Originally Posted by Sphinxx
Has anyone else ever been cometely in love with someone but not sure why? In my experience it was someone I wouldn't generally find particularly attractive, wasn't my usual 'type', was older than me, not rich enough to be useful, treated me quite badly and didn't seem to see the pain they caused me but I loved them in spite of everything.
I knew (and was told) that I could 'do better', but I didn't want better... I just wanted that person. Anyone experienced anything similar?
Yeh - cos you can't help yourself?
Something about them just does it for you - whether they have qualities you admire (or something about them that you can't put your finger on).
Originally Posted by petite
I believe I still loved every man I've ever broken up with when I broke up with them. I just no longer believed that the relationship could be salvaged or that we would be happy together and there's no point in continuing if two people don't make one another happy. Does that make me romantic or cynical?
That's when I usually call it a day, also. If I can see no possible way for it to work, then it becomes demoralising and pointless.
Originally Posted by Ramsey
It makes you practical
Took the words out of my mouth, dude. :P