Should I still give my ex a gift?

So, its quite a long and complicated story but before my and my ex broke up, I told him I ordered something for him from eBay and now that its finally arrived in the mail, its been bothering me because I don't know whether I should still give it to him or not.

I guess we broke up in good terms but he knows that I'm still trying to move on but I feel like I have to give this gift to him because I told him that I would get him it; and now its here... He also said the one thing that made him upset during this whole relationship was that we didn't get to take photos with each other but I do have photos of us on my laptop and was thinking I might include that in the gift as well... or will that be too much?

Okay honestly, part of me hopes to win back his feelings before its too late as he said that was starting to lose feelings and he was to scared to take it any further because he doesn't think they'll come back.... but also part of me feels like I really need to give this to him in order for me to move on but I'm worried of what he might think.

What should I do?

If it's what you need to gain closure on the relationship then I say give it to him. Omit the pictures as they are not neccessary if it's strickly for closure.

I would give him the gift. Just tell him that you had purchase it and wanted him to have it, no strings attached

give him the gift. leave out the pictures.

love is a lie

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Give him the gift. As for the pictures... You might mention you have them if he wants them, but don't include them.

I had to face this issue with one playmate over Christmas.

After a lot of effort I managed to procure a very rare, multi award Shiraz that I thought would have made a perfect gift.
Between getting the wine and Christmas he decided to be an ass and so I decided that my beautiful, thoughtful and costly gift would grace my collection rather than be cast before a man who obviously didn't respect me.
It gets it's 1/4 turn every 3 months.

Double Tap.

I think you should watch this opening scene from the film, Happiness:

Happiness opening scene - YouTube

Who split up with whom? Or was it a genuinely mutual decision?

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If you are on good terms give him the gift. Tell him about the pictures and give them to him if he wants.

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Give him the gift for closure and nothing beyond that.

You never know where you will find friends. Just keep looking and looking.

People judge and people are judged.

If you think life sucks now. Hang around you have a 50/50 chance it could get worse.

Careful what you say it could be used against you.

Give him the gift and tell him you've got the pictures if he wants copies.

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give him the gift of a final fuck so he knows what he's missing out on (that is, assuming you're good in bed). :D

If it's truly over don't communicate, send the gift via mail, as that is how you received it. If you want to give him the pics, fine I guess but the more you choose to engage the more leverage it gives him.

Burn everything.

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This. You aren't pushing it, but you're still letting him know.

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