Men and Strap-ons

D_Elijah_MorganWood · 02-27-2006

Maybe it's the company I keep...I'm hearing women telling me about straight men who want to be fucked with strap-ons. Apparently (according to them) it's common now. My sample size includes women from several states. This threw me for a loop. Have you ladies encountered this?

strap-ons...not just for lesbians anymore!

delivery boy · 02-27-2006

I am 100% straight, but do enjoy some anal play. So far I've only had fingers inserted, but I am working on moving up to a strap on.

royston · 02-27-2006

not me sorce.....didnt u used to be a gold member?

steve2727 · 02-27-2006

I had an ex who wanted to do this to me, she always had her finger up there and talked about 'breaking me in properly' in other words, with a strap on. I wasn't so keen on the idea, I probably would have let her have her way with me in the end but we split up so it wasn't an issue.

Whilst we're on the subject, any ladies who've tried this, does it do a lot for you? I've heard the motion can stimulate the woman, was just wondering if this was true?

Fredneck1951 · 02-27-2006

By some accounts it's more common than you think. If you go to one of the escort sites like eros-guide or cityvibe you can find "providers" who even "specialize" in this kind of service, as well as "dakinis" who provide tantric "sacred spot" massage.

Once in the early 80's I went in for a multi-phasic physical, the nurse was a good-looking babe maybe in her mid-30s. I stripped, put on the gown, laid on my side while she greased up and went to check my prostate and when she got there YOWZA! I erupted across the room, a spontaneous, uncontrollable ejaculation. I almost passed out, it was so intense. As I lay there dazed she handed me some tissue paper, gave me the nastiest smile, and said as she left the room, "You can clean up and get dressed...when you're able to."

Yes, my co-payment covered the service.

B_GorgeousJane · 02-27-2006

I think this is increasingly common, as more guys are hearing about the idea and, feeling more comfortable with their own sexuality, thinking that they'd actually quite like it!

Some guys, of course, are still to masculine and uptight to even think that they might like something in their ass - that's only for fags! - but as more and more are relaxed about these things, and the quality of the toys improves (feeldoes... mmmmm) the whole idea of role reversal is spreading.

I for one love it, and so does my bf. He likes the physical pleasure and chance to see me in a different role. Yes, the motion can feel great for me too, especially with a feeldoe, which instead of a strap is simply held in place by inserting one curved end into your vagina. Otherwise most pleasure is derived from the domination aspect and knowing that I'm pleasing him. I like the new role, the chance to 'return the favour' if you like lol, to know how he feels when he's fucking me, and the look on his face when I get into my rhythm is something else - again, I guess I now know how he feels looking at me!

If you hadn't already guessed, I heartily recommend it!!

windtalkerways · 02-27-2006

Yes, I've already initiated two straight males
with a strap on.

The prostate is the male g-spot, so massaging
it with whatever you decide to use increases
the orgasm for the male exponentially.

Lots of fun and everyone goes home happy!

gtk · 02-27-2006

Well, I have to say that my wife and I have done this. It started one night when she was just simulating it happening and we got to talking and she suggested I go out and get a strap on. I evenutally did and we used it. I have to to tell you it was hot. I liked the whole aspect of feeling somewhat dominated plus it felt really great. We have only done it the one time though. Think I might have to go get that toy out, hmmmmmm.

madame_zora · 02-27-2006

I've used a strap-on, but not for a long time. I never got what I wanted out of it, which was to FEEL what it was like for a guy. I think I like the sound of the "feeldoe", thanks GorgeousJane! I usually just use my fingers for prostate massage, but I would like a more active role.....always something new to try.

jackM50black · 02-27-2006

yeah.. I was readin some thread somewhere, that this is the "new trend" for straight men.... getting fucked by a woman with a strap on. I gotta tell ya, I think this is hard to beleive. I know a straight guy, my older brother, who knows I'm gay and we have talked about differences between straight sex and gay sex... and stuff. He would never let himself be fucked. no way. I sure some straight guys must be doing this somewhere, but I doubt its very many.

Chuck64 · 02-27-2006

Now how's this for a twist...

I know a gay guy (very gay - we're talking broadway performer gay) who gets off watching straight strap-on porn.

D_Elijah_MorganWood · 02-27-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chuck64

Now how's this for a twist...

I know a gay guy (very gay - we're talking broadway performer gay) who gets off watching straight strap-on porn.

He's watching a straight guy get fucked, even if it is from a woman.

D_Elijah_MorganWood · 02-27-2006

Quote:

Originally Posted by royston

not me sorce.....didnt u used to be a gold member?

Nope.

Chuck64 · 02-27-2006

I totally get it... It's a fetish just like any other. I just thought it was interesting and somewhat related to the topic.

windtalkerways · 02-27-2006

Not all men are so homophobic that the
will not entertain the idea of anal sex.

As one guy said...he is secure enough in
his masculinity that he is willing to explore
new things.