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Getting off on inflicting pain during sex

Originally Posted by aninnymouse Exactly. Nothing wrong with a little slap and tickle, a bit of roughish nipple play, something like that. Hell, even the whole "Let me choke you while I poke you" thing

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Old 03-11-2012   #16 (permalink)
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Exactly.

Nothing wrong with a little slap and tickle, a bit of roughish nipple play, something like that. Hell, even the whole "Let me choke you while I poke you" thing has it's place. It's deliberate, severe pain that I'm talking about. I'm curious about that type of thing, and why someone would want to do that to their partner; 'cause that sketches me out.
I'm not sure there will ever be an answer to this that will be detailed enough that it will help those who aren't into it understand.

Just like how I can't explain why I get off on receiving pain. Sure I can list all sorts of reasons why it works for me mentally, but when it comes down to it, it just makes me cum. Simple as that.

I really am glad there ARE people who get off on inflicting pain. I wouldn't be much of a masochist without a sadist to feed off .
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Old 03-11-2012   #17 (permalink)
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Gosh, it almost hurts to read some of these posts .

My last girlfriend wanted me to pull her hair while we were having sex. I did it, but I never felt comfortable doing it, and it even took some of the pleasure out of it for me .

I just don't like the idea of causing pain to anyone, and I've never felt that pain enhances sex at all.

I don't knock those that do, it's just not for me
Don't get me wrong sometimes a nice touchy feely romantic roll between the sheets is quite enjoyable. Sometimes it's all I want or need. You connect more on a personal/love level. I do like that. But then there are times that I want him aggressive and a little rough. I want him to take me.

Hair pulling turns me on when we doggy or when I'm going down on him. On occasion he'll even put his other hand around my neck. The feeling of submission and being controlled, letting go, to a lover is fantastic. It's never to a point of any significant pain, more about him dominating me that I find very hot.
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Old 03-11-2012   #18 (permalink)
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I understand, I can get, and enjoy getting aggressive during sex. Aggressive to me, is throwing her down on the bed, holding her shoulders or arms down, thrusting and plowing my cock deep in her. Grabbing the back of her head while she sucking me and face fucking is a huge turn on.

It's the "Oww" factor that actually turns me off.

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
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Old 03-11-2012   #19 (permalink)
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The only time I enjoy inflicting pain is when both of us are going hard and deep and our naughty bits get sore and raw. Pure sex organ in sex organ mutual fucking pain. When I know and feel that what felt good and hurts so bad on me has a counterpart in her that felt so good and hurts so bad as well.

Like last night's bruise on my cockhead and her equally tender deepspot.

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Old 03-11-2012   #20 (permalink)
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if ya told him to stop, threw down the safeword... what do ya think he'd do, Ms. Dolfette?

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Old 03-11-2012   #21 (permalink)
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if ya told him to stop, threw down the safeword... what do ya think he'd do, Ms. Dolfette?
i don't have a safeword.

(yes, i can hear the eyes rolling)

when i'm freaking out i go mute. can't make a sound. it's happened while we've been fucking, that it's all been a bit to much and it goes. trauma reaction from having an eventful life. if i needed him to stop i wouldn't be able to tell him to.

love is a lie
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Old 03-11-2012   #22 (permalink)
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I understand, I can get, and enjoy getting aggressive during sex. Aggressive to me, is throwing her down on the bed, holding her shoulders or arms down, thrusting and plowing my cock deep in her. Grabbing the back of her head while she sucking me and face fucking is a huge turn on.

It's the "Oww" factor that actually turns me off.
Yep. Too much pain does nothing for me but just having me wanting the whole thing to come to a full stop. Total mood killer. That and the humiliation some people like. Personally I don't understand it. Real turn off.

But a guy being a guy, being true to his inner beast, being aggressive, and taking what he wants, while knowing the limits, is a major turn on.
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Old 03-11-2012   #23 (permalink)
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no eye rolling. was just using safe word as an example. i'm ever so much a RACK critter myself.

how did he react to ya going mute? closing down?

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Old 03-11-2012   #24 (permalink)
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how did he react to ya going mute? closing down?
the right way.

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Old 03-11-2012   #25 (permalink)
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kness.
as in he handles you with the care ya need.
even if not the conventional definition of care.

"Men are awesome", I say.
"NOT ALL MEN", the Mensí Rights Activists chimes in before freezing where he stands.

Iíve got him now, Iíve won.
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Old 03-11-2012   #26 (permalink)
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kness.
as in he handles you with the care ya need.
even if not the conventional definition of care.
and then he holds me all night. my head on his chest and his arms around me.

love is a lie
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Old 03-11-2012   #27 (permalink)
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dolfette, I think you should have a bit of a talk with him if you feel this way.
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Old 03-11-2012   #28 (permalink)
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I'm into both dominating and submitting. I truly need a switch for a partner. Only my ex girl was into being both and we experimented but broke it off before we can get too far. I also like when its a struggle and a battle. I've dominated quite a few people and while it's cool having so much power against them and them being completely submissive and free to my will, I personally get more turned on when my partners aren't so submissive and actually fight me for dominance. The very few who has done that and have overpowered me... oh boy!
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Old 03-11-2012   #29 (permalink)
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dolfette, I think you should have a bit of a talk with him if you feel this way.
we talk a lot.
but sometimes knowing what makes you tick isn't the same as knowing why it makes you tick.
i was the kid who took all the toys to pieces to see how they worked.

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Old 03-11-2012   #30 (permalink)
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i don't have a safeword.

(yes, i can hear the eyes rolling)

when i'm freaking out i go mute. can't make a sound. it's happened while we've been fucking, that it's all been a bit to much and it goes. trauma reaction from having an eventful life. if i needed him to stop i wouldn't be able to tell him to.
Safe words are for wussies, IMO.

If there's a safe word for me, it'd be something like "OUCH!"Too Much!" Watch IT"

I'm out of my mind, please leave me a message....
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