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You don't choose to be insecure, petite. Is insecurity a flaw? You bet. Is it that person's fault? Is it something loved ones should try to understand and help you deal with?

I get what you're saying, but given numerous people found the title insensitive at the least and offensive at the worst, I know I'm not the only one who picked up on its full meaning, even if you think it was innocuous.

I don't think that means what you think it means.

Yes, and birthing is so pleasurable after all. I had 33 hours of labor and wished I had more so I could have continued the enjoyment of it. Do you truly think the vagina stretches to the entire length of a baby during birth? All but about 4 inches of the baby is in her uterus which has worked for many months to stretch to the length of the baby. It takes many painful hours to get even an inch of progression during the course of labor. Don't give advice on anatomy when you know so little about it.

I had a guy think I was dating him for his cool car, but we met through a similar interest in cars and mine was just as awesome as his. He wasn't schizophrenic. He was insecure. Don't give psychological advice when you know so little about psychology.

Maybe you need to crack open a can of Wikipedia and let it kick your ass a little.

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I find the immaturity of youth and limited life experience is glaring through the OP's posts. At least that is what I chalk her tactless choice of words up to. Be it in her posts or title.

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I agree Medusa.

Given the only and one-sided version of this relationship that we have, I would still conclude that he is unsure about the relationship rather than insecure about himself, and that he is probably right to be. He may not be of course, she may be paranoid, and equally he may be just enjoying the ride. Who knows.

As my Grandfather used to say, "If you are going to have a woman, why not have a beautiful one who wants to fuck you."

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As I was saying... so many variables....

Anyhow she seems to have disappeared.

Hopefully they figure things out.

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The story was BS anyway, but it made for a decent thread. Good job all.

I don't think that means what you think it means.

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I am going to start a new thread on the issues that this has raised.

As my Grandfather used to say, "If you are going to have a woman, why not have a beautiful one who wants to fuck you."

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Let's turn this around. Suppose that you were with an insecure woman who didn't think that she was smart enough or pretty enough to be with you. If she doesn't name why she thinks you're with her, or if her reason is that you love her, that means that she thinks highly of you. It's meaningful and says good things about your character if you stay with a person even though you could find someone less insecure or thinner or more educated or whatever she believes isn't good enough about herself . Her insecurity is about herself and she thinks that you believe in her more than she does, you think that she's worth loving despite qualities she thinks are flaws. Yes, I'd stay, too. If only that was what was happening with the OP.

However, if a woman says, "You're just with me because of my big boobs" then her insecurity really isn't with her boobs because she thinks her boobs are so wonderful that a man would trick her and stay with her just to spend more time with them. That is insulting to you. She thinks her boobs are great! It's that she thinks you are too shallow to be with her for any other reason. Personally, I would leave a person who thought of me like that.

What goes through my mind when I write the title is, "What will get people to read this? If I pick a bad title, it will be a dead thread." How you do you know that isn't what she was thinking? You don't.

The thread title doesn't have one interpretation. How she titled it might say more about what she thought would attract readers to her thread than it does about how she feels about her boyfriend. Now the wording of the OP is a different matter entirely...

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Me thinks insecurities run deeper than the physical, they always do. Physical insecurities usually become an excuse to fall back on for what lay deeper in a persons psych. From experience, when I question what lays beneath the surface, is when truth arises that there is another thing or things inhibiting performance. That is if the person you are with allows you to delve there. Yes, I be a delver...I like to know what make others tick....bastard I be. :)

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I don't understand what you said had to do with what I said. What performance are you talking about? I'm not sure what you're saying. Are you saying that someone who is insecure about a physical part of themselves is actually insecure about something else? Except we're really not talking about someone being insecure about a physical part of themselves. We're talking about the opposite situation, someone who thinks a part of themselves is extremely attractive to the opposite sex.

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The Capital-T Truth

Be a Romantic Fool:
How did you meet?
Adorable Proposal Video

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Sucking cock used to mean something different
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I like big butts and I cannot lie but is there some evolutionary reason as to why?

