Originally Posted by dongalong
I see many ads in swinger mags. and sites here in France from couples looking for well hung and very well hung guys, I don't know if I'd be big enough at 8.75x5.75" what do you think?
What do you expect from "exceptionally well-endowed" males? Am I too small?
I could be getting lots of action, shagging other guys wives but I don't want be humiliated and sent home for not being big enough.
Don't know, really. Everyone's standards seem to be different when it comes to "well-endowed". At 8" long, measured at the top of the penis from the pubic bone to the tip, and 5" in girth, I consider myself fairly average. However, a lot of the couples, females & males we've swung with seem to think I'm hung like a horse (things must be so much smaller here in the UK).
Personally, when the wife & I say "exceptionally
well-endowed", we're talking 10 inches or longer, with at least 6.5" or more in circumference. But we're usually happy with what we get (we tend to go by photos moreso than measurements), provided there's a good, fun, intelligent personality supporting the cock who's not opposed to just laying in bed and chatting amidst the occasional fuck-breaks during an all-nighter.
When you reply to the couples, just be totally honest about your stats (if they ask) and be sure to provide pictures so they can judge for themselves. If you've got a good dialogue going with a prospective swing-mate (or mates), that counts for far more than the "tale of the tape".
Also, if you respond to a couple and don't get an answer, don't take it personally! We tend to get about 100 replies to our swinging ads weekly, and there's just no way we could respond to everyone in a reasonable amount of time...
P.S. ...btw, we've just posted an ad
here on LPSG to see what happens!