Originally Posted by jake654123
Interesting story Molec, just curious, how often do you jerk back then? Does that have anything to do with it? I know I am going to be relaxed at least I hope so haha, but I would like to make a girl cum before I do haha, I would be happy if I wasnt a 2 pump chump lol.
This was around the time I was between 16 and 17...and have been jerking it hardcore from the age of 13 probably religiously everyday.
My first time was pretty much with a girl that was known to 'put out'...and I remember having trouble cumming, but blaming it on wearing a condom.
Then a few months later, I had my first girlfriend, and I had the same problem, even without a condom...infact I recall only finally cumming one day and it was completely by accident, and involved a pretty uncomfortable position (for her, but she obliged since I guess I was not the best lay, that she would have done anything to just get me off and get it over with). For months, I'd only be able to cum in that awkward positon (involving her legs straddling mine, and me thrusting it in on a seated position).
That relationship obviously didnt last long, and I didnt have the fortune of having any serious sexual encounters that I recall of, until I was 19 and had my 2nd serious girlfriend, who was very patient, experienced and made it her initiative that I felt comfortable enough to just be able to cum. If it wasnt for that sweet girl, I'd probably still have that problem now (Im 28).
My hardcore masturbating as a teen did have something to do with it...I used to grip it really hard, and there's actually a term I heard for that condition "death grip syndrome". Once you reprogram your dick to cumming at a more oppurtune pace, you wont look back.
If you do go through the normal route of cumming too quick, dont fret, since you'll be good to go again anywhere from 10 to 30 mins, and will last longer. My one advice is to just enjoy, dont ever think it, and be considerate of your partner :)