Interesting stuff:
Video of a woman's brain during orgasm

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This is BS. It has most likely got little to do with low opinion, but with bonding issues. I have had that kind of problems (not penis related, though, even though this site makes the world circle around dicks), and I have had a relationship survive that and help me become a very different person - with a life long friend as the site bonus. I am not saying you are certainly wrong, but I believe you are. Then again, the poster must know him better than both of us, and if she felt he really saw her as a shallow person (she seems the contrary, since she is well spoken and can formulate her thoughts) then she wouldn't have framed the issue as she has. It is about a person feeling insecure and doubting his own qualities, not his partners - though his partner becomes the dummy for his insecurities - if he is right about himself, then his partner must be shallow, but he wants his partner to make him believe her, i.e. that he is wrong in being insecure. But it is kind of a paradox, since the insecurity blocks the partners message from gaining validity.

To the op: my own problems got fixed when my partner made clear to me that it wasn't acceptable that I kept making her feel bad simply because I was insecure. Try to tell him (in a nice manner) that you will not put up with having to fight to make him believe that you like him - tell him that you do, and that he owes you respect and love etc. Don't make him doubt it, but make him realize that the issues lie within himself and that HE must work with them. It takes time, but it can be done.

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Did you read this post?

http://www.lpsg.org/302409-dating-a-...ml#post4148422

I'm glad that it worked out for you, but it didn't for me. The only relationship I truly regret and wish that I had gotten out of sooner, it was a similar sort of situation as the OP where my guy's "insecurities" seemed to be more about who he thought I was than who he thought he was, so I'm not talking BS. I wasted years of my life trying to be supportive and prove myself. We went to counseling together. It ended terribly despite martyring myself on his cross in order to try to prove my love to him. He was never convinced and he never treated me the way I deserve to be treated because his "insecurities" made him treat me like crap all the time. He wasn't worth the tears and the pain. I couldn't in good conscience recommend anyone else staying either, especially when I know what I know, so don't tell me that my experience was bullshit.

I'm fascinated. So many people told me that they thought I was "too smart" to stay with that guy and that I should have left him, but here's a lot of people who insist that I'm in the wrong for saying that the OP ought to leave. I suppose if she stays and then eventually leaves him because he's never convinced of her love for him, then she becomes "dumb" for having tried to change him and having stayed with a man who didn't appreciate her.

Worthwhile:
The Capital-T Truth

Be a Romantic Fool:
How did you meet?
Adorable Proposal Video

Fun stuff:
Sucking cock used to mean something different
Irony Punctuation
I like big butts and I cannot lie but is there some evolutionary reason as to why?

Interesting stuff:
Video of a woman's brain during orgasm

"Dating a guy with size insecurity"
"Accused of being a size queen"
"He thinks I'm only dating him because of his big dick"

I just wrote up three ways she could have framed this discussion (and ways that most of the female members of this site would have phrased it). Instead, she left out the dude and focused on his penis. Its not offensive (lol), just revealing about what the issue really is. She's better off just leaving the guy, although (if the story is even true) she doesn't want to because she loves the huge dick and the pornstar sex.

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Dont feel bad LPSG is full of little men who are jealous and women who seem not to care about cock..lol basically this is a gay site..which is fine but hetros (male and female)tend to get attacked here alot. kind of pathetic...not much support..more flaming and bitching..

I reckon the original post was from somebody with a fantasy who wanted to enrich it with some real world reactions.

I find it hard to believe a real life guy would have a problem with someone wanting him for his cock, or maybe that says more about me because i've spent too much time stuck in relationships with women who clearly want me but not my cock, or at least not as much as I'd like...

The times i've been with women who can't get enough of it are the times i've felt most happy. Again, maybe that says more about me. Maybe if I was a hugely hung superstud with an amazing body i'd be able to relate more.

I have been on the other side of "do you only want me for sex?" a couple of times and I've found it pretty easy to say something like "Of course I don't ONLY want you for sex, you are wonderful in these ways <insert a few non sex related compliments> but you really are the most fantastic fuck, of course I want you for sex too" which seems to satisfy, and if your lucky, turn women on...

This is where the OP really fails to ring true, maybe i'm generalising but if a guy ever really did ask that question and a cock-hungry girl said something like "of course I want you for all sorts of reasons but you do have the most incredible cock ever and you're so good at it, I just feel horny all the time around you", that guy's concerns would be satisfied and they'd be fucking within minutes.