So..my best friend wants to have sex... again

So, my friend wants to have sex with me... again.. we have done it once before, but afterwards things got really fucking awkward and complicated that we decided to never speak of it or do it again... that was a year ago..

Recently, he has been asking me constantly to come over to his place because he says " i need some dick in my life". (referring to him, not me) and i really don't wanna go down that road again.. but he is just so... demanding... haha.. Today , he practically tried to rape me... even though i constantly told him no... I really don't know what to do in this situation.. a part of me wants to just say fuck it, and do it.. but then again.. i already know the consequences of that... and i really hate to see him sad when i tell him no...

Its so hard being me...

So i guess ijsut want some advice.. and/or guidance in this situation...

its really hard to be on you situation...I guess you are too good fella...If I would be on your situation, I think I will give in easily...(lol)but of course the guilt is with in yourself...for me...you should do what is more beneficial and right for you..

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He sounds like he's trying to use you. If you can make it work as just "friends with benefits" and if the sex itself is fun, and you don't feel embarrassed or guilty, then do it. But if you feel guilty or awkward or you get the feeling that he really doesn't like or respect you and is just using you for your dick, then you know what to do. Tell him to wake up and find another outlet. Don't be fooled by his whining. Good luck.

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Does your friend travel?... :)

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So, what's the big deal??? He's a friend who wants to fool around. As long as you guys keep it that way, it seems harmless to me.

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Yeah... relationships are harmful!... (kidding!)

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Sometimes, being best friends means saying no! It's good to have fun. But I think fun is meant to be restrictive at times. Try to hook him up with someone else.
The difference between fun and chaos rests on a very thin line. which side do you really want to rest on

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I would suggest that you tell him you would like to talk it over with him before going any further and you want to discuss your feelings and how far each of you wants it to go.

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Some friends can take it, some can't. I had a best friend who did the friends with benefits thing and we now don't talk anymore. Shit got fucked up. But I do know there are some where the friendship itself doesn't go wrong.

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Just remind him how weird it was last time and how you both promised not to do it again. Personally, if you're that adamant about not doing it, I would add a "Now please stop trying to have sex with me or I'm gonna stop hanging out with you." onto the end of that. Lol.

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So you're conflicted. If you want to do it, do. If you don't, tell him no. It's up to you.

Is he going through anything? Maybe he's feeling lonely and wants to feel close to someone? I know I've been pretty desperate for sex and being physical when I was lonely and had no one to give it to me. I'd ask if there's anything wrong.... 'cause a friend, especially a best friend, knows that 'no' means 'no' and respects that.

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Yeah, I've been to points like that and just wanted to just feel something, anything. If I had a best friend that was okay with messing around and have no problem afterward, it would have greatly helped. I do have a cool friend who can do that for me, but the issue there is that he's in a relationship. Bah.

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I look at it this way. If the previous time you felt awkward and you keep saying no now then, I don't think you should do it. Tell him "hey I don't want our friendship to get awkward again, but later on down the.wrong if we can come to some mutual agreement maybe we can try something."

Do not let him force himself on you. That's not the mark of a friend.

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