Giving/receiving a BJ is a fairly common fantasy and part of a natural curiosity that should be explored (safely), if desired. I know a few guys who experimented with men at some point and others who have expressed curiosity about giving a bj, either with a man or simulating with a woman wearing a strap-on. From what I've heard the key is to be clear about your desires, with all involved, and, as someone else mentioned, go for it.
However, there seems something dehumanizing about this aspect:
Originally Posted by biganduncut
I don't want to talk to him, look him in the eye, kiss him, or have any contact other than oral sex.
I know some men offer themselves as such, but the person isn't just a hole with a cock, and disassociation oneself from a partner seems counterproductive to fulfilling the desire.