Originally Posted by FRE
Perhaps I'm a freak, but it would be nice to be able to cuddle with a guy without being concerned about all this top and bottom stuff. Being overly concerned with mechanics gets in the way of being happy to be with a guy.
You know what? I actually agree
with you. I never really gave the sexual role position issue much thought until a few years ago when I started using hook-up sites. And then the more recently added cock pics made it feel as if it was paramount importance, not
to me, but the people messaging.
I always leave the role blank, to be honest, but it seems that for many people they need
to know a) that penetrative sex will definitely happen and b) who will assume which role.
Personally, I find both assumptions to be somewhat flawed.
As I type this, I've just received a message on another website from someone calling himself 'PolishBottom'.