 (permalink)
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I will be doing at some point. Female masturbation is such a turn on!
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Old 05-10-2005   #11 (permalink)
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Bruce--

All I can say is WOW!
Without going into detail, I'll tell you that both of us loved it. We made it last about 2 1/2 hours & were both ready to explode (which of course we did :D in one sense) by the time we were finished.

The wife suggested one variation, which was to do a true mirroring. In other words, whatever I do to myself, you do to yourself. If one partner is the "leader" they have the option of reaching for the other whenever they want, or on the other hand, going back to stimulating themself, thus controlling the pace.

Anyway, it's early to bed tonight! Thanks again, from both of us!

B-man
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Old 05-11-2005   #12 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Bananaman@May 10 2005, 05:37 PM
Bruce--

All I can say is WOW!
Without going into detail, I'll tell you that both of us loved it. We made it last about 2 1/2 hours & were both ready to explode (which of course we did :D in one sense) by the time we were finished.

The wife suggested one variation, which was to do a true mirroring. In other words, whatever I do to myself, you do to yourself. If one partner is the "leader" they have the option of reaching for the other whenever they want, or on the other hand, going back to stimulating themself, thus controlling the pace.

Anyway, it's early to bed tonight! Thanks again, from both of us!

B-man
I'm glad it worked so well between the two of you - and yes, it's sexually very loading. I think I might try your version of it too next time - sounds good too.

Why's it early to bed tonight? Another mirroring, or are you so exhausted from last night?

Bruce
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Old 05-11-2005   #13 (permalink)
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Some real great discussion in this thread and some lovely new ideas. I will be trying the mirroring and 'leader' based method ASAP. I will report back when I have details of the experience.

-LongNights-
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Old 05-11-2005   #14 (permalink)
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The closest I've come is giving a handjob while being fingered with an ex-boyfriend, but I guess that isn't masturbation. I have two close male friends that have masturbated in front of me several times.
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Old 05-11-2005   #15 (permalink)
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Bruce--

Why early indeed! I'm only gonna give you one guess.....

Tomorrow night I'll sleep. (Well....maybe.)

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