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Originally Posted by picadurapreta I'm not exactly pee shy, but I'm very modest in real life business plus I'm always afraid to get a hardon at urinals so mostly I use the stalls. I'll try

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Old 06-28-2010   #76 (permalink)
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I'm not exactly pee shy, but I'm very modest in real life business plus I'm always afraid to get a hardon at urinals so mostly I use the stalls. I'll try to use urinals more often, now I've decided to overcome general modesty, but its a long term thing...
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Old 06-28-2010   #77 (permalink)
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Yeah, there have been several good threads on this subject already. One of my earlier comments is here.

In the 2 years since that comment, I have distilled my paruresis into this: to effectively use a public voiding scheme -- be it a row of urinals, a trough or a lineup of guys pissing against a wall or through a fence -- you actually have to want to be there. Looked at the other way, if you dread being there or desperately wish you were alone, then it's gonna be hard as hell to take a piss in public.

Yeah, I tried all the "foolproof" methods -- doing square roots in my head, fixating on a spot on the wall, staring at my own cock, not staring at my own cock, and humming The Star Spangled Banner. Nothing worked. Until one day, I said to myself, "You're going about this all wrong. Imagine instead that this is the place you most want to be in the world. There's no rush, it doesn't matter if anyone's looking or listening, it doesn't matter if you pee or not. It's not intimidating; it's collegial. Just really, really want to be right here, right now. Relax and enjoy the moment." Bingo... it's worked ever since.
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Old 06-29-2010   #78 (permalink)
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Proximity in urinating is very much a cultural and class thing. People of Anglo-Saxon (hate the definition but it is in use) are inclined to keep a greater distance apart than say people of Southern Europe and the Middle East. Upper classes are less inclined to hide their penis with the hand when peeing in urinals.

I have personally observed that in the US military, officers will never urinate alongside an enlisted man, yet European officers and from the higher classes would think such behaviour as snobbish and unmanly. I am from a horsey family and as a kid attended many horse and agricultural shows, where the conveniences for men were usually a canvas marquee where the trough was literally that, roofing guttering held up 60cm from the ground by metal stakes every metre or so. As a nipper I couldn't reach, and recall the first time I entred unaccompanied a chap in hunting pink had to hold me up so I could tinkle. No one was embarrassed.

The weirdest urinal I ever made use of was in the court house of a sleepy southern town in the US: for some obscure reason the 19th century iron urinal was mounted on a 3 metre long plinth, so you had to step up about 25cm to use it. It was empty when I called in but was somewhat disconcerting as the open court house holding cells were right next to them.

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Old 06-29-2010   #79 (permalink)
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I'm still extremely pee-shy. Starting to work to overcome it though...baby steps. I don't really remember being pee-shy until high school...until that point I don't think I ever used urinals and would always go for the stall, but I never thought anything of it and was just fine with it. High school I remember freshman year using a really exposed urinal by the sink with other kids waiting...that went fine and was actually one of my first urinal experiences, but after that being pee-shy became a huge issue.

Somehow it got worse throughout high school...one summer I went camping with friends and they all decided to pee in a steam while I just awkwardly stood there...later I had issues peeing and it was embarrassing but they didn't say anything about it. Later in the night however, I was actually pretty fine peeing in the woods. Juniors year I started trying to overcome my issues...tried to use urinals in school when bathroom was empty, etc. I also started to have issues going in stalls, afraid what others would think about me standing up in a stall in the first place (and not using a urinal).

Still having issues, they fluctuate between better and worse. When I'm with people I know, or peeing somewhere in my community where someone could know me, I have issues. If I'm at an amusement park or somewhere not near home, I'm generally fine, knowing whoever "judges" me will forget me in 10 minutes. Granted, I still avoid urinals at all costs and these situations are in stalls. I explained this poorly.

Recently I ran into another issue in which I was at a friend's house and it was super quiet and he was close outside the door...I couldn't start for some reason, afraid of the sound or something idk.

I guess I've had issues with peeing throughout my life, although the first 10 years it was because I wet the bed at night (or wore Pull-Ups or whatever). I went from one extreme to the other :(. Hopefully taking gymfresh's outlook helps in the future...just saying it doesn't matter how long it takes to start or who's listening.
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Old 06-29-2010   #80 (permalink)
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I used to be worried then I became an show off, esp. after my piercing. But all thru HS never used the bathroom then in college I turned. I rub the underside of my head, frenum and it gets the stream going. It also gets you sort of plump so that helps. I love the football games around town, so many guys drunk pissing in the long trench style urinal. Funny to watch newbies come in and wait in line to pee. It also kills me the number of guys that go into a stall, shut and lock the door then pee standing up.

New Orleans has the best bar urinals I have seen. One place towards the end of strip has the urinal like a tiles wall right by the hall. The place had no door and the ladies waiting in line can see right there. I did a lot of left hand pissing that night showed my cock off to as many as I could.

