Dismissed from the bedroom?
I agree, lousy sex = DISMISSED,
"Swipe, declined!" For sexually confident women like the lady poster, and as a mature 40-ish woman.... Men, you only get one chance to make a first impression!
I recall having sex with a man who hadn't had sex with his wife for a couple of years I was told. I assumed he masturbated like all men and had some control over himself, too. He was in his late 50s (maybe even early 60's) , and I encouraged him to get Viagara in our prior talks, even told him how to go about getting it so he felt more comfortable, etc. He told me he didn't need it, that he would have trouble keeping it "down." Yeah , right, not so fast!
Warning to men who are "BIG TALKERS," better live up to expectations you create and if you can't keep it up, you should be amazingly adept at least with oral and a woman's clitoris, large, average and even small. This man was a lousy f**k, and by the time he decided to take the little blue pill I offered him, it was much too late. I realized how inept he really was as a lover, plus not very smart concerning women, and his own sexuality... Now i understand the reason his wife hasn't f**ked him in two years )probably been more than that really, but that's what he was willing to admit to-LOL), he just doesn't "get it." And he had the nerve to blame his lack of performance and abilities on the use of a condom, puhleeeez!
I realize this post may be a bit off topic, however, when above lady poster remarked about a dismissal, I had to laugh, to remind men to try to listen to a woman when she's telling you something! Sometimes some women know men better than they even know themselves! I think I must have left skidmarks in the driveway at this man's house --couldn't wait to go home and satisfy myself, fantasize about someone else!