How to take a large penis with ease for anal sex?

Hi guys!

I was wondering whether any of you could maybe share some experiences of having sex with a large penis?

My partner is about 8 inches and 6 inches girth, and I find it very difficult to take without experiences some discomfort. Usually, I don't bottom and hadn't done so in 2 years prior to meeting him, but the thought of him inside me does turn me on and I do want to do it for him.

Tips anyone? Would be greatly appreciated.

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This is one of the most common questions asked on LPSG. I think that you will find that there are many good answers in previous threads on the subject. Perhaps you should employ the search feature?

I've personally answered this question at least once a week for the past month, in great detail and with helpful tips about what worked for me.

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My buddy is about 7X5.5 and it's tough to take, even with plenty of warming up and foreplay. However, we tried some anal ease last time, a numbing lube, and that dramatically helped with taking it. However, it numbed his dick, so he was having problems finishing. So, there's always a trade-off.

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There have been threads which dealt with this, but I'm not sure they are easy to locate. My suggestions: Have your buddy get as clean as possible inside. Both of you have some hot foreplay. Get him on his right side with his left leg extended to your left to expose his anus. Start with a lubed finger in a lubed ass - very slowly and gently. (You can also put a latex glove on that hand.) Increase the number of lubed fingers and movement. Aim toward the prostate. Try not to cause pain. When your bud has opened a little, press your glans up against the opening firmly. Hold it there - but firmly. Keep exerting pressure, but don't enter him until the sphincter relaxes. Then enter slowly and gradually. Once your head has passed the sphincters without causing appreciable pain, you are IN. Go slowly. Gradually go deeper. Have him tell you when it feels good - or how it feels.

You might have to withdraw fully or most of the way and add lube. I don't suggest bareback, but if you do that, entering him in a hot shower is an easy entry. Lube his asshole before you enter. Once you have conditioned his anus, you might be able to dry off and reinsert it in bed more easily. I don't recommend rimming or having him suck you after you have fucked him because of the risk of disease. Wash your penis first. I never want to suck a shitty penis. That is another reason to consider a latex glove - to keep the fingers clean.

There are some guys who seem to have tender assholes, and it is very difficult for them to take a big one. Never use force and just plunge it in. You can tear something. Make him tell you what he wants or doesn't want. I'm no expert - just my experience.

Believe me, they are not hard to locate.

I did a search for 'anal', in Sex with a Large Penis. In the first four pages I found these threads with REALLY obvious titles.

http://www.lpsg.org/207272-1-thread-...ions-anal.html

http://www.lpsg.org/155040-is-my-cock-too-big.html

http://www.lpsg.org/187394-anal-sex-in-6-girth.html

http://www.lpsg.org/207353-challenge...y-dick-in.html

http://www.lpsg.org/206833-anal-sex.html

http://www.lpsg.org/204144-how-can-i-help-my.html

http://www.lpsg.org/202351-bottoming-for-a-big-one.html


There are probably other threads with good advise that have less obvious titles.

Seriously, why should we spend ten or twenty minutes typing advise for someone, when they're too lazy to spend two minutes on the search function?

^^^

To sum those threads up:

Loads of lube. Take it slow. Don't forget to breathe. Reapply lube as needed.

All of the above is good advice. Here is another bit of advice. When he starts to enter, take a huge, deep breath. Slowly let it out as he enters you. My doctor taught me this when doing a prostate exam. He was warning me he has FAT fingers. When you exhale, your sphincter relaxes. This really works.

It's definetly the width that's the most difficult. My partner is 9 X 6 and he told me long ago to breathe hard and push. It helps but the reality is that 20 years into this, I've learned to accept the fact that it's going to difficult and a take some time.

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