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I always try my best to giv my boyfriend a good blowjob, but it's difficult to handle all his shit, do you guys hav any suggestions/ways 2 take on more etc.etc?

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Old 09-23-2010   #1 (permalink)
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giving good head??

I always try my best to giv my boyfriend a good blowjob, but it's difficult to handle all his shit, do you guys hav any suggestions/ways 2 take on more etc.etc?
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Old 09-23-2010   #2 (permalink)
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you mean take more dick in your mouth? whats gonna fit is gonna fit, you can work on ur gag reflexes but my girl has been trying to deepthroat me for years and its just not gonna happen.
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Old 09-23-2010   #3 (permalink)
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well other than that, i mean more in terms of 'pleasing' him, like anĄ tricks 4 suckikng a big dick? he doesn't like me focusing so much on the head so, idk any ideas on that i gues s
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Old 09-23-2010   #4 (permalink)
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he's an ass, dump him
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Old 09-23-2010   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by tgirlsrgreat View Post
he's an ass, dump him
Hahaha. I sort of agree.

Unless you're completely awful at giving blowjobs, he sounds too demanding.

Stick the whole thing in your mouth but avoid the head???
Asshole.

Falling in love is such an easy thing to do.
There's no guarantee that the one you love,
is gonna love you.
Everybody plays the fool sometimes.
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Old 09-23-2010   #6 (permalink)
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I like to deepthroat, and found that the best way to take on more is to practice and not back off when the gagging starts. I don't mean to sound gross, but it's a smart idea to be sure that your stomach is pretty empty, i.e. not right after a meal, so that as the body reacts you won't accidentally make a mess. Don't forget about staying well hydrated, too. The mouth and throat are wonderfully self-lubricating, if you aren't parched.

As for technique, first think about simple square peg/round hole relationships. How does his cock curve, if at all? Be sure that your throat is aligned to accept that bend. If he curves upward, you might do better in "69" position. If it bends downward, then you below him is probably better. If he's straight as an arrow, you may need to straighten your throat by craning your neck.

Once you think you've taken all that you can, then comes the fun work. The back of your tongue is creating a sharper bend in the throat and a narrower one, too. I like to extend my tongue as far outwards as I can, reaching for his balls, then use it to sort of "pull" more cock into my throat. That will flatten the tongue in the back of your throat, making more room with every lick. Then keep doing it again until he says "Holy shit! Where did you learn that?!?" Even if you can't go all the way, the tongue massage, especially if it's under his frenulum, will drive him nuts.

Have fun, and remember, if the gagging doesn't go away, at least you'll build up a tolerance for it and he's sure to enjoy the deep massage his head gets every time you spasm.

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Old 09-23-2010   #7 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by rob_ View Post
Hahaha. I sort of agree.

Unless you're completely awful at giving blowjobs, he sounds too demanding.

Stick the whole thing in your mouth but avoid the head???
Asshole.
Or, without jumping to conclusions - he's very sensitive around the head and excessive attention can become painful?

Pussy - the best thing to do would be to ask him what he wants. You can learn every trick in the book to surprise him with, but unless it's a trick he likes, it's not going to make much difference. That said, fooobar's tips sound awesome. :D
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Old 09-23-2010   #8 (permalink)
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Well damn girl, that’s the only thing we guy cocksuckers got going for us; we tell ‘em it takes a man to know how to do it right.

Anyhow, you’re in Illinois and I don’t go there much, so I’ll break the code of silence.

Having a cock – and using it - actually does help when it comes to knowing how to suck one.

You mentioned something about the head which FashionVictim correctly picked up. The heads of our cocks are so nice looking – I think – and who wouldn’t think that it’s the place to give all the attention. But, although stimulation there can be somewhat pleasurable, too much really, really, REALLY, is too much. Even if it feels good, it is not good in an orgasmic way.

Think about how a guy’s penis might feel to him when you are making love. Actually the tip isn’t necessarily getting much friction any place; it’s along the sides. And boy is that great.

So it is if you want to give a guy a great blow job.

Do you have a “g” spot? BTW, does “g” spot mean “girl” spot? I always wondered about that. Well I have a “b” as in “boy” spot. I hope this part doesn’t embarrass. Probably by masturbating during adolescence, I who uses my right hand, caused my pecker to bend – or curve – a bit to the left. Using my right hand, I use the top of my first finger on that right hand to slid up the shaft and rub the underside of my corona – I think this is the frenulum – to hit the perfect spot.


