11-20-2011
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#31 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by petite I didn't have the problems you are having when I joined LPSG. The women here became my friends. I don't believe the problem is with them. I think it's you. | Ditto
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11-20-2011
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#32 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by aninnymouse Yeah. I was trying to be polite about it, but She is a troll. She's just trying to tear stuff up, because it doesn't fit her idea of what a "Women's Issues" forum should be. She's aggressive, abrasive, and when someone doesn't conform to what she wants, or give her what she's looking for, she gets nasty.
However, looking at the other threads she started, others tried to be nice to her, and she basically told them where to go, and what they can do when they get there. Even Hickboy tried to be nice, and he's one where, if you don't like it, you're cordially invited to go and fuck yourself.
Sooo....Chinagirl. If you don't like it....There's the door. Don't let it hit you where the good lord split you. | Umm....can you show us how many times I have told any one to F. off ? once I think .
Hickboy... I dont see his posts, havnt for a long time, so have no idea what what he says.
can you explain what the WI forum should be... as it now rediculing male posters and a group of girls that support eachothers views ? is that what you mean it should be ?
btw this thread is not about me controlling WI, just saying I dont like that subforum or its ways., nothing more.
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11-20-2011
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#33 (permalink)
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Next time somebody calls me an attention whore, I'm going to reply with a link to this thread.
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What do want?
A CURE FOR TOURETTE'S!!!
When do we want it?
CUNT!!!
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11-20-2011
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#34 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Hickboy Next time somebody calls me an attention whore, I'm going to reply with a link to this thread. | Baby, you are a whore but not for this type of attention. | | |
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11-20-2011
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#35 (permalink)
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In all fairness, I'm pretty sure that more women than just chinagirl would like to see that "Ask the women" implemented as a subforum for the Women's Issues forum... Unless, of course, she's referring to a different kind of subforum with some other intention?
In general, how others will think of you will depend on how you present yourself to them. Just be nice and try to be neutral in any controversial subject. :) You can express your opinions, but also try to understand the countering argument, to see where they're coming from. You have to be open-minded, and be willing to apologize and admit that you were wrong or at least admit that you misunderstood something. Not everyone is always right - no one is perfect.
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11-20-2011
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#36 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Catharsis In all fairness, I'm pretty sure that more women than just chinagirl would like to see that "Ask the women" implemented as a subforum for the Women's Issues forum... Unless, of course, she's referring to a different kind of subforum with some other intention?
In general, how others will think of you will depend on how you present yourself to them. Just be nice and try to be neutral in any controversial subject. :) You can express your opinions, but also try to understand the countering argument, to see where they're coming from. You have to be open-minded, and be willing to apologize and admit that you were wrong or at least admit that you misunderstood something. Not everyone is always right - no one is perfect. | I don't believe you understand the difference between an open mind and an empty head.
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What do want?
A CURE FOR TOURETTE'S!!!
When do we want it?
CUNT!!!
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11-20-2011
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#37 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by petite I didn't have the problems you are having when I joined LPSG. The women here became my friends. I don't believe the problem is with them. I think it's you. | I had no problems when I joined either. I wasn't accepted right away - I had to earn my friendships with the way I conducted myself. I lurked for a bit, read the different forums and eventually started making posts.
We are strong women, no doubt about it. We don't always agree with each other and are pretty comfortable in telling each other to 'fuck off'. But I love these strong women, even if I don't always agree with them.
What makes me sad, is that you are a strong woman too. People are willing to give you the benefit of the doubt and accept you. You've made some incredible posts. With your background & culture, there is so much we could learn from you. To me, it just seems you're fighting the wrong fight. Don't you know that the women here love feisty, opinionated women?
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11-20-2011
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#38 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by aninnymouse Read the threads in the Women's Issues forum. She made her points in there as eloquently as she could. She was not very well received, though people were polite with her. Now, she's taking it out into this forum. Not Cool. | Like I said, " I think you all have a point, including chinagirl."
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11-20-2011
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#39 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by chinagirl4u2 So maybe we can can have a new "womans forum" that men can post in without the redicule so often seen in WI, those girls that dont want be there there, can stay happily in WI, others can post there freely, without being attacked for not following the "establishment" or not wanting to be that "knitting circle"
Just because youve been here a few years, doesnt mean your way is the "only way" and we all must conform and bow to you. | It's called conforming to prevailing community standards; put another way, it's "when in Rome, do as the Romans do". I have been know to post in the WI Forum and have never had a problem there, but I'm not a boor (usually, anyway).
