Originally Posted by 1NiceRod
I never really put that much thought into it. But since you asked, I have thought about it and I think bigger is better. However, it really all depends on how well he can use his tool (bigger or smaller) as I have had great sex with both groups.
I agree with you. It is not the size but how skilled the owner of the cock is. From a giving end I have little choice, it I fuck you, you are going to get a big cock. My experience in topping and bottoming is that a large thick cock needs to take it easier and spend more time when initially penetrating.
If the guy is has an average size cock my preference is to top him, but I will still bottom for him if he asks me to. I have regular anal sex with some guys that are big, and others that are huge. I am fortunate that all these buddies are really exceptional lovers. But I really love it when my best friend has gotten me loosed up and really fucks me hard and fast with his huge cock.
My wife is a size queen and will only have anal sex with guys that are well hung. Hell, she will rarely have any type of sex with a guy that does not have a big think (and long) cock.