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From my days in boarding school to my days in the Military and now with buds I go to the gym with,I have always been puzzled as to why when your friends know you have

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Old 03-10-2006   #1 (permalink)
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Why be BOASTFUL?

From my days in boarding school to my days in the Military and now with buds I go to the gym with,I have always been puzzled as to why when your friends know you have a big cock they cannot keep there mouths shut,I have been clubbing with some guys or at the local bar and after a few brews someone always brings up sex or dick and then my size is announced to great cheers or whistles,if there are new people joining us or girls that have been introduced it never fails that the big dick in the group is exposed to all,its not only me this happens to a couple of guys I play scoccer with are big boys and they are exposed as well,so can anyone explain to me why the big cock always has to be outed as if its some great prize they have discovered.
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Old 03-10-2006   #2 (permalink)
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Because if they embarass you, they can not feel so bad for not being as hung. Envy is an ugly thing. Always has been, always will be.

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Old 03-10-2006   #3 (permalink)
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That's an interesting question. I wonder if that happens more now than in the past? I mean, I think society's attitudes about sex have relaxed somewhat... and for sure young people know and do a LOT more at an earlier age than they did in the past. I remember when I was in college, guys wanting to "show it off". Only in the past few years have I witnessed what you're talking about, though - where other guys (and girls) publicly announced that a friend present was really hung. I'm interested in knowing from say, college-age guys now, how often that has happened to you, versus guys in their 30s-40s. My instinct is that it might be more common now, only because it seems like boundaries aren't really drawn between public and private lives any more. Thank you, "The Real World".

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Old 03-10-2006   #4 (permalink)
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I think Davidh7 has this one nailed. Envy and insecurity drive it more than anything esle I have seen this among straight buddies ad nauseum. Among gay buds (especially at the bar)--it seems to be less of a big deal. A lot of the men that I know who are "size Queena" are themselves nicely hung, so they just bring up cock size and fun as if we were talking about beer starkness.

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Old 03-10-2006   #5 (permalink)
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The closest I've ever had to this happening was being introduced as "my gorgeous friend with the huge cock". It's like it's some sort of achievement. Maybe they feel they have to say something or they like to watch the reaction, thus living vicariously through us.

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Old 03-10-2006   #6 (permalink)
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I think Davidh7 has this one nailed. Envy and insecurity drive it more than anything esle I have seen this among straight buddies ad nauseum. Among gay buds (especially at the bar)--it seems to be less of a big deal. A lot of the men that I know who are "size Queena" are themselves nicely hung, so they just bring up cock size and fun as if we were talking about beer starkness.
Don't discount the possibility that its also just fun to talk about sex and, byt bringing up your big unit, they hope to get everyone just a little bit hotter and that some of the action rubs off on them.
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Old 03-10-2006   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by SurferGirlCA
That's an interesting question. I wonder if that happens more now than in the past? I mean, I think society's attitudes about sex have relaxed somewhat... and for sure young people know and do a LOT more at an earlier age than they did in the past. I remember when I was in college, guys wanting to "show it off". Only in the past few years have I witnessed what you're talking about, though - where other guys (and girls) publicly announced that a friend present was really hung. I'm interested in knowing from say, college-age guys now, how often that has happened to you, versus guys in their 30s-40s. My instinct is that it might be more common now, only because it seems like boundaries aren't really drawn between public and private lives any more. Thank you, "The Real World".
Well here is the college guy view you were looking for. I am not huge obviously, I have a large flacid though and show an impressive bulge most of the time. A few of my buddies have started bringing up my size at parties on a pretty frequent basis. It usually ends up bring a big discussion. Sometimes I am involved and other times I don't know its going on until after. Now I'm not sure if its their attempt to get the girls hornier in hopes to help their odds or why they are doing it.

Not sure what makes them want to talk about it so much but it comes up at about 4 out of 5 parties we throw. Actually had one firl shy away from me after they brought this up...pissed me off a bit.

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Old 03-10-2006   #8 (permalink)
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Although there might be a certain amount of pride in knowing one of your best buds is hung I wouldn't be a bit surprised if there isn't also some sub-conscious resentment.

It wasn't very long ago that the goofus, oaf, clod or moron was expected to have a big schlong (you can imagine that the guy with the biggest cock in the showers at Beetle Bailey's Camp Swampy is Pvt. Zero.) There may be a hint of that in those embarrassing announcements:

What he says: "Hey, folks! My buddy here has the biggest dick in the room!"

What he means: "Hey, folks! I'm smarter, handsomer and more cultured than my big dicked buddy, here!"

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Old 03-10-2006   #9 (permalink)
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agree with the above...little secret resentment, little secret pride, little secret desire to make situation more sexual, and a little secret desire to suck on it
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Old 03-10-2006   #10 (permalink)
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there's also the fact that most people are excruciatingly boring, and probably have nothing else to say.
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Old 03-10-2006   #11 (permalink)
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And we should kill the lot of them, right Doc?

(say yes, say yes!!)

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Old 03-10-2006   #12 (permalink)
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Beercan, your question is rhetorical surely. If you can't handle a few ribald remarks from buds then stop hanging around with morons. Tell em to back off. Inject a little humour into your beercancentric life.
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Old 09-14-2007   #13 (permalink)
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hard to say why they can not keep their mouths closed about it In most cases I have been fortuned that they have not said any thing but 2 persons did and they did it on a constant basis until I had to tell them to shut up which one did. The other needed a firmer warning
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Old 09-14-2007   #14 (permalink)
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hard to say why they can not keep their mouths closed about it In most cases I have been fortuned that they have not said any thing but 2 persons did and they did it on a constant basis until I had to tell them to shut up which one did. The other needed a firmer warning
Oh my goodness, did you hit him with your big, firm cock?

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Old 09-14-2007   #15 (permalink)
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Oh my goodness, did you hit him with your big, firm cock?
I hope not. That would be assault and splattery. Badum ching!

So long and thanks for all the fish.

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