your lover is mostly likely finding his way past your cervix, into your posterior fornix.
unless ya man's glans measures in millimeters, or, you're in labor... cervix penetration doesn't happen.
feeling a dude bottom out - yeah. if i've had time/arousal to accommodate to his size/length bottoming out feels amazing. if he goes too deep too soon, if we haven't been making the nekkid adult for a bit *traveling for work sucks
* bottoming out hurts. jump out of ya skin *OUCH!!!* hurt.
there is a weird line in the sand with bottoming out/hard pounding. too much causes this ache-y/puke-y feeling if ya over do it. nudge-fucking seems more girl parts friendly for the long sessions. the pounding is loverly in short bursts. the problem is when full into the perv ya don't notice the ouch as much. endorphins, brain stuck in do-me mode, not really paying attention anything other than feels good. is easy to have next day dull thud.
so.. for ML - bottoming out after a good warm up = AWESOME!
bottoming out after a hiatus/too soon = OUCH!!
i can't think of a time when i didn't/couldn't feel a toy/the boy bottom out.