Need HELP!!!!

In my experience with folk afflicted as such, they often find compatible partners of a similar health condition, and lead very successful lives to-gether
Dont feel to bad by excusing yourself of her company, is my suggestion
Perhaps a time will come for you where you need to meet her staff or caregivers, whatever, and let them explain her situation to you, then explain where your at.

If she wants to get laid, why can't she get laid? I understand the concerns parent

just be extra cautious with these thoughts, as it can often lead to a disastrous outcome, for you.
Just not worth entertaining this thought, despite the empathy & compassion you feel

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

"ave atque vale"
(hail&farewell)

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Maybe she meant staph and doesn't want to infect you.

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MRSA can be hard to get rid of.

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She may have Aspie's, but could have Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder, or some other syndrome that allows a person to live semi independently, or even independently. There are also many other syndromes where chronological age is quite different from emotional age.

If you are uncomfortable with her, don't date her. Never date anyone because you don't want to hurt their feelings. Be clear and firm. If she's saying "I want to be your girlfriend and have sex with you", say "I don't want to be your boyfriend and I don't want to have sex with you". Stop taking her texts. It's not cruel. It's far kinder in the long run.

what Ms. Femme said.. Aspie was just a guess from Mr. Lucky's first post. could be anything of a million "offs".

I like this advice. Thanks. Those are good words to live by

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I'd just text her and say you're sorry, but you can't go out with her. You're flattered, but can't date her. Leave it as that. Ask her not to text. It might be she has any number of issues. I mean, wow, the spectrum on disorders is huge. Better to be kind and end it, than try to do something you are obviously not into.

There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.
Audrey Hepburn

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Ha!


Nothing a little Bactrim, Zyvox and vancomycin can't cure.


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With regard to the Asperger Syndrome, did she seem physically clumsy?

If God had intended us to run around without our clothes on we'd have been born naked.

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Talk about being in a pickle... Put me in for ignore her pleas.

Until you know exactly what she has, her mental and physical limitations, and are certain of her age the whole thing sounds really risky. For all you know she could be a 16-year-old schizophrenic psychopath who chopped up her first "boyfriend" and his dog when she was 10 because she loved him soooo much.

First of allMr.Lucky8,I have to say you seem like a real gentleman and very mature.You are handling everything in responsible way. I would meet her for a simple coffee and get to know her a little better.She may be the woman of your dreams, or she may have serious issues, but you won't really know until you get to know her a bit better. If you meet and find that you are uncomfortable and that it wouldn't work out,text her or call her later and tell her you had a nice time but aren't looking for any kind of relationship at this point.

At this point I really don't want anything to do with her. If I take her anywhere she's really going to think I'm interested and will make the situation worse. I've asked her to stop texting me as much, so she started calling instead. Over and over and over again. She's also been sending text after text saying she misses me. She sends the same exact messages over and over again, if I don't respond she calls. She just left a message saying she talked to her mom and she's "moving to apartments close to me either today or tomorrow." Well, that's not how rental agreements work, so it seems she's trying to find some way to not lose me as an acquaintance. Hopefully if she'll get the idea soon. I really don't want to have to literally tell her to stop trying to contact me. She seems to have some emotional hangups so I'm really trying to avoid being too blunt with her

Wow.....well with this new information,you'd certainly be well advised to have no contact with her and hopefully,she'll get the message and leave you alone. It sounds like she has serious mental health issues. Good luck and keep us updated.

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