Do women prefer distance, volume, or quantity?

helgaleena · 02-24-2011

You didn't specify temperature.

The Dragon · 02-24-2011

Mens cum is a lot like getting your period.

You hope it happens.
Prays it happens.
Yippeee...WOOT! It Happened! So Fucking Happy!

And then in the same second think....

What a fucking mess.

Spurting9 · 02-24-2011

LOL Dragonfly -- point taken.

What made me post this was my first GF, many years ago, sounded surprised the first time I came without a condom -- months later she asked me to pull out and shoot instead of cumming inside her, and I was in the "Distance" category, certainly.

Yeah, most don't comment on it. But a few have noticed the distance and brief duration. I just wanted to see if a lot of other women had similar thoughts on it.

petite · 02-24-2011

Oh! Well, you should have included that story in your OP! Yeah, sometimes it's hilarious or entertaining if he came a long distance, and I always wondered if it was evidence that the orgasm was better than usual.

TheBF has an annoying talent of cumming and then we can't find where it landed! None of it landed on me except this tiny bit on top of my head, so where's the rest of it? Did you look on the wall? Hmmmm.... Is it on the floor over there? How about the corner? OMG we got some of it on the dog! And how did it get on the underside of this pillow?

B_subgirrl · 02-24-2011

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Originally Posted by Dragonfly20

Mens cum is a lot like getting your period.

You hope it happens.
Prays it happens.
Yippeee...WOOT! It Happened! So Fucking Happy!

And then in the same second think....

What a fucking mess.

ROFL

Pretty good comparison.

I have to admit to actually loving the mess, but as long as there's cum, I don't care about quantity or anything else.

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Originally Posted by petite

Oh! Well, you should have included that story in your OP! Yeah, sometimes it's hilarious or entertaining if he came a long distance, and I always wondered if it was evidence that the orgasm was better than usual.

TheBF has an annoying talent of cumming and then we can't find where it landed! None of it landed on me except this tiny bit on top of my head, so where's the rest of it? Did you look on the wall? Hmmmm.... Is it on the floor over there? How about the corner? OMG we got some of it on the dog! And how did it get on the underside of this pillow?

I think you and TheBF need to practise a bit more until you get the aim right

Spurting9 · 02-24-2011

I didn't want to turn it into a discussion of my insecurities if it wasn't necessary, or at least not in the first post. Some girls think the long distance means something good, others think the small number of spurts means something bad, and of course other girls couldn't care less about either!

Yes, the volume & distance of the ejaculation does have a lot to do with the quality of the guy's orgasm -- this is why guys are into cumshots! It's also been shown that guys having sex with their lovers after being separated, cum a lot more than normal, regardless of how recently they ejaculated -- in other words, even if your BF jacks off in the bathroom on the plane flight home, if he misses you, he'll shoot a bucket that night regardless and want to have sex longer than normal (and he'll be completely dehydrated the next day).

Dragonfly's intuition on praying for it to happen is on the mark -- if he's not his usual overshooting-your-head self, it's a sign something's wrong, either with his life, or with your relationship -- it's a sign the hormones are kaput.

petite · 02-24-2011

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Originally Posted by Spurting9

I didn't want to turn it into a discussion of my insecurities if it wasn't necessary, or at least not in the first post. Some girls think the long distance means something good, others think the small number of spurts means something bad, and of course other girls couldn't care less about either!

Yes, the volume & distance of the ejaculation does have a lot to do with the quality of the guy's orgasm -- this is why guys are into cumshots! It's also been shown that guys having sex with their lovers after being separated, cum a lot more than normal, regardless of how recently they ejaculated -- in other words, even if your BF jacks off in the bathroom on the plane flight home, if he misses you, he'll shoot a bucket that night regardless and want to have sex longer than normal (and he'll be completely dehydrated the next day).

Dragonfly's intuition on praying for it to happen is on the mark -- if he's not his usual overshooting-your-head self, it's a sign something's wrong, either with his life, or with your relationship -- it's a sign the hormones are kaput.

That's really interesting. Thank you for sharing that. Although lately, he's always cumming inside me, so I don't get to see distance any more. If I did, I would start paying attention.

Spurting9 · 02-24-2011

I think the other measure that's been documented is how willing the guy is to keep having sex after his first ejaculation. Guys need to get off every few days or they go nuts, so him cumming inside you before going to sleep is no different than him brushing his teeth or feeding the dog. But if you can entice him to more after that routine sexual release, it's a good sign. This shouldn't be confused with his need for a refractory period, which is normal. But he should still be willing to pleasure you after cumming, and you should entice him for round two, round three, etc. If he has feelings for you, the hormones will follow orders when called upon.

DeerHunterIA · 02-25-2011

The vast majority of women I have been with enjoyed watching me orgasm. Although, only a very small number seemed to care about volume or distance. One explained it to me that she felt "accomplished" when she saw me cum. Proud that she was able to give me such pleasure and enjoyed that there was a visual product/result from that pleasure.

helgaleena · 02-25-2011

This poll is presaged on cumshot with a female audience. Such things happen more in pornos than in real life sex, ftmp ime

_Alexxx_ · 02-26-2011

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Originally Posted by SilverTrain

So it's "unreasonable" for a woman to have no opinion, or to disfavor semen in any way? And can a woman not enjoy cumshots without it being a "fetish"?

Seriously.

Get me a real woman to answer this thread positively and I may change my mind

xxuxu · 02-26-2011

My current girlfriend often tell me she loves how much cum I make for her, it makes her feel like she's done a good job turning me on.

Ramsey · 02-27-2011

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Originally Posted by DeerHunterIA

The vast majority of women I have been with enjoyed watching me orgasm. Although, only a very small number seemed to care about volume or distance. One explained it to me that she felt "accomplished" when she saw me cum. Proud that she was able to give me such pleasure and enjoyed that there was a visual product/result from that pleasure.

Yes, most normal women want to know that their man is enjoying it as much as she is. The current girlfriend loves it when I make her cum but wants me to as well. Last session I got her off, felt her clamp down around my cock as she came and she can't handle much stimulation just after she comes so I pulled out and held her close while she experienced the ecstasy. Asked if she wanted more and she said she felt wonderful but wanted me to come. So, I buried myself in her again, worked her over, thrusting fast and felt my orgasm coming, and just before it hit, I felt her pussy clamp down in orgasm again. I pulled out and came all over her belly.

She says she doesn't mind cum and certainly didn't shy away from touching it. She's a "no nose, eyes or hair" gal. So with women like this, is it best to avoid her face altogether then? Those are 3 major targets in that area.