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Originally Posted by bigirishman F*&k it If he needs a wank, let him wank, Come on were all men and we all know what it is to be horny. And even if he is looking

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Old 11-12-2011   #76 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by bigirishman View Post
F*&k it
If he needs a wank, let him wank,
Come on were all men and we all know what it is to be horny.
And even if he is looking for sex and looking at your cock doesnt mean he should be attacked.
IF you walked in and a woman was fingering herself looking to be fucked it would probably be different.
Some gay men are deeply supressed and this is the only way they know to find a sexual partner.
And also some (straight or gay) men just like to have a wank at a urinal.

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I agree with you - it would be harmless, and never should anyone be attacked for such an act (it is silly and cruel). That said, if there is harassment by the man masturbating, it must be stopped immediately - no excuses!

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Old 11-12-2011   #77 (permalink)
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Today as i finished work, i needed a leak after i'd left the store so i went to the public toilets in the shopping center, it was closing time so there was only one guy in there. The guy was an older gentleman at one urinal in a row of around 15 urinals. I picked one about 3 or 4 down from him. As i pulled out my todger and let my stream go, i noticed the man obviously staring at my piece from the corner of my eye, i then noticed his dick was hard and he was vigorously rubbing it. i got freaked out, so left.
Has anyone else encountered this? What did you do?
I find it particularly strange.
If it happened in a bar or club, I wouldn't think anything about it. I might even enjoy it. However, in a public restroom, where little boys might wander in, it would bother me. It would bother me a lot. I'd have to say something.
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Old 11-12-2011   #78 (permalink)
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If ya wanna jerk off do it in the cubicles not the urinals. I wouldnt want any kid/minor seeing a guy jerk at a urinal. That said if a guy is out to pick up I wouldn't think he'd be dumb enough to jerk to signal a "come on" to anyone if there was a child present.


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Old 11-12-2011   #79 (permalink)
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no, i understand completely, the only standards that matter are yours. as long as you're the one doing something people find offensive, it's allowed, otherwise it's shame on them and alert the authorities.

and i'd like to be there when you try to explain to the dude (who doesn't want you lookin at his junk, and catches you looking at his junk), that you were doing it discreetly and with respect.
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Old 11-12-2011   #80 (permalink)
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I get the feeling some posters here are going to spending a lot of time in urinals when they get older :P

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... and then there's a crackdown on that particular place and people who've been using it for "innocent" cruising lose a perfectly good place.
I'm not sure how innocent this really is. Imagine if there were no ladies and gents toilets and we all shared the same facilities. It probably wouldn't be uncommon for guys to try and catch a lady's attention with some inappropriate behavior and we may all be quick to say 'it happens, get used to it, this is the real world.' but like dolfette pointed out this may just be a stepping stone to something far more sinister. Men do get raped, and don't be quick to think he's too weak to over-power you so your safe because he may not be or he may have something to help with that.

I'm sure there are places where you can get away with some 'innocent' cruising but a toilet open to the general public isn't one of them. If that happened to me I'd leave him be, then immediately report him to any available security and go with them to make sure they get him.
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Old 11-13-2011   #81 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Jim12 View Post
Today as i finished work, i needed a leak after i'd left the store so i went to the public toilets in the shopping center, it was closing time so there was only one guy in there. The guy was an older gentleman at one urinal in a row of around 15 urinals. I picked one about 3 or 4 down from him. As i pulled out my todger and let my stream go, i noticed the man obviously staring at my piece from the corner of my eye, i then noticed his dick was hard and he was vigorously rubbing it. i got freaked out, so left.
Has anyone else encountered this? What did you do?
I find it particularly strange.
I caught a guy doing this the other day in a club urinals. I pulled out my dick to take a piss and noticed a guy walk in who pulled out his to. It looked as though he was playing with it to masturbate. However, I noticed him get a look at my dick and I think he got intimidated, as after that he quickly put his dick away and walked out. He didnt even piss so im 99% sure he was going to wack off had he not got stage fright.

