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So...I'm a 21 year-old male. About a year or so ago I thought I was completely straight. However, one day I was perusing the internet and came across this site dedicated to large dicks. (Not

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Old 09-27-2010   #1 (permalink)
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Big cock fetish?

So...I'm a 21 year-old male.

About a year or so ago I thought I was completely straight. However, one day I was perusing the internet and came across this site dedicated to large dicks. (Not this one.) I found myself getting aroused while looking at them. Few months later I was jerking off to large dicks, and not feeling any shame about it.

But here's the problem, I find the male body disgusting, and I don't think I could ever have actual sex with a guy. I just find huge, fat cocks a turn on.

Am I 10% gay, or what?
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Old 09-27-2010   #2 (permalink)
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Only you can answer that question, BBW Slayer, but why is it necessary to label? Since most of us are social individuals, naturally liking or disliking others, it's a matter of degrees and kinds of affection. A major deciding factor that you state, however, is your finding the male body disgusting. Had you stated that you find the female body disgusting, I think there would be no question regarding your label.

Many str8 guys, even long married ones who dearly love their wives, keep them happy with sexual intercourse, and have a driving desire to fuck, still admire and envy the large penis. Having this 'liking' won't change their "label".

I hope this helps.
Old 09-27-2010   #3 (permalink)
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Interesting post ... I guess most of us on this site have some sort of "Big cock fetish"... otherwise why are we on LPSG?

I'm a happily married man and have had great monogamous sex with my wife for 30 years.

I love when my wife and I share sexual fantasies... often involving big dicks. But they are always heterosexual.

I love fantasizing about sexual prowess and big dicks. Well endowed men making women horny and desirous of the male is a theme throughout much of the erotic fiction I have posted on LPSG.

But I have never had a gay experience nor do I fantasized about being sexually active with another man -- though some of the most popular stories I have posted on LPSG are gay themed.

I'd like to see how other members of LPSG respond to your question.

I don't consider myself gay, but love fantasizing about big dicks and male sexual prowess.

My wife knows I like it when she talks about my dick and how it satisfies her. Big dicks are part of my erotic fantasies but I don't think that makes me gay...

not that there is anything wrong with that...

that Avatar is a big white cock...
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Old 09-27-2010   #4 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by RoysToy View Post
Only you can answer that question, BBW Slayer, but why is it necessary to label? Since most of us are social individuals, naturally liking or disliking others, it's a matter of degrees and kinds of affection. A major deciding factor that you state, however, is your finding the male body disgusting. Had you stated that you find the female body disgusting, I think there would be no question regarding your label.

Many str8 guys, even long married ones who dearly love their wives, keep them happy with sexual intercourse, and have a driving desire to fuck, still admire and envy the large penis. Having this 'liking' won't change their "label".

I hope this helps.
Well said. For more recent discussion on similar perspectives see the recent thread The question of if being gay is a choice
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Old 09-27-2010   #5 (permalink)
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Human sexuality is such a wonderfully fluid phenomenon. We feel sexual interest/response to different things at different times and for different reasons. There is nothing fixed or stagnant about our psycho-sexual make-up, labelling is quite useless really, i guess it has some limited social value however. Enjoy the variety of sexual interest you have and at the same time enjoy being a happily, faithful married man.
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Old 09-27-2010   #6 (permalink)
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i think that i like to watch porn with guys in it that have huge cocks because the women love it in the movies that i watch it gives them pleasure and that turns me on.
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Old 09-27-2010   #7 (permalink)
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Not to be pedantic, but a fetish involves sexualizing an inanimate object such as women's shoes or leather. Objectifying a large penis is a sexual compulsion, not a fetish.

Jus' sayin'

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Old 09-27-2010   #8 (permalink)
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BBW Slayer i'm not sure I would label you anything specific. I don't think there is anything wrong with thinking about large cocks. And I assume its very common hence why it's so common to have straight porn actors with extremely large cocks. If straight males are the main consumers, and they want men with real big dicks in the movies it leads me to belive most men (at least common porn watchers) like seeing a big penis to some degree or another.

I know I personally enjoy it when girls im with, or talking about sex with, talk about a guy they were with who was packing a huge cock. Everyone may not like it but thats ok because we are all here enjoying different things.
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Old 09-27-2010   #9 (permalink)
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For me, it's all about comparrison: Is he bigger that me?
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Old 09-27-2010   #10 (permalink)
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whenever I hear fellas say they are turned on by cocks but find the rest of the male body "gross" or "disgusting" -

just as a fella did in another very recent thread - it sounds kinda like overcompensating to me, and maybe some kinda denial.

and if you're getting turned on, I think you're doing more than "comparing".

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Old 09-27-2010   #11 (permalink)
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I agree with you, maxcok. I find my own cock extremely arousing, but do not get aroused by the sight of another cock.I do love the sight of a pussy and get aroused by it. That's why the 10% in my profile.
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Old 09-27-2010   #12 (permalink)
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Why the 10% Peter?

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Old 09-27-2010   #13 (permalink)
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I find my own cock in the mirror extremely arousing, and can watch myself in the mirror or on camera masturbating. So I do get aroused by the male body: my own.
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Old 09-27-2010   #14 (permalink)
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That's certainly a much more liberal sexual attitude than all the fellas around here who are obsessed with cocks, up to and including sucking and getting fucked, but still insist they're 90% - 100% straight, LOL. I agree that being sexually turned on by your own body has a homoerotic element. How much of your sexual identity that is, and whether it constitutes a full 10%, I couldn't say. Only we are capable of looking inward and truly knowing and understanding the depths of our own desires and arousal. It takes unflinching honesty sometimes, and even then, it's not always clear. I think it's very cool that you translate that to 10% gay, and I applaud you on your openness and honesty, Peter. A lot of men here could take a lesson from you.

Question, if it's not too personal. Could you see yourself being aroused by watching another man do the same if he were attractive to you? Could you be aroused by having another man watch you show off or masturbate? I'm curious about your take on this.

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Old 09-27-2010   #15 (permalink)
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yeah like all these 100% "straight" guys on here looking at big dicks.
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