Originally Posted by instynctive
I agree. Leave. Unless you can get them into therapy and on meds...
You will eventually be in an impossible situation and it will end anyway. Save yourself some emotional scarring. I'm almost 3 years out of a 3 year relationship with someone with uncontrolled bi-polar and borderline personality disorder. I'm still trying to heal.
I hear you.
My ex was an uncontrolled bi-polar person with full-blown personality disorder. He couldn't make up his mind if he was straight, gay, bisexual, bent, or crooked. He couldn't make up his mind who (or what) he wanted to fuck on a daily basis so he fucked anything that moved. Couldn't figure out if he was a Switch, Dom, or submissive. It was maddening! I never knew where I stood with them and they made sure to keep me that way.
Many with this disorder are also Sociopaths....manipulative and unpredictable. It's always about them, they're never wrong, the world is out to get them, blah, blah, blah.
I'm almost 2 years out of that 3 year relationship. And I've never been more happy with my life, surroundings, and the family and friends that I have.
To think, I almost let him and his uncontrolled psychosis' ruin my life!
Run, don't walk, from someone with this condition. Especially if they're in denial and unmedicated.