My general train of thought is this:

If either one of us have something we have not seen then ONE of us have a problem. Hope its not me. lol.
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Old 07-01-2010   #81 (permalink)
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It's called paruresis. Happens to me all the time. Even after I've started going, if someone pulls up next to me, the stream gets thin and slows. So there are muscles involuntarily tightening up inside. It's embarrassing as hell, because since the inability to pee may make me look like a perv (just standing there with my dick out), it shrinks to even smaller than when swimming in cold water. No fun.
I blame it on my mother (of course, right? lol). When I was like seven, I went to pee after taking a shower and it stung. So I called mom into the bathroom to ask her wtf; she had no idea what could be wrong, so she sat on the edge of the tub and waited for me to pee again to see if it still hurt. Nothing came out - foreshadowing my adult life, for sure. Had she not been divorced, my dad would've said something to the effect of, "You just got a little soap in the hole. No problem." Oh the damage done by ignorant women.
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Old 07-01-2010   #82 (permalink)
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Grateful that this is not an issue for me. Why? Perhaps having grown up on an estate peeing outside whenever the urge presented itself, having a brother who used to love to have "sword-fights" with piss stream. Troughs in elementary school boy's room, mandatory jock checks and showers in gym class and thus used to being naked with other guys? Who knows but again, I'm grateful and do love a good piss at any kind of urinal whether anyone else is present and /or watching or not.
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Old 07-02-2010   #83 (permalink)
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I don't like urinals. Even with a cock that may be 6'' more in flaccid length (that vary) In urinals i'm feeling that i'm too close to the bowl and afraid of splashing because the strength of the pee. Another reason is the odor of the urinals. Disgusting to smell. I've used to see urinals that are always yellow and never flushed enough. I rarely pee upright, only in the wild forest. I think that peeing upright doesn't empty the bladder correctly. Peeing squatted works well.
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Old 07-03-2010   #84 (permalink)
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Recently I ran into another issue in which I was at a friend's house and it was super quiet and he was close outside the door...I couldn't start for some reason, afraid of the sound or something idk.

Hopefully taking gymfresh's outlook helps in the future...just saying it doesn't matter how long it takes to start or who's listening.
Perhaps those of us who have had problems with this can help eachother overcome it by sharing our experiences and what has helped each of us. I can relate to the stagefright issue when standing to use a toilet in a private home due to the noise the pee will make if other people are in the room just outside the door, especially females. Until 2 years ago, I always sat to pee in a private home to avoid making noise. My friend and her 15 year old daughter hang out with me every weekend, and I still sit to pee when they are here. Mom doesn't care when she pees and doesn't shut the door. L.O.L.! I admire her lack of inhibition.

For many years, I've wished that I could pee at a toilet standing without being hung up about the noise that the pee makes when it hits the water. I've been jealous of guys who can pee loudly without caring who hears them. Some of my guy friends and their sons piss with the door open at home and don't give it a second thought, even when the female members of their family are there. Reality check: I'm way too hung up about it and need to get over it. So I started to stand when urinating at home a few years ago. At first I did it when I was home alone and enjoyed the novelty of listening to it and watching the foam form from the bubbles. I'm usually okay standing to pee if it's just me and the guys, but if there are women around and it's very quiet, I'll usually sit to avoid the stagefright issue and get the job done. A few times I've left the door open and peed loudly into the water when just the guys were here after they did it first. It's actually liberating!

I used to be paranoid to use urinals in a public bathroom, have largely overcome it, but still have issues from time to time. I have no problem at all with nudity, so it has nothing to do with people seeing my dick. It was always the issue of not being able to relax enough to release the flow, especially if someone was behind me waiting for me to finish. In every case, once the flow starts, I'm fine and it won't stop until I'm done. Now I love to use urinals, and I actually like to be in the process of peeing at a urinal by the door and someone will open the door giving those in the hallway a view of me in action. Outdoor peeing has never been a problem for me since I was a kid because all of us did it.
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Old 07-03-2010   #85 (permalink)
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Umm I go into the bathroom to piss. I use whatever is closest and available. I don't care who looks, who see's my cock. I'm there to piss and leave.
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Old 07-03-2010   #86 (permalink)
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I've never had a problem with urinals, but public toilets are fucking disgusting.

If I hafta piss its fine and doesnt make a difference.

I hate sitting on public toilets, I use like sixteen rolls of toilet paper as an ass-gasket on the seat.

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Old 07-25-2010   #87 (permalink)
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I found it !!

When I was there the splash guards were not there, so you saw everything !!

The Urinals of Bar 38
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Old 07-25-2010   #88 (permalink)
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Gert--thanks for the picture and link! I was just telling my boyfriend last night about this place--having seen the picture before--and was going to look for website today and here is pops up!
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Old 07-25-2010   #89 (permalink)
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when I was a kid I was quite shy and rarely could urinate outdoors, then once I tried it on some summer vacation and my parents made a prank with me and took a pic. after that I never dared to pee outdoors. might sound silly but that's just how it is. then in the army I just had to do it infront of everyone and had difficulties, would stand with my cock out and not a single drop would come out of me. quite frustrating. but later on I got sort of used on it and would work. today I can pee at urinals only when I am drunk (not to say pissed) haha
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Old 07-25-2010   #90 (permalink)
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I found it !!

When I was there the splash guards were not there, so you saw everything !!

The Urinals of Bar 38
That looks like the console in Doctor Who's TARDIS!
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