The rules of kissing in the gay community

uncut1 · 05-12-2012

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Originally Posted by SmallweInFlorida

I think it's mostly guys that haven't come to terms with their sexuality that won't kiss or don't want to kiss. Kind of the mind set that it's ok to get a bj cause that's just a couple of bros needing to get off, but we can't kiss because that makes it GAY! haha

I agree 100%

D_Harry_Crax · 05-12-2012

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Originally Posted by colgan1999

I can't understand a man who will suck my dick but not kiss me

Me, neither. Nor a man who will let me suck his dick but not kiss me.

D_Harry_Crax · 05-12-2012

No one mentioned facial stubble. This must be an issue for women who don't like feeling itchy when an otherwise clean-shaven guy who needs a shave wants to vigorously kiss. Well, when there are two guys who need a shave, there certainly can be some skin irritation to try to avoid....

B_bonitamami · 05-12-2012

I can chime into this sucking but not kissing. For some people sucking cock is not about being gay it is more of a dick fetish. i personally do not find kissing a man erotic in any sort of way.

SyddyKitty · 05-13-2012

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Originally Posted by rbkwp

So, does it stem down to guys who have intimacy issues, is it a rule that I should learn, or is it just some kind of stereotype?

Think
i have always had intimacy issues with kissing
me Gay as they cum, but i hate kissing ha always have, a HUG is about the most intimate i get ish hah true..

Again, we seem to be rather similar. :) Our reasoning differs but the point's the same. *hugs*
I'm not turned on by much internal. Mouths are internal. I'd much rather kiss, lick, suck, tongue-lash the body than another mouth.

jerryhall · 05-16-2012

My experience is that there is a category of gay guys who don't like to kiss.

It's too intimate and they are just out for the sexual experience of the moment and not into exploring any emotions that kissing might evoke.

It's up to each individual to decide if he wants to be with that kind of guy, but it's probably a danger signal if you are trying to find a long-term relationship.

kayman · 05-16-2012

To me, it is a very important component of being with someone. Kissing is a part of intimacy between us and only enhances the experience of us being together. If they don't like kissing then I wouldn't even allow the idea of sex occur between the two of us.

B_thickjohnny · 05-17-2012

I think kissing creates an emotional bond between the two people - even strangers. I love kissing but in some cases I just want to have sex, get off and go. Some guys I just don't want to kiss because I'm not attracted to them in some way (strange that I want their cock but not their lips).

On another note, what do you do when a guy is a lousy kisser? One guy was good in bed but just the worst kisser. I am avoiding him because of that! I'm thinking that if we hook up again, I might politely tell him or show him how to kiss.

Another guy I met was THE BEST kisser ever and I keep wanting to see him again but he's moving and doesn't want to get too close. Damn!

P.S. I noticed with my ex, that there was a point in our relationship that he stopped kissing me. I mean, not the good night peck but kissing while having sex. I think I now see that that was a clue that things were changing emotionally for him.

OCMuscleJock · 05-17-2012

There are no rules... some guys just kiss to say hi. Hell some of the bars I go too...a gay handshake is grabbing someones crotch. :) It's up to you to take offense or not...and depends on what kind of kiss. Some people are just wound too tight. Also, for me, if interested sexually in a guy... if they can't kiss...a screw is pretty much out of the question.

The rules of kissing in the gay community

Originally Posted by SmallweInFlorida I think it's mostly guys that haven't come to terms with their sexuality that won't kiss or don't want to kiss. Kind of the mind set that it's ok to get