Originally Posted by prettyswinggirl
No I haven't had one yet, but it's been an option I've been considering for the extreme pain during menses due to scaring and adhesions. I want to know if anyone has either had a hysterectomy and how it changed their sex life, or know's someone willing to share the info. I'm worried about losing the ability to have vaginal orgasms and the desire for sex. Thanks!
Oh boy. I usually leave these to the ladies, but feel I owe an opinion. I think if my memory serves correctly, it was a google search on this topic that led me to this site(the rest is history).
Dont know exactly what type of histo you're looking at.
But the wife had issues with uterus severly tilted and dropped after child birth. It caused bladder issues and sex wasnt painful, but when we got really wild I had to be extra careful not to hurt her deep inside.
She finally did the partial after months of research. Sweety, its a gamble.
My wife says shes VERY glad she did it. They took the cervix and the uterus and I cant tell ANY difference at all on feel from my end. Shes very sexual and wants it all the time. I cant throw enough dick at that women.
That said, she still has her Ovaries(spelled right?) so that makes a difference.
Do us a favor. Weigh your options heavily and DO NOT jump into this quickly.
Many many many many women wish they had never done this as it ruined their sex lives.
Now whats that mean. Well, Im as hardcore male hard dick as any of us, but I do understand that women work differently when it comes to sex(except for dim Aussie chicks heheh).
So their sex lives could have been shitty anyway and histo had nothing to do with it. But there are those where they lost all drive etc, even from partials.
Women store lots of hormones all over the place and its different for all of them.
Really sit and weigh your options:
Is the pain or problems bad enough to risk etc. Think about your sexual likes/dislikes and how/where your O's come from, cause it DOES matter.
My wife really is glad, and so am I. No more monthly down times for me. Wild wild wild sex.
But sure would hate to hear of another women having their lives ruined over this surgury. Make sure its a must! Lets not kid ourselves, we all know sex is a big part of marriage/relationships, and though its not everything, it can be a problem.
Research the sugeon as well. I have read many reports where women were damaged badly by some prick who got over zealous and really ruined their lives. Ive read lots where the procedure can really make a difference. I mean I cant feel any difference when Im in there. They pulled hers out via Vaginal Procedure. Scary for me to even watch that demo. DAMN!
But she says it wasnt that bad really.
My wifes was done by a female(not that men cant, just sayin) and she had no complication.
Hope things work out for you.