Quote:-"i asked her to stop she says no chance !!" Understanding how to make a woman squirt is important if you want to get her back on your side again, there is a lot of information on this site and on others, but I suggest that the next time you get a chance to go down on her (your wife) that you brush up on your oral and finger skills. My experience is that when a woman says that size doesn't matter its how you use, are either lying or are relatively inexperienced. I find that once my wife is warmed up rubbing my knuckles rapidly from left to right over her clit is sure way to get her to squirt, after that putting a finger very firmly into where her G spot is and massaging that hard into her pelvis gets her gushing. don't forget to keep the tongue work going LOL. If you are worried about losing her suggest that maybe you join a swinging site, that way you both get some benefit from having other partners.