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What's the etiquet for being naked in front of your son in law (or daughtersboyfriend)? Me and some guys from the pub play 5 a side football once a week. We all shower together afterwards

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Old 02-13-2011   #1 (permalink)
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Naked in front of son-in-law

What's the etiquet for being naked in front of your son in law (or daughtersboyfriend)?
Me and some guys from the pub play 5 a side football once a week. We all shower together afterwards and are comfortable being round each other naked. My daughters boyfriend has asked if he can join us for a game. I get on well with the guy, and am comfortable in the knowledge that he is having sex with my daughter, but what's the drill for showering together? He's bound to look down and check me out, and I also with him. Perhaps I'll just wait until I get home, to shower.
Any advice?

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Old 02-13-2011   #2 (permalink)
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He just wants to play sports and probably make a connection with you with a mutual intrest...
Old 02-13-2011   #3 (permalink)
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I would think that if it is the normal thing to grab a shower after, then don't change your routine for him. He won't shower with the guys if he doesn't want to. Don't check him out if he does shower.

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Old 02-13-2011   #4 (permalink)
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Pray you are more hung so he will feel like an alpha male! Put him in his place :D
Old 02-13-2011   #5 (permalink)
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Do what you always do...and leave the PA in and let that foreskin cover your cockhead.....
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Old 02-13-2011   #6 (permalink)
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Keep calma and carry on...If he's dating your daughter I suppose he won't be slightly interested in your cock?!
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Old 02-13-2011   #7 (permalink)
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Not a big deal. There's really no protocol other than acting normal

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
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Old 02-13-2011   #8 (permalink)
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Do what you always do...and leave the PA in and let that foreskin cover your cockhead.....
...yes...it depends on whether you want the fact that you have a PA broadcast to family members and perhaps slipping out at family dinner.
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Old 02-13-2011   #9 (permalink)
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You know the way guys relate in Sheffield better than we Yanks would. Seems to me if a group shower is the usual thing where you are, a young man from there ought to be ready for it. I wish a lot of our up-tight population here knew the simiple old ways of the locker room. I think that's what comes of too much worrying about stuff.
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Old 02-13-2011   #10 (permalink)
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If I were you I'd shower when I got home. You don't want to risk any potential ackwardness by doing this. You might be seeing him for a long time.

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Old 02-13-2011   #11 (permalink)
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If I were you I'd shower when I got home. You don't want to risk any potential ackwardness by doing this. You might be seeing him for a long time.

Why would there be akwardness?

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
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Old 02-13-2011   #12 (permalink)
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Just be yourself. If you always stand there naked, why should you change your attitude?i think he will respect you even more if you just stand in front of him naturally naked. If he feels embarassed, he just will not look and turn his face. But at least you'll make him feel like he's a normal man like you and he will feel like you trust him and are totally comfortable with yourself and with him. So, just be yourself!
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Old 02-13-2011   #13 (permalink)
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I don't understand the big deal. You are both men taking a shower after getting dirty and sweaty from playing football. I was a jock pretty much in high school. I showed in both single stalls and the gang type showers. It's no big deal so why turn it into one? You are not competing with him or him with you...you are only playing football and taking a shower after the game. Why make it more than it is?

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Old 02-13-2011   #14 (permalink)
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Agreed that there is absolutely no reason for awkwardness. Showering is just part of playing sports and getting sweaty. I find that conversation in the shower is the best way to easy any uncomfortableness.
I also agree to take out the PA unless your daughter already knows you have one, or you don't care if she knows. If he saw that, I could see him being in a slightly odd position, wanting to tell your daughter ("Holy shit, did you know your dad has a PA?!") but also feeling that he might be overstepping a boundary by doing so. On the other hand, him seeing you with a PA could put you into the ranks of being the coolest father-in-law around!
In any case, playing some football and showering together sounds like an excellent opportunity for bonding with this potential future family member. Go for it!

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Old 02-13-2011   #15 (permalink)
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Take the PA out...unless the daughter knows you have one...(which would be kind of odd but that is just me)...I think it very cool that he wants to play with you all...and if he wants to shower, welcome him, joke around, and be the coolest girlfriend's father ever.
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