Being called the 'N' word during sex

This isnt large penis-sex specific question. But I am black and it often arouses me when a guy (of any race) uses the n word,such as "fuck me nigg-- " or..."give me that nigg-- dick"

has anyone else ever engaged in this or wanted to?

if not,how would you react if your partner said that to you/asked you to say it to them?

I've been told ''U like this nigga''

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Hmm, For the most part, it would make me very uneasy.

But,,,,I guess if I was close enough to you to be your partner, and you really wanted me to, I might. However, it would most definitely NOT be "N..er" , but more like "N..a".

When I was in grade school/Jr High, almost all of my friends in my neighborhood were black. They called each other, and even me that. It took me a while, but eventually I became accustomed to it.

My question would be, why you would want someone to call you that during sex?

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
I Love him 100%, and his 50% belongs to me
It takes more love to share my saddle than it does to share my bed

I would be shit scared to use that word, here in the uk we are assured that if we do the world will come to an end

I tried it out with a girl in college. She was a bit squeamish about it at first because of her upbringing but after getting comfortable with saying it, we had some great times.
It's definitely a turn on for me. I'm not sure, I think it has to do with the taboo aspect of the whole affair; it just seems wrong. I suppose it's similar to S&M or how some women enjoy verbal abuse like being called a bitch and such. It's twisted, it's dirty, it's unorthodox, and it's hot. I think you would really need to embrace the dark side of yourself to be into something like this, which I fully do.

I would be so turned off and offended.

I'd spit dead in her face and put my dick right back in my pants.

I don't tolerate racism.

Believe it or not, I am Asian and have this chocolate horse-hung dick. Don't know how I inherited the big penis genes -- probably from my dad's side. Never been called the "N" word, which is insulting and demeaning to the black.

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It's only racism if the word is used in a hurtful way.

Gangstas call each other by that term all the time now. It has the same meaning in some circles as "bro" does now. I've even heard black men calling their white homies by that name.

It's kinda like "faggot" - if used in a condescending way, it is one of the lowest of the low put downs, however, gay men call each other that all the time and is now a source of empowerment.

I was seeing a guy last summer (about two months) who wanted me to say it during nasty sex. Made me beg for his *&^%#( cock, and would use it himself when he was doing me. He was totally into it, but I would never just assume a guy wanted that said. He has to bring that up.

Ha Ha Ha. I know exactly what you mean.

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Ive heard it once or twice. Its akwardly funny

I'm white and have a lot of black friends and I have a black boy friend. I DON'T like the "N" word, never have and I've never used it. I know black guys often refer to each other using that word. It seems to be more popular now amoung younger black guys....

Anyway, I've even been called a nigg...., you know the rest. I didn't like it but I didn't respond to it either. It has TOO much of a hateful history and baggage to it.

Now, I can't understand why anyone would use it during sex with a black person. It's never even entered my mind. Now, I have a strong attraction to black guys but I've never thought of using it during a sexual encounter.

I like all kinds of guys but I prefer black guys; it's just what I like personally. To be frank, they usually have more athletic and attractive bodies, I LOVE the feel of their skin and their hair. I would go on but you probably get the picture...

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Me and one of my (black) friends talk about this once, and we both agreed it would be a major turn on to have a girl tell us "Give me that nigga dick" or anything like that.

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Yes, the dark side, or as that mad Christian woman who was spouse-swapped into a pagan household said, the dork side....