Um...didn't think this would happen, ever

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Ok so i was on this websit, chat room (yeah chat room dont judge me lol) and this guys messages me. and i think hes joking so im just "bs"ing with him. or so i think. He basically says move to mississippi and live in my house i will pay for everything. I can work in his office well he said "work." he wants me to be his. He will pay for everything and basically i would act like his freakin wife. I realize after a while hes not joking. Hes serious. Telling me we can travel the world blah blah blah. Does this shit really happen?! He really wants me to go live with him!! He doesnt know me and doesnt care! Im at a complete loss, for what to think! the idea did cross my mind no more work no worrying about money or bills. But I would be like a freakin Hooker!! What would you do?!

I dont think i will do it. (probably)

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Who knows he might be one of those we read about that the officials find bodies buried in his backyard.... then again he could be on the level... even if I was younger I would never go for a sight unseen deal like that.... way too risky.... and actually he could just be jerking your chain for the fantasy aspect and he was jerking off all the while you were chatting.

Would I do it? Of course not. Someone from a chat room? The first step, if you want to pursue this, would be to arrange to meet this person at some public venue and some neutral time (e.g. lunch at a town-centre restaurant)...

You know the old phrase? "If something seems to good to be ture?" This sounds very bad and wrong to me and I'll even throw in dangerous. (I personally would never pursue this any further if a complete stranger said something like this to me) but if you decide to (if he has the money to spend that he claims to) have him meet you in your city or town and have him check into the nicest hotel and when he he there you contact him and have him make a lunch reservation in the nicest restaurant in town and then meet him and take it from there.

If you want to catch the wave that is going to change your life you have to swim outside of your comfort zone.

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ok the part about doing it totally a joke. i just thought it was crazy that this dude thinks even if its serious im gonna drop everything and move out of state. i like my life here. i swear i thought he was joking until he asked where to send a plane ticket. people are a little nuts lol

A guy who wants a stranger he just met online to move into his home. Sounds like a desperate crazy person to me. All signs point to a significant possibility that he has a human head in his freezer. I'd put him on block.

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Don't. You don't know anything about him.

Get to know people first - and as Nudey says, it's too good to be true (and very irresponsible of him - and potentially criminal depending on what he has in mind).

You can always move in with me!!! I have a basement just for ya!
To the OP - Nope, never.

sounds like you will end up another disposable human, if taking it on ..

Nasty

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

"ave atque vale"
(hail&farewell)

Talk about RED FLAGS?? Everywhere!!

1. chat room
2. sight unseen
3. "work" (hook)
4. no worries ever
5. doesn't know me... doesn't care (god... do I need to even go there???)

I don't know how old you are... but I shudder to think that even the thought might pass through your brain that this would be a good idea...

short answer: no... keep it fantasy...

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I have gotten these offers IRL, usually coupled with a marriage proposal, but those were the ones that sounded more like business proposals to me. No marriage proposal should ever include information about how much assets you have and how well you could provide or what monetary benefits you would get. Sheesh. Some were supposedly very wealthy. I say supposedly because I never did a professional background check or saw a bank statement. I find those kinds of offers insulting that those men actually thought I would be interested in that, but I suppose someone who would make a crass offer would expect someone else to be be interested in one. The answer from me was always no, without hesitation.

I would also be skeptical that someone is trying to scam you since it's online. I was skeptical and I actually knew these guys IRL!

If you do decide you want to go forward, Nudeyorker's advice sounds good to me. I don't think it would be out of line for you to tell him that since you don't know him, there is no way to know if anything he says about himself is true and that you need time to get to know him and build up that trust.

Worthwhile:
The Capital-T Truth

Be a Romantic Fool:
How did you meet?
Adorable Proposal Video

Fun stuff:
Sucking cock used to mean something different
Irony Punctuation
I like big butts and I cannot lie but is there some evolutionary reason as to why?

Interesting stuff:
Video of a woman's brain during orgasm

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Ahh ok, didn't see this bit.

Good! Don't go there, and don't let him change your mind. :)

Do it

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Typically if something seems "too good to be true" it IS too good to be true. There's a potential for it to be a very unsafe situation.

I do want to point out that there isn't (in my mind) anything intrinsically wrong with being a sex worker too.

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There are plenty crazy people in the world - I see it in the news all the time.

If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space