05-07-2012
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[QUOTE=petite;4108680]Four times doesn't sound experimental to me. It sounds like he's bi, but perhaps he was trying to downplay it because of her negative reaction.
I'm not like this. Also, I love gay porn! Gross? No! HOT!!!
I've dated two bisexual men. I knew that they were bisexual when we met, before we became involved. The first one was my First Love and it was an intense and amazing relationship. I think part of my attraction to the second one was that I missed the kind of relationship I had with my First Love and they had a few similarities personality-wise, but things between us turned out much differently. It didn't bother me and I never worried that either one would leave me for a man because I never believed that either man was actually gay or incapable of being happy in a monogamous relationship. I never interpreted bisexuality as meaning that they could not be faithful.
if only more women were as open as you or better yet more understanding of the concept of a relationship and not be over clouded by there homophobia.
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05-07-2012
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Originally Posted by _Jonesy I don't really understand this story. Or how the woman works, so it is hard to make a conclusion.
Frankly, if it was me I'd trust him and allow him to indulge in his other urges by suggesting a MFM occasionally. This is assuming I am the woman. Sounds like she might be jealous/worried he will go back to liking guys so she may have some form of self-esteem issues. Maybe she thinks he is too good for her or maybe she doesn't feel loved by him? On the other hand they haven't even been together that long and are already talking about marriage.
I'll not really understand it until I meet the woman and ask her myself, but those are my initial thoughts. If a girl told me she used to be a lesbian, from a male perspective I'd think it was hot and ask her if she has any friends she wants to bring into the bedroom with us :P | that's my exact point.
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05-07-2012
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A previous GF kinda figured it out on her own that I have some curiousities. We liked to watch porn and then fuck afterwards. She knew I liked seeing big thick cocks spreading open pussy and gliding between a nice pair of tits.
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05-07-2012
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Originally Posted by milford1002 A previous GF kinda figured it out on her own that I have some curiousities. We liked to watch porn and then fuck afterwards. She knew I liked seeing big thick cocks spreading open pussy and gliding between a nice pair of tits. | i didnt think that was considered as a gay thing. isnt that why we like str8 porn to see cock ramming in to a pussy, like a luxury advertisement its design to evoke a feeling of aspiration or fantasy that one wants to be involved in.
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05-07-2012
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my sweetie, says he is str8, 1 or 2 don't really count, its just head! Nobody knows about his past with that guy or me, I think it mortifies him of getting out. Sad as we get along so well. Second input. My neighbor was just visiting last night, we are tight, she is young and pretty, he is HOT. She was telling me about how her gay buddy says my friend has to be bi or gay anyway. I hope my guy didn't have a guy in his past. I was like , prob 50/50 chance, its best not to ask or wonder. She was like he really well endowed! I was, please don't tell me, I think about him enough in that way as it is. She is cool with me, but not if he had played! only 21 !
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05-08-2012
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Originally Posted by ezrapounding Women, in their heart of hearts, are disgusted by any homosexual male activity, I believe. I would NEVER tell a girl of past homo activity.... | Women is a category, people have relationships with individuals.
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05-08-2012
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Originally Posted by ineeduiwantu now the woman has doubts, she fierce that he will stray gay again, should she stay or go? | Would she have had an objection if he'd had straight flings in the past? Entering into a relationship with someone who doesn't have a past is a sure sign that the relationship won't have a future.
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05-08-2012
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What happens in L-Vegas, stays in L-Vegas
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05-08-2012
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I would have a problem dating a guy who had been with 3 or 4 men in the past. why? I have issues even getting with men who have had many sexual partners. I joke about my boyfriends experience but sometimes his past does bother me. I have had only 2 longer relationships in the past and they were both virgins.
I have played around with many people but rarely go past using hands and very very rarely go down on people and i don't have sex with just anyone (under 10 so far)
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05-08-2012
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Originally Posted by Solvejg I would have a problem dating a guy who had been with 3 or 4 men in the past. why? I have issues even getting with men who have had many sexual partners. I joke about my boyfriends experience but sometimes his past does bother me. I have had only 2 longer relationships in the past and they were both virgins. | You are 70% gay & a hypocrite.
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05-08-2012
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Originally Posted by ColonialBoy You are 70% gay & a hypocrite. |
i don't have an issue that they were male partners. the issue is the number of past partners. I was raised very religious and I still have hang ups from that time. I am enough of a person that I don't lie about it.
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11-18-2012
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Originally Posted by ineeduiwantu ... | I think women have relationships based on intimacy and emotion. I don't feel they are as driven by sex as much as guys. If a guy is in a gay relationship- I think he is physically attracted to guys and that seems that it would be harfer to change or replace. Just a thought.
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11-18-2012
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I think the truth is that sex between men is hotter than sex between a man and a woman. No wonder she has an issue!
I'm actually just being flippant here. I do think that it's tough to tell the truth to women, even when they insist, because they don't want to know certain things. Of course, that may be just as true of men. There's a bit in "Othello" where he says he wouldn't mind if Desdemona, his wife, were "topped" by the entire army, as long as he himself didn't know!
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11-18-2012
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It really does depend on the individuals involved.
I've dated several bisexual guys and have had no problem whatsoever with their past or their sexual identity. If I were in a committed love relationship with a man and he wanted to bring another man into our bedroom, provided we were all comfortable together, why not?
I fall in love with a person, not his sexuality. If he's been with men in the past, that's part of the story that makes him who he is.
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