But here's the really important part. It's the left of my pecker - under the corona - where that finger of the right hand gives the best massage. That's my spot.


FWIW, I always check the curve of a guy and give a little added attention to the underside on the side to which it curves. And BTW, I've never had a guy not cum.

So. Does you guy’s pecker curve? We don’t need to know the answer. If it does, suppose it curves to towards the left, which is the most common, while you are sucking him, use your hand to help – this is going to be your left hand unless you’re really good at this, to do exactly what I say. Slide that first finger up there under that corona. It'll be on your right in my example. Maybe you’ll be touching his “boy” spot.

Another thing, while we guys like to get some pleasure before we’re going to cum – sometimes called edging – and he might enjoy you’re sucking the whole thing as best you can, and doing different things, when the time comes to get off – and guys don’t necessarily take forever – he’s going to want you to get into a rhythm.

While you are pleasuring him, but before trying to get him off, see what you think about using your tongue on the under side of his shaft to support the massaging you are doing. I happen to really enjoy using my tongue, which helps. Again the full head is too sensitive, but that section under the “pee slit” is a really nice place for pleasure.
A third thing some good suckers do is to create a suction action. You need lots of saliva, you do not want to go way deep. Create the suction using your lips on the upper shaft, on the frenulum letting go as you come up on the corona of the glans [the head]. You will probably not want to use this method to get him off, because it can get tiresome and maybe even be too much for him, but I wouldn’t introduce this quite at the start, but use it near the middle of my “project.”

And, here’s the point, I will use this suction method to try and discover – as well as establish – the rhythm that we’re going to set to get him off.

Rhythm is so important; it’s like a trust thing; he needs to know what you are going to do before you do it and that your are going to continue to do it, so that his body can get with it to organism. I can’t have an orgasm without getting in to it. I need to know that it’s going to continue.

As a guy, who is on top when making love, I hardly have this problem. But if getting blown, suppose the other person just suddenly quits, or changes hands, or pattern, damn, I’m lost.

Don’t lose him.

Tell me, did you ever listen to Bolero the symphony by Ravel? You know how that rhythm starts off real slow and then gets faster. It could be the theme song to a blow job. Except not exactly,. Anyhow the point is that not only is there a rhythm, but there can be a gradual increase to the rhythm as he starts getting excited, but like Bolero, the increase has to be predictable – reliable.

The way it’s different, is that you can’t just keep getting faster. He’s going to have a top speed so to speak.

One thing I think. Sometimes in porn, I’ll see women bobbing the heads up and down. It makes sense to me that they think this must be what a guy wants. It’s like she’s trying to use her mouth in place of her vagina like what it might be when a guy is humping.

But blow jobs are not a kind of screwing; blow jobs are an enhancement of jerking off. Every guy who jerks off might wish his right hand could be warm and wet; when he gets a blow job it’s like it is.

Good luck and what ever you do, have a good time.

Last edited by Chase1600; 09-23-2010 at 11:27 PM..
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Old 09-23-2010   #9 (permalink)
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For my money depth is not that relevant except as a visual thing. It is hot. The part that matters in terms of getting off it the head and upper shaft. In sex shallow with the head popping between your pussy lips is the most pleasurable. A bj should simulate this with the head and upper shaft popping in and out to work for me. As above, the frenulum is important and if you combine tongue action there while sucking its exquisite. The most important thing besides area of focus is consistent rhythm and sufficient pressure though. Men aren't into variation as much as women and my biggest gripe is when something is working, women stop or change their technique spoiling the buildup to climax. If he's responding, keep doing it unless he indicates he wants something else.
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Old 09-24-2010   #10 (permalink)
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Like Chase said. Hit the frenulum! Tongue, lips, give it your all. And, if his head gets sensitive, try long, slow, soft movements. A lot of people think head needs to be hard, fast and lots of suction. There are lots of guys out there, guys with really sensitive cocks, who prefer to feel it all.

Good luck!
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Old 09-24-2010   #11 (permalink)
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run your teeth up and down his hard shaft, giving little light nibbles, suck his balls whilst you massage the 'V' under the head of his dick using his precum as lube, then aback up his shaft before you tease the head of his dick with your tongue.
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Old 09-24-2010   #12 (permalink)
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wow, Chase1600... I need to be taking notes, lol
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Old 09-24-2010   #13 (permalink)
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let's see what he is packing, otherwise you are just a poser

p.s. i still stick to my dump him vote
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