Hetero friendship

My best bud and I share a lot of similarities, we've always joked about various different things and because we were both single and roommates we did everything together. We would often joke by saying things like "I wonder how many people think we are gay for each other." However when our lease was up we each moved back home. Our homes are about 6 hours away, but we keep in touch with each other daily. But one thing I've noticed is his language in texts has changed a lil bit and the joking about us being a couple has kinda been taken to the next level with the things he says. I don't know really what to make of it, he never came onto me when we were roommates and there were no real signs to me that he might have been gay aside from the fact that he never dated anyone. I don't have a sexual preference really. but I don't want to take anything he says the wrong way and potentially ruin the best friendship I have. Anyone ever have a similar situation? or some advice to offer?

thanks everyone!

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try to get the subject into a conversation indirectly just to feel what he is thinking

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That is the obvious answer, but when you're not in close proximity to the person in question often, it can be more easily said than done. Also, pushing boundaries a bit works much better in person than by text message because the nonverbal communication received from the other person is extremely important.

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In my opinion, you answered your own question.

Just enjoy his friendship. Don't let sex screw it up. Good friends are a rare find.

Now you listen here mister, God did not put me on this green earth to be awakened in the middle of the night with filthy suggestions by a foul-mouthed hooligan like you...

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Sounds right to me also.A lot to risk if you are close friends.Been there, done that, recently.He is very missed.

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Maybe his silent way of attempting to maintain the possible loss of your treasured friendship, suggest just keep that communication flowing, by whatever means and however you can
Skype, works well later on ha, true
Nice to hear .. especially great there was minimal sexual reference also, me thinks

a buddy for life, have to possibly work at it now tho ..

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how about a chat on the phone. a casual chat. sometimes it's easier when you can hear the other persons voice to know what's going on. but, as i said "A casual chat!"

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Maybe now that he can't see you as easily as he did before he realizes he LOVES you more than he thought?

That's kind of happened to me. A friend wasn't working for about a year and a half and didn't have much choice but to stay home or in his neighborhood. After a while I'd pick him up and he'd stay over at my place for a few days. We were ALWAYS close, but having that much access to him (NO sex) made our friendship even deeper. I know he feels the same way.
Anyway, he got his job back a few months ago, has a car and a girl friend now and I don't see him anywhere near as often. It has made me realize I'm even more in love with him than I thought....

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That is a tough spot, sorry. Know how it feels too.

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You say you don't have a sexual preference. That would suggest that you're fine with your relationship to your friend regardless of what he or anybody else might like to call it. So just be true to that friendship and let the labels go as they may.

i am one pushy bitch. and really, i have in my life caused the demise of a few real good friendships. you say the language from him changed. be subtle. change your language to match his. its a dance. as he is the one initiating the changes, let him lead. but never stand back and not respond. life is too short for that!!! and remember, 6 hours is totally driveable!! match his language and work towards face to face.
an orgasm with some is amazing, but worth messing up a friendship? not if you have hands to do it yourself!! best of luck!!

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How so? Give us an example of before and after...

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Yeah... what ^^ he said!

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Seems to me you've left out the single most important fact: does he know you're into men?

If so, let him hit on you.

If not, well, stay back. But figure out a way to let slip that you have been known to enjoy the taste of cock. See how he reacts.

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