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Old 11-13-2011   #82 (permalink)
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I get the feeling some posters here are going to spending a lot of time in urinals when they get older :P
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well, based on all the football halftime commercials i'm led to believe that all old men spend alot of time in urnials unless they're taking drugs to prevent it.

and up till now i always thought those guys on the commercial were just urgently going in there to Piss!....dirty wankers

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Old 11-13-2011   #83 (permalink)
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Some of these responses, again, surprise me.

A grown man is masturbating in a public bathroom, at the urinal, where small children have a possibility to come in and find out about sexual activity way earlier than they should.

The same man was leering at the OP, to the point where the OP felt uncomfortable.

And your response is "it's fine, it's just an old man?"

No person should be masturbating at any public urinal ever. Not only is it illegal, it's extremely off-putting to walk into a loo for a piss and see a grown man trying to stare in your eyes and or at your penis.

Stop condoning this, and stop acting like this alone isn't enough to make people upset.

Fetishes are called fetishes for a reason, they involve attraction and arousal in situations not normally viewed as sexual.

An old man with an unintentional erection is one thing, but a grown man with a woody trying to stare in my eyes when i'm dying to pee?

Come on.
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Old 11-13-2011   #84 (permalink)
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Some of these responses, again, surprise me.

A grown man is masturbating in a public bathroom, at the urinal, where small children have a possibility to come in and find out about sexual activity way earlier than they should.


Come on.
well in the first place I would never let my young son go into a public bathroom by himself , and would consider any parent who'd do this to be unfit & insane,that wasn't the situation described by the OP.

but if i did walk in with my young son and the old man was perving in the corner I'd tell him to make himself decent or he can explain to the cops what he was doing, if he got belligerant i would hit him or do whatever necessary to protect my son. but this is a totally different scenario than the OP asked us to consider.

why can't people work within the hypothetical question posed?

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Old 11-14-2011   #85 (permalink)
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why can't people work within the hypothetical question posed?
It's quite obvious based on yours and other responses that we've moved on from hypothetical scenarios to morals and ethics. I responded based on the current flow of the thread.

You are arguing that a grown man wanking at a public urinal is not a big deal. I disagree.

Please, try not to be snide when you quote me.
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Old 06-18-2012   #86 (permalink)
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I'd sucked him or made him cry with my piss
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Old 06-18-2012   #87 (permalink)
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Old 06-19-2012   #88 (permalink)
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I have never had this happen. I have however had the following:

- Guy checking me out at the immediate next stall.
- Guy on left AND right check it out as I was shaking it (it was hanging really long that day)
- Guy with his son comes in. Son comes to stall next to mine. Before he can get started, dad pulls him away and takes him to closed stalls.
- In Paris, female staff walks in with broom and mops and stuff. Walks RIGHT next to my stall to start sweeping and cleaning WHILE my "todger" is still hanging out. She never said a word.

Those are my experiences.

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Old 06-19-2012   #89 (permalink)
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I have never had this happen. I have however had the following:

- Guy checking me out at the immediate next stall.
- Guy on left AND right check it out as I was shaking it (it was hanging really long that day)
- Guy with his son comes in. Son comes to stall next to mine. Before he can get started, dad pulls him away and takes him to closed stalls.
- In Paris, female staff walks in with broom and mops and stuff. Walks RIGHT next to my stall to start sweeping and cleaning WHILE my "todger" is still hanging out. She never said a word.

Those are my experiences.

Simba
Had the first happen to me in Thailand. The guy didn't so much check me out as bore a hole with his stare on my cock as I peed. He was even leaning over, making no effort at discretion. Didn't take it as a sexual issue so much as a lack of boundaries/respect for privacy.
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Old 06-19-2012   #90 (permalink)
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this sort of happened to me. I was pissing at a stall and this teen kid runs in like he has to take a shit. Instead he run to the urinal a few down from me and pulls out his dick and starts cumming. I could tell from his breathing and the sound of cum spurting a few times against the urinal and hitting the water. Did not gross me out my first thought was dam if he ever gets any pussy he's not even going to be able to get his dick out of his pant before he cums.
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