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I'm curious to know how many guys actually cruise for sex. I read different views but it seems most gay men at some time or another go out cruising. They might cruise in a local

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Old 11-06-2011   #1 (permalink)
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Gay cruising for sex

I'm curious to know how many guys actually cruise for sex. I read different views but it seems most gay men at some time or another go out cruising. They might cruise in a local bathhouse, the gym, the woods, public toilets (glory holes), etc. What's your take on this? Have you done it? Why do you cruise for sex? Is it addictive?


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Old 11-06-2011   #2 (permalink)
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other. there is certain websites and phone apps where you can find guys in your area and you just message them. gaydar would be the main site to use. gay saunas is a good place to take the guy you met if you dont have anywhere to go and if its wet and cold outside :)
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Old 11-06-2011   #3 (permalink)
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I'm curious to know how many guys actually cruise for sex. I read different views but it seems most gay men at some time or another go out cruising. They might cruise in a local bathhouse, the gym, the woods, public toilets (glory holes), etc. What's your take on this? Have you done it? Why do you cruise for sex? Is it addictive?
Well here In Melbourne, Australia... It seems pretty dead for cruising now. Just a load of snobs or idiots, and wasted hours.
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Old 11-06-2011   #4 (permalink)
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When I was living in Prague, there were cruising spots all over the city. It was always easier to go out and cruise a park than try to meet on line. So from time to time, I'd head to the park.

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When I was living in Prague, there were cruising spots all over the city. It was always easier to go out and cruise a park than try to meet on line. So from time to time, I'd head to the park.
Well here has become VERY strange. And As I have sadly found out, Online is not an option either. Just a load of rude, fake and patronising idiots in a chat room or nasty FaceBook rubbish. Im glad Im rid of those now. They are POISON!
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Old 11-06-2011   #6 (permalink)
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There used to be really cruisy spots that I would hear about from my more adventurous friends. Most have been shut down by Police sting operations.

I was never really into the cruising scene.
Sure, I'd post a few profiles here and there....but nothing ever came to be out of them. Many I was afraid to meet because of past experiences of no shows, etc.

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Old 11-06-2011   #7 (permalink)
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It just seems cruising isn't needed anymore, it is going extinct , like the dinosaurs. When people could get arrested , just for being gay, i think it was a necessity, how else could you meet others "like yourself" ? But now, with the internet and people being so "out", i don't think Gay people "need" it. I feel married guys and Curious guys may find it useful, because they are not out. I dont get the thrill of being arrested and your life ruined for a piece of ass.
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Old 11-06-2011   #8 (permalink)
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i used to until i was arrested ala George Michael. I have not cruised since 2002.
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Old 11-06-2011   #9 (permalink)
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True. The threat of being arrested (in the US) is a big turn off. In Prague however there's no "stigma" attached to it. I mean, I've been in parks where guys were having sex in the open and other guys just walked by. I heard a story from a friend of one of his friends in a park late on night getting hammered when two cops walked up with flashlights. They asked if they were ok and when they answered yes, the cops walked on. We guessed that they just wanted to be sure someone wasn't being raped (against his will). It wasn't sex in the wide open so they walked on.

Another time I was walking back to my car after a late night out (in the center of the city!) when I came across a straight couple fucking against a wall. I thought at first they were just dry humping and kissing but learned too late that their pants were down past their knees. The girl said hello as I went past them. Can you imagine that in any US city or town?

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Old 11-06-2011   #10 (permalink)
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Yes, I would have to agree with you all in that here in the USA in many places gay cruising for sex is risky, perhaps even here in Washington, DC where I live. The Net makes it so much easier to connect up.

But there is much more subtle form of gay cruising. Gaydar is so wonderful in receiving vibrations that a gay may be gay. I frequent fairly often a coffeehouse, five blocks from my apartment. The coffeehouse is near Dupont Circle, even there there are str8 guys who send out gay vibes, delicious!

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True. The threat of being arrested (in the US) is a big turn off. In Prague however there's no "stigma" attached to it. I mean, I've been in parks where guys were having sex in the open and other guys just walked by. I heard a story from a friend of one of his friends in a park late on night getting hammered when two cops walked up with flashlights. They asked if they were ok and when they answered yes, the cops walked on. We guessed that they just wanted to be sure someone wasn't being raped (against his will). It wasn't sex in the wide open so they walked on.

Another time I was walking back to my car after a late night out (in the center of the city!) when I came across a straight couple fucking against a wall. I thought at first they were just dry humping and kissing but learned too late that their pants were down past their knees. The girl said hello as I went past them. Can you imagine that in any US city or town?
In my opinion, fucking against a wall in plain sight is kinda trashy. Like, what if a child was to see it. Not cool.
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Old 11-06-2011   #12 (permalink)
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Public sex is a bit much but this was at 3am. Not many kids roaming the streets at that hour. Also, you'd be surprised at what kids see in Prague. TV commercials for simple things like deodorant show a woman's breast is in full sight as she rolls on the deo. "Family hour" TV always shows something with full frontal nudity. On of the Czech's favorite movies is about a nudist community moving in near a village. You see lots of naked men and women and one scene an old woman is surrounded by young guys. Can't miss the cocks there! And on a tram once there was an ad for a local whore house. The tram was plastered with a nude woman lying on her side with the English caption "Your best fuck in Prague". The English speaking community went ballistic and had the transportation ministry take it down.

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Old 11-06-2011   #13 (permalink)
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I only ever went cruising around three times and I never really enjoyed it. I found it odd how everything happened in silence and how speaking was virtually forbidden. I actually thought it was pretty boring and since I never had any problem finding sex when I wanted, it was sort of pointless for me.
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Old 11-06-2011   #14 (permalink)
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Well there's cruising and then there's cruising.

In Boston, where I lived from the ages of 18-39 there were some notorious tearooms, but I always avoided them (and one was in a department store I worked in in my early 20s). Similarly, the Fens (a public park) were (and I'm sure still are) very busy late at night. But parks were never my thing, either. Even in the late 70s, it seemed a bit retrograde to me.

However, I loved to cruise the bars and bathhouses (before the ones in Boston were closed in the early 80s). Personally I have always thought that specifically gay places were preferable to public venues for cruising. Only very recently have I enjoyed going out with a group of friends. I was always a solitary hunter and found the practice of collecting phone numbers to be kinda silly; if I was out, I was looking.

I do recall a time in the mid-90s walking home from a bar, sometime between 1:00 and 3:00 in the morning. It was summer and really warm. About a half block away from my apartment I saw a straight couple fucking on the hood of a car (presumably it belonged to one of them): right there, out in the open, in Boston's Back Bay. That was one of the strangest things I've ever seen.

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Old 11-06-2011   #15 (permalink)
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Nope, I feel like cruising is the same as sneaking to do something, and if you have to sneak and do anything then you are doing something wrong and shouldn't have to do that at all.
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