The rules of kissing in the gay community

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I can tell you "why" from my perspective only....

I don't know if I was so much "in the closet", as I was internally battling with my feelings. When I started to accept my SSA, I only wanted "hook ups". This way there were no feelings involved, just sexual release and pleasure.

Kissing is very intimate to me. It involves feelings and closeness. Letting someone suck my dick, at that time, was an act of sex. Since I didn't particularly know them, or even wanted to get to know them, kissing was definitely off limits!

Now, if I'm with someone that I know and like, kissing can come naturally. I'm happily out of the "dating world" now, but if I wasn't, I would probably handle it differently now. I dunno

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yes, what he said! It is more intimate.

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A-fucking-MEN to that!

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Yeah...that is understandable when you put it in that context.

So, does it stem down to guys who have intimacy issues, is it a rule that I should learn, or is it just some kind of stereotype?

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i have always had intimacy issues with kissing
me Gay as they cum, but i hate kissing ha always have, a HUG is about the most intimate i get ish hah true..
then str into the Sex of course

actually i probably dont know my own strength, and some of the hugs are to the extreme, pain on the recipients body, often.


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so as not to offend the opposite, a slight peck, is as far as i will go hah

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Wouldn't really call it a "rule", but either the sexual electricity is incredible between you and your boy(girl)friend or it isn't. If the sexual electricity is real when you kiss it will feel wondeful if it isn't, kissing won't be much fun.

If you want something you've never had; you'll have to do something you've never done.

Like any community...some people kiss some people don't. A guy that doesn't kiss...forget it.

I like to kiss good kissers. Some are to sloppy. Some are too dry. Some are just right.

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Some guys do, some don't - a lot simply don't know how.

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Oh I wasn't saying all inexperienced guys weren't into kissing, but in the cases where the guys I was with weren't into it they were either inexperienced or in the closet.

I think this is changing somewhat, but when I was younger there really wasn't much or any visible male intimacy in everyday life. You didn't see it on tv and we didn't have the internet back then. Seeing male/male PDAs was rare. My first experience with a guy was nothing but kissing and lots of it. It was exciting and I loved it. However, I will also admit it felt somehow foreign. Pretty much all the kissing I'd seen in my life had been between a man and a woman and I felt very conscious of that fact throughout. It sure as hell didn't stop me, but it was there in my mind that I was doing something that wasn't considered normal. I wonder if some guys are still dealing with that and are afraid of letting go.

I had an experience with a guy years ago who wouldn't kiss, or fuck. I found him so attractive that I thought no big deal. Wrong. While the sex was really good, the intimacy of the sex act was missing for me. From then on, I swore I would only sleep with someone who liked kissing as much as I do. Imagine my surprise, when years later, I run in to the guy and decide to give it another try, and he's sticking his tongue down my throat. My reasoning of why? I think when I first met him he was truly bisexual, and was lacking in experience with guys. Prob had more experience with women. Years later, and a lot of experimenting with guys, he was more confident, sexually with guys. Now, he can do both. He can be inside a guy, and kiss him at the same time. What a bonus......

I think it's mostly guys that haven't come to terms with their sexuality that won't kiss or don't want to kiss. Kind of the mind set that it's ok to get a bj cause that's just a couple of bros needing to get off, but we can't kiss because that makes it GAY! haha

There should be some basic common sense rules...

#1 - Brush your fucking teeth and use some mouth wash once in a while.
#2 - Refer to rule number 1.
#3 - Kissing is done with your lips and tongue. Unhinging your jaw and trying to get half of my face in your mouth is honestly a little creepy. Use those talents for cock sucking instead. If I wanted slobbered on, I would let the dog kiss me.

Sarcasm is lost on so many people...

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Yep, that's exactly what my gay friends tell me.

Kissing is very intimate for me. In a group situation, if I'm not really into a guy, but perhaps we end up having sex, I won't kiss him. I mean, sex with a condom really isn't that intimate for me, but having someone stick his tongue in my mouth sure as hell is.

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I think there is something so very sexy about a guy asking to kiss you. A really smart guy would position in a way that would almost guarantee a kiss. ;)

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