Brother & friend with my GF

So this has been really difficult for me. My brother has a Memorial Day party every year at his place, but I couldn't make it this year because I had to be out of town for work. I was okay with my girlfriend going to the party without me because I didn't want her to be alone. I wanted her to have fun.

Anyway, to make a long story short, she confessed to me last night that she had a threesome with my brother and his buddy. She said they all got wasted and things just got out of control. I can't believe my brother would do this to me no matter how high or drunk he got. Right now I'm just so angry with all of them. I don't know what to do.

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Forgive your brother, dump your girlfriend, and punch your brother's buddy in the face.

snap...

give yourself some time to calm down... don't go raising hell on your brother right now... once you calmed down, think about what you want to say to him, and say it... your girl is a different story... all she had to do was say no...

Fuck that. The bother is the lowest of the low.

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Agree!
I'd say punch all 3 of 'em, but (1) don't hit girls, and (2) in all truth, violence doesn't really solve anything,,,,just feels damn good

Freud - to constrain sexual drives to socially accepted "norms" is something that we "learn."
Why is it so important to you whether someone calls themselves straight or not (unless they choose to berate gays)
I Love him 100%, and his 50% belongs to me
It takes more love to share my saddle than it does to share my bed

Cut them all out of your life. They're garbage. Good luck.

they held each other and kissed
and pushed each other's darkness into the corner
believing in each other's light,
each other's dream



i carry your heart with me (i carry it in my heart)

Saddest thing i have read for a while
Cheers to you matey
No suggestions actually?
just shaking my head in disgust, for all 3s betrayal ..
Keep Well

thinking, open relationship without you, Bastards ..
what is it Alcohols no excuse etc, getting wasteds no excuse, grrrr

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

"ave atque vale"
(hail&farewell)

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Dude THAT sucks.

So, take a moment to calm down and think things through. If you think you're able to fully, 100% forgive her then do so without EVER bringing it up again. If not, then you'll have to let her go.


Your brother? Well, that's tougher. He's your brother. You'll have to choose the right path for you. I can't give much advice on that.


The buddy? Is he bigger than you? Can you beat him? Cuz while violence doesn't solve anything, and you should never assault anyone, it WILL feel good to kick SOMEBODY'S ass! (half joking - half serious)


Simba

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Go with the flow, propose a four way.

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Punch your brother in the face and break his nose, then break your friends leg and kick him in the balls. Then dump your girlfriend like trash. No excuse for cheating and being drunk is the worst one people can use. Totally worthless to blame it on something instead of saying they arent mature enough to keep the boundries.

This is hard to believe but if it is real and i hope it isnt. Brother's friend is to be forgiven, if a girl is sleeping with his bf's brother why wouldnt he fuck her. The gf is a slut so just down the drain. Brother... now thats an issue. First i d tell everyone what he did so that everyone will know what he is, then beat him in front of all. This is the normal way of course, what i would do? I d just kill him...

As other people have said. You should give them all the finger. Do what you need to to get away from them. Only people who want to be forgiven will ask for it and it doesn't sound like any of them will.

More likely then not people will begin to see them for who they are. They were at a party and decided to screw you over. While you were at work more likely then not trying your best to pay bills/help support yourself or another and all around being an adult. My advice. Don't get too pissed off. Cause to all the good, smart and sexy women in your area you come off like a champ.

One that has just been put on the open market.

i can sympathise. my sister banged my then bf when i was preggers.

i say you can choose our family. she doesn't exist to me anymore.

love is a lie

^^WTF?

Everyone who has been really drunk and/or high can confirm that it is in no way an excuse for this.

If this guy isn't a friend of yours, he might deserve a punch, but he is not the real culprit. Your brother and gf are.

1. Definitely dump the bitch
2. Your brother deserves a kick in the nuts every time you see him. Maybe you can forgive him in a few years, but let him work his ass off for it. Definitely don't "forgive" him if you don't feel like it, just because you are family.

This looks like the right reaction to me.

This is btw even worse because of the pregnancy thing.