bottomed for the first time

last night i went on a craigslist fling with a guy. he was gay and had plenty of experience with guys, and i had no experience whatsoever. turns out that he was a top.

so i decided to bottom for him, reluctantly. he had a pretty well-sized cock (bigger than mine), but i'm not sure how far he got it in me. it was weird because when he put it in, it felt like i had to go to the bathroom or something. ^^
he was thrusting at a medium pace so i'm sure he felt pretty good, but for some reason it was basically an instant boner-killer. i had trouble getting it up all night.

anyone else have problems like this bottoming (trouble getting hard, feeling weird, etc)?

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Totally, completely, 100% normal for your first time.

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A very large percentage of bottoms don't stay hard. Nothing to worry about.

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It actually took me a few years to get to the point where I didn't have that initial feeling. But with some practice and patience I promise it gets WORLDS better--just hang in there and don't let yourself get discouraged it's definitely worth it!

It is COMPLETELY normal. Invest in some toys to explore. The urge to go o he bthroom is becse your body ill his point, has only ever interpreted pressure and fullness down there with that need. It is trying to assimilate and process what is happening. After a bit (varies for each person) it will register the pleasure of having a cock there. Toys and self exploration can help with this. Of course it may never register as such. There is that chance. In which case you would be better off topping. But i wouldn't rule out receiving anal with out first exploring it more

I feel so different the first time I bottomed it didn't hurt at all (we used some lube) and my dick was hard the whole time, jacking off while getting fucked is just amazing and the Guy was pretty big too about 8 inches

GETTING jacked off while getting fucked is even better!

he doesnt sound very experienced... if he knew what he was doing.. he should have put his dick inside you and left it there... after a while you'll be like a bitch on heat :)

The first time i bottomed was short as the dude came in like seconds. But i had already been playing with toys a bit beforehand. The sensation for me, those first few insertions, was...odd. A mixture of almost uncomfortable fullness, the urge to go, and if i went to deep, then a pain and sometimes the feeling like my badder was being poked (and an urge to piss).

After a bit it felt really damn well good. I adapted fairly quickly. My erections came and went, and still do when getting fucked. For me it has nothing to do with the enjoyment. Sometimes all my attention is on the fantastic feelings in my ass, ya know. Sometimes I am rock hard throughout. Other times only when I(or my partner) are jacking me.

All within realm of perfectly normal.

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I'm about to experience bottoming for the first time soon, I wasn't sure myself as to buy some toys to get the feeling, but I don't know where to start, and my boyfriend is long but not very thick.

My biggest phobia is pain. and then theres the phobia of not being a good bottom or a clean one.

Any suggestions and is this normal for me to be feeling worried about it?

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All these thoughts / feelings are quite normal, and valid.

Sex is achieved largely with the mind ( or soul, if you like ) not just the bodily parts, even though by the nature of this site, people will also be wanting to know about the mechanical aspects.

Cleaning out is a good idea, but not usually essential. You can get simple bulb-douche things in a lot of sex shops / adult stores. Unless you actually need to go to the toilet AT THE TIME, then you're probably empty. Not always. But anyway, if there's a small mess, so what ? Not nice, but not the worst thing that can happen.

In terms of actually doing the deed, the key thing is RELAXING, and probably the first few times, taking it slow. That's one of the things where the mind can get in the way - making you/the other try too hard, like it's a competition.

It just isn't.

Have fun

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I've had my bottom played with and objects including a dildo up there but have long wanted a real cock up there, but am bit too nervous to try. Does it feel different from other pleasurable objects?

how did it feel inside of you, was there any pleasure back there?

I going to try my first time at being fucked. I'm a 62 yr old virgin to this, was married for 31yrs and now a widower. Have not had sex in 4yrs. Had my prostate removed, will this affect the pleasure? What's it like being fucked, and fucking a guy, how doesit compare to pussy?