• don't respond to the flirty guys once you discover they are attached (because that's not what you ultimately want)
• do continue to
respond to anyone cute/interesting enough to pique your interest who turns out to be single
• maybe nix the idea of men being like car models...it would be insulting to (plenty of) women to be thought of like dolls and such, wouldn't it?
i'm sure you were jesting but i just thought i'd throw that last point in there, i'm claiming OCD counting obsession and needing three points to feel satisfied