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My gf wants to have a threesome with my big dicked friend....and I do too?

So my gf found out about my friend's huge dong - it's like twice as big as mine:(, and floated the idea of a threesome with him. I really have jealousy issues with him and

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Old 06-19-2010   #1 (permalink)
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My gf wants to have a threesome with my big dicked friend....and I do too?

So my gf found out about my friend's huge dong - it's like twice as big as mine:(, and floated the idea of a threesome with him.

I really have jealousy issues with him and I guess I'm a little worried my gf will realize that I suck in bed compared to him.

However, I also have come to terms that I am kinda attracted to him and his penis. I've walked in on him self sucking a long time ago and it really turned me on.

So basically I'm trying to weigh do I go ahead and try to do it, risking my feelings of worthlessness with my gf, but rewarding my sexual urges with him.
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Old 06-19-2010   #2 (permalink)
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I think if you are going to do a threesome, you have to be secure in yourself and you may not be. However, it maybe a way for you to explore a fantasy and you may learn about yourself.
tough call here
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So my gf found out about my friend's huge dong - it's like twice as big as mine:(, and floated the idea of a threesome with him.

I really have jealousy issues with him and I guess I'm a little worried my gf will realize that I suck in bed compared to him.

However, I also have come to terms that I am kinda attracted to him and his penis. I've walked in on him self sucking a long time ago and it really turned me on.

So basically I'm trying to weigh do I go ahead and try to do it, risking my feelings of worthlessness with my gf, but rewarding my sexual urges with him.
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Old 06-19-2010   #3 (permalink)
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At least one person will get emotionally hurt from this, I think.
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Old 06-19-2010   #4 (permalink)
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i wouldnt if you have these feelings!
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Old 06-19-2010   #5 (permalink)
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This is a though decision man.
A gf who proposes a threesome can seem really hot, but if you're in the position yourself, it can be really hard.

I wouldn't do it if you really have these kind of feelings. What if your gf gets more and more attracted to his cock after you had this threesome?
But on the other hand, I understand you don't want to prevent her from doing things...

Just really talk about it with her and explain why you don't like it, this avoids any fight.

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Old 06-19-2010   #6 (permalink)
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See I would do it for me but like you fear that I would lose my gf over it. But if youre good together then there shouldnt be that kind of a risk really.

You need a realistic middle point between blind trust/commitment (that the threesome is not going to harm you at all) and your fears (that as soon as your friend is involved its all over.)

Because I have no emotional involvement in this I would be tempted to say if your gf would really leave or whatever so easily and for such a reason,, you may as well have fun with the threesome and find someone better if she does . But I know I would not have that opinion if it was me.

I would be exactly where you are...
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Old 06-19-2010   #7 (permalink)
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At center here -- a few questions for the OP. Is your relationship with your girl friend solid or just a temporarily comfortable arrangement? Are you comfortable with your sexual self? Do you enjoy sex with others and do they appear to enjoy sex with you? Do you sense that your friend with the big dick would welcome any more overt relationship with you? Is it really important to you that either of these relationships continue?

Given what you've said, your relationship with your gf might be about to change. Might end. Is she the sort of person who might end the relationship because she saw another guy with bigger shoulders or a tighter ass than you, or bluer eyes or curlier hair or a higher income or an greater interest in quantum physics? She's going to see more of the world every day. She will always evaluate you against what's out there. Will she continue to choose you? Every relationship faces this question. If she's interested in trying out other cocks, she may not have settled on a mate just yet. Or, she may have settled on you, but wants an open sort of relationship that includes exposure to sex play that simply does not occur when you are both together. There is no obvious way forward, but it seems to me that she is curious and, at some point she's going to learn what she wants to know. You may as well be prepared for that happening and decide on your own if this is a relationship that you want to continue, and how hard you are going to work at making it work for both of you.
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Old 06-19-2010   #8 (permalink)
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just tell you want a threesome with another girl in return for this me and my girl swing all the time with no issues we fuck who we want to fuck no issues
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Old 06-19-2010   #9 (permalink)
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What I would tell the guys before I joined in, (if it was their first time) make sure you want to do this. Once I join you, you'll always remember it. Every time you want to go down on her, you'll remember I was there also. Not from an ego point of view, any guy who had her, he'd always remember it.

So think carefully about it. Can end a relationship. Or just keep it as a fantasty between you.

this? well, yes, i guess it is big! I got it from my dad. Thanks dad.
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Old 06-19-2010   #10 (permalink)
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How old are you? Do you see yourself with this girl long-term? Has she 'been around' yet, or is she still fairly new to things?

This is the brutal honest truth. Don't read if you don't want to have your hopes smashed down.

In my experience as the bigger guy (yea, I know I'm not huge by any means - but bigger than most) the girl in this scenario typically ends up losing interest in her boyfriend. Not because she isn't attracted to him anymore, but moreso because she tends to think back to the huge guy and what she's missing.

This of course, is on the assumption she enjoys the big guy. I have also had girls complain of farrr too much pain, so the 'draw' to a big one in those girls is gone.

Basically, let's hope your gf doesn't enjoy your huge friend otherwise yea, she'll continue dating you but when you have sex she'll be thinking of him.
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Old 06-19-2010   #11 (permalink)
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I guess I should also include some pretty embarrassing info. My friend in question dated an ex of mine - this was during college several years ago. And she basically made it public knowledge that she was in ecstasy with my friend cause he lasts a long time and has like a donkey dick and cums a lot. So she makes me feel like shit cause I'm none of those things.

So ya I'm worried about my gf realizing that she should be with him and not me. But then I start thinking about my odd attraction to his dong and wonder if he would do anything with me/let me do anything to him. Confused I guess....
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Old 06-19-2010   #12 (permalink)
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But, you still didn't answer some of the very important questions that have been asked.

You're new here, but you will find out that many of the folks here really want to help you to make a completely thought out decision. However, if you really want to be able to do that, you have to be honest. Some of the members have asked you some very good questions. Now, if you really want help in this matter, go back and read, come back and honestly answer, and we can go from there.

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
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Old 06-19-2010   #13 (permalink)
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Go ahead....let him fuck the shit out of her with that big fat cock. You know you want to watch it. Doesn't sound to me like your relationship is going to last anyways. Might as well get a good fantasy out of the deal! Who knows, you may end up wanting him after you see his junk in action. Good luck!!
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Old 06-19-2010   #14 (permalink)
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Wtf? Why would you float this idea?
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Old 06-19-2010   #15 (permalink)
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How big is he and how big are you?
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