You are a n00b, so act like it; you've been here less than a month and feel entitled to dictate tone and policy? LaFemme said it wonderfully: Quote:
Originally Posted by LaFemme I had no problems when I joined either. I wasn't accepted right away - I had to earn my friendships with the way I conducted myself. I lurked for a bit, read the different forums and eventually started making posts. | And not for nothing, but averaging over 26 posts per day is pretty obsessive, IMO. Maybe you need to back away from the screen now and then.
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11-20-2011
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#40 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Bbucko It's called conforming to prevailing community standards; put another way, it's "when in Rome, do as the Romans do". | Have you read Burlesquoni's quotes?
I think what China is saying is that she sees a rigid orthodoxy in the Women's forum, and that, as with all orthodoxy, has become intolerant of any alternative opinions.
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11-20-2011
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#41 (permalink)
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Doesn't all this kinda validate the accusations made? I mean i could be wrong but err there have been a whole crap ton of other threads out there and none have gotten this amount of attention from the community.
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11-20-2011
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#42 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge I request this be moved to the Women's Issue Forum. It has no place here at the Etc. Forum. If it can't go to the Women's Issues, please call the Wambulance to come and pick it up. | Ok honestly now, if she had put it in WI don't you think it would have been moved?
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11-20-2011
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#43 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by murkylurk Doesn't all this kinda validate the accusations made? I mean i could be wrong but err there have been a whole crap ton of other threads out there and none have gotten this amount of attention from the community. | No.
And she may well feel certain members have created an orthodoxy but if you actually read the posts of the people I believe she is talking about you will find diversity. And by that I mean actually read the posts and not just roll your eyes at the username and assume you know what it says.
Also, the last time I checked, no one has a monopoly on posting in the WI forum. If a person has a point to make he or she can make it - if people disagree they can disagree. I really don't get this whole idea that there is a gang of some kind preventing this. We are powerless to prevent it. I certainly don't want to limit the diversity of opinion on LPSG, I have always presented my own opinions in a forthright manner and I always will. I have no control over how others respond to that.
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11-20-2011
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#44 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by murkylurk Ok honestly now, if she had put it in WI don't you think it would have been moved? | Moved where?
She's been wanting our Women's Issues threads to be moved here to the Etc forum for days now. I suspect she was just getting the trend started on her own.
I don't think it was inappropriate for the WI's forum. I just think it's another weekly reminder of how much she thinks the WI's and those who participate in it because we keep the board clean of complete garbage or things that belong elsewhere we suggest should be moved to the appropriate forum.
She's due for another one of these complaint threads. Mostly because Dolfette had a thread that I created dedicated to her avatar (which has been a topic of discussion in many threads for years now) and she wants to dictate that only nicey nice conversations can happen between men and women over there regardless HOW ridiculous they get.
Like we've suggested she should create a fan group for herself and she'd be amazed at how many people would come out of the woodworks to give her the attention she desires. There are plenty of men who would sign up to receive the attention she wants to give them.
In the meantime, I think it's just another attempt to throw the site off-orbit where ever the women are likely to conglomerate.
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11-20-2011
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#45 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ManlyBanisters No.
And she may well feel certain members have created an orthodoxy but if you actually read the posts of the people I believe she is talking about you will find diversity. And by that I mean actually read the posts and not just roll your eyes at the username and assume you know what it says.
Also, the last time I checked, no one has a monopoly on posting in the WI forum. If a person has a point to make he or she can make it - if people disagree they can disagree. I really don't get this whole idea that there is a gang of some kind preventing this. We are powerless to prevent it. I certainly don't want to limit the diversity of opinion on LPSG, I have always presented my own opinions in a forthright manner and I always will. I have no control over how others respond to that. | Quote:
Originally Posted by Mademoiselle Rouge Moved where?
She's been wanting our Women's Issues threads to be moved here to the Etc forum for days now. I suspect she was just getting the trend started on her own.
I don't think it was inappropriate for the WI's forum. I just think it's another weekly reminder of how much she thinks the WI's and those who participate in it because we keep the board clean of complete garbage or things that belong elsewhere we suggest should be moved to the appropriate forum.
She's due for another one of these complaint threads. Mostly because Dolfette had a thread that I created dedicated to her avatar (which has been a topic of discussion in many threads for years now) and she wants to dictate that only nicey nice conversations can happen between men and women over there regardless HOW ridiculous they get.
Like we've suggested she should create a fan group for herself and she'd be amazed at how many people would come out of the woodworks to give her the attention she desires. There are plenty of men who would sign up to receive the attention she wants to give them.
In the meantime, I think it's just another attempt to throw the site off-orbit where ever the women are likely to conglomerate. | I didn't say there was a monopoly. What i am saying is that people stopped what they normally do on this site to pay attention to her threads. The roll your eyes statement was awesome too cause...i didn't. What i said was this.
Attention seeking person gets attention from the very people she wanted attention from.
Seriously, if she was looking for attention....she got it.
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