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Best way to desensitize glans?

Originally Posted by freyasfolk The traditional way is to fuck or masturbate! Yes just keep wanking!

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Old 03-23-2011   #16 (permalink)
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The traditional way is to fuck or masturbate!
Yes just keep wanking!
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Old 03-25-2011   #17 (permalink)
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I will speak from experience.

With the first two women I had sex with, I blew my load within thirty seconds of penetration. During that period, I wore briefs all the time.

Then I decided to freeball it for a few years. Actually, I've been freeballing it ever since.

From then on, I last as long as I want to. Coincidence? Don't know. All I remember is for a few weeks when I first started freeballing, I tended to get unwanted erections quite frequently just from the head of my dick being able to swing freely and rub against the inside of my pants. Eventually, that went away, and I can say that I feel generally less sensitive now than I did before.

The benefit to being less sensitive? For me, it means I'm able to control my urge to ejaculate, while before there was nothing I could do to stop it.

The only other method I can think of to desensitize your dick would be wearing multiple condoms. Hell, slip three or four of them on, and even keep adding them from there until you can't feel a thing. If your girlfriend gets suspicious and questions what the fuck you're doing right about the time you're unrolling the 20th rubber over your shaft, just come off with something like,

"Oh, BELIEVE ME, baby, by the time I'm done pounding you, at LEAST fifteen of these will be torn to shreds,"

And if she doesn't run away screaming "fucking weirdo" at that point, then at least you know she's got a sense of humor and you'll have tons of fun finding out exactly HOW kinky she's willing to get.
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Old 03-25-2011   #18 (permalink)
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Craven Moorehead is trollin. XD
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Old 03-26-2011   #19 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Craven Moorehead View Post
The only other method I can think of to desensitize your dick would be wearing multiple condoms. Hell, slip three or four of them on, and even keep adding them from there until you can't feel a thing. If your girlfriend gets suspicious and questions what the fuck you're doing right about the time you're unrolling the 20th rubber over your shaft, just come off with something like,
Condom manufacturer's advise against doubling up, citing that it increases the likelihood of breakage.

I would suggest visiting the Fleshlight website and buying one of their endurance trainers.

PEACE OUT, HOMIES!

Porn is not real life.

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Old 03-29-2011   #20 (permalink)
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My question is how can I sensitize my glans again
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Old 03-29-2011   #21 (permalink)
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masterbation and alots of it
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Old 03-29-2011   #22 (permalink)
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Not sure why you'd want to desensitize your penis, but I'd say get circumsised super tight and very low.. they call it the beauty cut.. then it will take you hours and hours to cum
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Old 03-29-2011   #23 (permalink)
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There currently seem to be lots of for, and pro, circumcision lobbyists jumping on threads like this at the moment. (Come on guys, back off and confine your argument to relevant threads.) I want to reassure the OP that, from my experience as someone who was circumcised at age 30 (I'm now 56), circumcision doesn't make a significant difference to sensitivity. Certainly not significant enough to cause the OPs problem.

There are several factors that cause you to come before you want to. For example, if you are having sex with someone new, you are stimulated by the novelty, and eager to impress. That means you're both excited and anxious, both of which makes you come quickly.

If you are in any way insecure in your relationship with the person you are having sex with you will be feeling eager to please, and the anxiety will make you come quickly.

If you are having self doubts (about your attractiveness, cock size, etc.) you will feel anxious and that will make you come quickly.

If you are not having sex frequently you will be using lots of muscles during sex that are not conditioned to the activity. They get tired quickly. And you are hard wired to ejaculate before you are exhausted, so you'll come quickly.

For the same reason as above, you might come quickly if you are very tired/fatigued because you've been working hard and not getting enough sleep.

The above are just 5 (of many) factors that impact on your sexual performance. You have to understand that you are not a machine. You can not expect yourself to perform the same way every time you have sex. Who you are with, and how relaxed you feel play the biggest part in your sexual response (not whether you're circumcised, or wearing a condom, or whatever).

Having a tendency to come easily is a very normal and healthy. The thing to work on now is your fitness and your mental state. Ask yourself how secure you feel. Communicate with your partner. Remember that most partners feel flattered if you are excited enough to come quickly, and that after a short recovery rest you should be able to go back to having sex and you will last longer second time round.

Best of luck.
Warm wishes
Riven

'I tell you, we are here on earth to fart around, and don't let anybody tell you different.' Kurt Vonnegut
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Old 03-29-2011   #24 (permalink)
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Lidocaine sprays may be purchased at many adult shops for exactly that purpose. If the dosage offered over the counter isn't strong enough, talk to your doctor. The greatest advantage to topical anesthetics is that they are temporary, with no permanent effect on your sensitivity.

"Mon ange, joue-moi un tour. Sois ma belle déception. Oublie l'ange, deviens mon démon." -Jena Lee 'Mon Ange'

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Old 03-30-2011   #25 (permalink)
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I've been circumcized my entire life and the glans is still sensitive. I'm OK with stimulation that is slow and wet . . . but once things get rough and the pace picks up, constant, firm rubbing gets to be unbearable . . . and not in a good way. I've learned to avoid oversimulating the head by changing the angle of penetration or coaching my partner to concentrate on the shaft and balls. I've never tried numbing creams or "desensitizing condoms". I'd rather not use chemicals since I've been able to successfully get around it by just paying attention to what works and doesn't work for me.
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